Say somebody has diabetes which they are not managing well. They aren’t checking frequently enough, or using the correct amount of insulin, or whatever. If I’m a friend, I’d try to convince them to take better care of themselves. It wouldn’t make me sanctimonious, just rightfully concerned. Likewise, smoking is very concerning.
If I see a younger person smoking, I make a point of letting them know they shouldn’t. I start coughing on purpose when I walk by a smoker. I tell them, “That can’t be good for you.” I tell them to get out of the bus shelter when it’s 20 below Celsius and they think they can break the rules.
ChunkMonk, you can collect thoughts, have conversations, meet people, take breaks, and maintain good cognitive functions without smoking. All that’s left is being a rebel.
Now as Catholics, we’re already rebels, fighting social catastrophes in a world of people who don’t follow the rules. Why run to more people who don’t follow the rules? I think of most smokers as the opposite of cool. I’m around 50, and whenever I meet smokers my age, they’re still wearing the jeans and haircuts from the 1980’s when they had started smoking and thought they were cool. They’re stuck in time.
Emotionally aware people don’t need a crutch like a cigarette to feel like they’re part of a community. They don’t rebel against things like taking care of themselves, but rather against people who want to ruin social order.
People would sometimes call me goody-two-shoes when I was younger. I absolutely want to be goody-two-shoes. I want to be healthy and follow the teachings of the church.
As to obese people, whenever they give me a chance to advocate for exercise, I’m all over that topic.
I’m studying obesity now, and they have labelled it a disease now since 2015. I think it is NOT a disease and definitely affected by diet and exercise despite whatever contributing factors mitigate one’s moral contribution to the problem, such as genetics etc… If I get a chance to correct their diets, I will take it.