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Here’s a dilemma: make strange man on internet happy or make husband happy?
Think, think!
Think, think!
I wasn’t talking about you specifically. I’ll revise that:If you’re referring to me, then you should actually read what I wrote.
ThisMakeup is morally neutral. It’s the intentions behind it that is sketchy (like are you trying to seduce someone, are you doing it out of vanity etc).
Here Aquinas is stating Cyprian’s position.Reply to Objection 2. Cyprian is speaking of women painting themselves: this is a kind of falsification, which cannot be devoid of sin.
Here he is stating Augustine’s position.Wherefore Augustine says (Ep. ccxlv ad Possid.): “To dye oneself with paints in order to have a rosier or a paler complexion is a lying counterfeit.
This is Aquinas’s answer to both. Take note of the bold and he mentions that it is the intention that makes it sinful “when it is done for the sake of sensuous pleasure.”I doubt whether even their husbands are willing to be deceived by it, by whom alone” (i.e. the husbands) “are they to be permitted, but not ordered, to adorn themselves.” However, such painting does not always involve a mortal sin, but only when it is done for the sake of sensuous pleasure or in contempt of God, and it is to like cases that Cyprian refers.
never claimed that it is a mortal sin to use make-up, nor that it’s sinful for unmarried women to adorn themselves otherwise.
According to Aquinas it can be a mortal sin if the intention is to incite lust, or only sometimes venial, if due to vanity.It is a sin for unmarried women.
Both of those ladies never married and did not wish to get married, right?St. Catherine of Siena’s mother would urge her to pay more attention to her appearance, having her dress in bright gowns and jewels that were fashionable for young girls. She repented of this “vanity” (as its worded) and even cut off her beautiful hair. St. Gemma would wake up, look in the mirror and part her hair quickly into a zig zag pattern and walk out the door to go to church to visit Jesus. She also often wore the same old dress, to the embarrassment of her family.
Haha. I never thought of it like that before, but I agree.believe it was Johnette Benkovich who said (and I am para phrasing here) for some wearing makeup is an act of charity.
I feel like that doesn’t cover all of the possible motivations (desire to look professional, desire to dress similarly to peers, desire to avoid age discrimination at work, desire to disguise ill health, acne, scars, etc.). You’re kind of assuming that the motivations have to be culpable, which is begging the question.St. Thomas Aquinas says makeup for married women would be permitted. He says those who are single would be committing venial sin if done so from frivolity, or from vanity for the sake of ostentation. They would be committing mortal sin by desiring men to lust after them.
How about arsenic!Lead, anyone?