I question whether its the duty of the law to protect us from ourselves though. The law should obviously never be an opponent of natural law, but I don’t believe its necessary for the law to take it upon itself to prosecute the natural law in instances where one person does no harm to another.
For instance should we outlaw masturbation in the privacy of ones own home? Is that the duty of the law? I do not think it is the laws duty to do so.
A case might be made for condoms though in that using a condom during sex is a crime against ones partner whether they willingly agree to it or not. A example of this already in effect would be prostitution where it doesn’t matter whether the prostitute is willing or not, it is still a crime. The law should go about regulating condoms though in the same way it regulates prostitution. Not by barging into people’s houses, but by going to the source of the problem and working to control the distribution of condoms.
Nate13: You say that we should not outlaw masturbation, but can I ask, if a married man masturbates, is this not a crime to his partner? How about an act of sodomy with her? I think some might say, for many of the reasons you might give, that it is. If so, why should it not be regulated? Could you give a reason as to why condoms should be regulated that would not also entail banning things like sodomy, oral sex, or masturbation?
Let me pull out some other quotes of yours:
“Contraception might lead to the destruction of the family unit, which might lead to the destruction of society. This assumes we agree of the importance of the family unit to society and civilization.”
“We don’t legislate based on how we believe people should act, we legislate based on how they do act. Does using a condom during sex automatically mean you are going to take her for granted and see her as an object? No, but the last 60 years have shown that it has had an effect to that end in many cases that is weakening the family, which in turn weakens society.”
Could not one say the same about any activity contrary to natural law? If this is the reason for banning condoms, I suppose I am not sure how you separate what should stand as positive law from natural law with respect to these sorts of issues. Further, the claims above strike me as empirical which, one might argue, could be invalidated over time. Would you accept then, if these are your reasons for banning condoms, the possibility that condoms at one point should be legal in that they might one day be beneficial to society?
Perhaps, you might say, that the empirical evidence is indicative of what might be the more crucial point: that contraception is contrary to man’s ordering with respect to sex and could never therefore prove to be beneficial to society. If you feel this charge is appropriate, can I ask, how does one know what man’s ordering with respect to sex is? What tells one that a penis and a vagina themselves, or engaged in intercourse, are ordered to procreation? What sort of ordering might this be? Biological? Furthermore, even if one could be sure of the ordering or purpose of these organs, particularly if it proved to be a rather exclusively biological one, how does one know that it would be morally wrong to act in a way that strays from such an ordering? Why would it be wrong for one to act in a way that is different from the way one’s organs are ordered? To put the point another way, it seems that at least by some standards the human body is not biolgically ordered to be thrown on a cross to be crucified, but does this mean that to do so could never be the right thing to do?