Yes. Funnily enough I am fairly well versed in the bible and Christianity and am rather involved in youth group… I’m also good friends with the local priest and nuns and often have lengthy debates on religion. However I’m not officially “out” as an atheist.
It is not funny at all. You have no business being involved in youth ministry. I agree with an earlier post that, if I send my child to youth ministry, I have a right to expect them to be taught the traditions and principles of our Faith, respectfully. It is fair to expect that they will not be taught by someone who has such disrespect and distain for that which I hold to be true, which sounds like your intent. Go find a girl scout troop to lead, if you must, but stop interfering with our children’s lives within out Church. They get plenty of influence from the masses without your ‘help’.
And… if you are presenting the truth … you ARE keeping one of the Ten Commandments… “Honor your mother and father.” So while you are doing something you deem meaningless, God is taking note of your honoring your mother. However, He is also taking note of your living a lie, so I hope it goes well for you in the future. God bless you!
I respectfully disagree with the above statement about 'honoring your mother". If your posts are true, you have no business participating in communion in any fashion. You are NOT honoring your mother by a) lying to her or b) thumbing your nose at that which we hold most the sacred, the Eucharist. It does not honor a mother or father if a child lies or misrepresents their intention. Attending Mass would be honoring your mother. Showing such condescending and distainful attitudes toward the Catholic Faith is not honoring anyone. Pretending to care for your parent’s sake is not only dishonest, it is weak. My daughter does not believe in what she considers to be ‘organized religion’ (though I shudder to think what disorganized religion would be like). She did, however, attend Mass at the Cathedral this Easter (a first). She would never presume to receive Holy Communion, although ‘technically’ she could. In this way, she honored me without being disrespectful.
My final thought is for those who believe that no harm is done by someone who does not believe in the the real Presence both receiving and distributing the Eucharist. I would ask that you look to the messages of Our Lady relating to how Jesus suffers when those who receive the Eucharist when they are not in communion with the Church. In her messages, I recall descriptions of Jesus’ body suffering sores from all those who are receiving Communion while not in a state of Grace. There are certain requirements that are to be met in order to receive Communion, even as a practicing, believing Catholic:
First, you must be in a state of grace.
Second, you must have been to confession since your last mortal sin. Canon Law requires, “A person who is conscious of a grave sin is not to . . . receive the body of the Lord without prior sacramental confession…” I thought it was a requirement that you have gone to confession at least one time per year, during the lenton season, but I may be wrong.
Third, you must believe in the doctrine of transubstantiation.
Fourth, you must observe the Eucharistic fast. Even if you were to go to confession, it would be invalid if you do not believe. The idea of the Jesus suffering because of your actions saddens me. Since you claim to be welll-versed in the bible, your choice is not one out of ignorance. More to the point, my suspicion is that you may enjoy the idea of having such power. This is a loss both for you and for the people who make up the Church.
You claim to be good friends with the priests and nuns. Do you lie to all of your friends, or just the Catholic ones? I can’t help but think that you simply enjoy ‘poking’ at Catholics.
I will admit that your posting has triggered some interesting conversation, thought-provoking responses and prayers. One of the many ways in which God can use all things for His good, if we let Him.
If your post is genuine, I ask that you reconsider your actions out of decency and respect for those of us who are believers, particularly your mother. Otherwise, you fall into the category of those who mocked Christ while he carried the cross. Not a very kind picture.
Respectfully,
Maggie S.