You know, I think many of us have forgotten how much pressure there is on any given generation when we were kids. We live in terror that someone will laugh at our cloths, our haircut, that we will answer a question incorrectly, or miss a hoop in the gym [even though most of us did half the time.]
MOST parents are aware of this, and do what they can to boost their kids confidence, and make them feel good about themselves, and when we came home after some humiliation, Mom or Dad tried to make it right, if we were lucky.
Sure, some parents might have gotten a good laugh if Jr. got in to mommies closet once, but after one or two times it becomes a pattern. That is when parenting skills need to keep in. We had magic shows, we didn’t have drag shows. I should not have to even remind anyone that the early years are the most important in a child’s development.
Things are even harder on children now than they were for us. Last year at our High School four kids committed suicide, four! Pretending that all the crazy stuff going on right now protects no one. After school satan clubs, lesbian gay straight alliance clubs. So no. One time it’s cute. After that it’s time to buy Jr. a G.I. Joe and a sailor’s suit.