An increasingly sad & frustrated Single needs advice

[bear06]

I’m back again for more advice.

So, the CDs that I lent my ex friend who is a girl" arrived today with a wee letter. In it:

1. She thanked me for lending the CDS and they were great to listen to.
2. She thought she would send me them now because she is away to visit relations.
3. The letter finished with “take care and may God bless you”.

When I return her CDs, this week or next week, I had thought about maybe inclduing a wee letter asking saying words to the effect that it might to good to meet again as friends only as we both agreed we enjoyed each others company.

So, your thoughts on whether I should do this or whether I should just leave things.

I’m kinda surprised that I got a nice wee letter with the CDs.

I know that I must ultimately make the decision, but I have always appreciated your advice and would invite your honest comments.

You already told her you didn’t think you could just be friends and thought it was best you didn’t see her so if you choose the friendly route, you’ll have to apologize for over-reacting. I think it would be fine to do so* as long as you were willing just to be friends*. Maybe she’s got another friend for you!

 

[Cygnus_X1]

I’m back again for more advice.

So, the CDs that I lent my ex friend who is a girl" arrived today with a wee letter. In it:

1. She thanked me for lending the CDS and they were great to listen to.
2. She thought she would send me them now because she is away to visit relations.
3. The letter finished with “take care and may God bless you”.

When I return her CDs, this week or next week, I had thought about maybe inclduing a wee letter asking saying words to the effect that it might to good to meet again as friends only as we both agreed we enjoyed each others company.

So, your thoughts on whether I should do this or whether I should just leave things.

I’m kinda surprised that I got a nice wee letter with the CDs.

I know that I must ultimately make the decision, but I have always appreciated your advice and would invite your honest comments.

I say move on. While there is such a thing as wooing and/or winning a woman over, it sounds like “she’s just not into you.” You just can’t force it.

If you’re like me, you’ll probably never completely believe it, but this is her loss.

Not that you’re supposed to like it or anything. Just move on.