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I think your advice and the advice from PaixGioiaAmor makes sense. I can totally understand if his reaction is what I anticipate (“who are you to tell ME”) and really couldn’t fault him for it (I didn’t mean to imply I would in my previous post). After all, I’m no liturgical expert that’s for sure and the little bit I do know doesn’t compare to what he knows. And, for the record per the posts above, there is no doubt showing him something from Adoremus would not be helpful. He has made known his dislike for “traditional, sacred liturgy” (bells, traditional hymns, incense, etc.)With regard to Elizee’s question, I agree that going in with the suggested documents would probably not be the best way to handle this. She’d be running in trying to fix something that she likely doesn’t fully understand.
Elizee, if you really think this needs addressing, if you really think he’s leading people away or somehow denigrating the holy sacrifice of the mass (and from what you’ve written, the part about the laity reading the gospel concerns me the most), I’d suggest speaking with the pastor about this directly. Just a conversation about intention though, not a discussion of the rules. Ask him why he’s doing this, and discuss with him your concerns once he has laid out his thoughts. If I had to guess, I’d predict he’s doing this out of some folksy notion about including the participation of the laity in the mass that he probably picked up in seminary 20 or 30 years ago, and may be really trying to reach out to people and draw them in, in which case your discussion with him about how that just isn’t working and why would be much more useful than presenting him with the rules.
To my thinking, going to the rules is the option of last resort, as it means that I was unable to reach an agreement with the person from first principles and shared interests. It reflects, to me, a failure to connect. Now, if other methods haven’t done it, if you haven’t been able to discuss this and come to an agreement, resorting to the rues is what must be done, but I’d really suggest holding that option in reserve.