I’m not sure how much difficulty plays into being a good Christian. We are called to take up our Cross and grow in grace, live the Christian life, and trust in our faith in Christ Jesus. I personally don’t think fasting for months on end is what Paul had in mind in his Epistles and just challenging the heck out of someone to give up things and fast and spend hours and hours doing devotions isn’t necessarily what I’m looking for. If you want challenging, Catholicism is PLENTY challenging. It requires one to regularly confess one’s sins, attend Mass on all obligation days, to fast during Lent, to use natural family planning (that’s a lifelong penance and purgatory in itself! IMO!), to follow the catechism (again, not easy), to love one’s neighbor as one’s self, and it encourages you to pray the Rosary, go to daily Mass if possible, on and on…There is plenty of demand in Catholicism to step up. I wouldn’t make it about which church is the ‘hardest’ or tortures ya the most
I find Eastern Orthodoxy too foreign for my tastes. I cannot identify with Russians and Ukrainians and Egyptians and Latvians, Greeks, etc. The Catholic Church Christianized Europe nicely and has had a far more significant impact on the Western world I’ve grown up in and love so much than the Orthodox world. I think Catholicism, without sounding redundant here, is more Catholic—universal. I also think that there is no higher-profile, more powerful, more relevent, and more credible leader than the Pope on the world stage. If Europe gets re-Christianized, it’ll be the Catholics leading the charge. In the fight against abortion, euthanasia, stem cell unethical research, in vitro, trial marriage, homosexual ‘marriage,’ women’s ordination, and so many other issues, it’s the Catholic Church that leads, nobody has such a mitre to wear IMHO. And despite my disagreement at times about how they do things, look at how Catholic media is fighting so hard to win souls to Christ in the Catholic way of worship and faith! Catholic answers and EWTN are just two big examples of the influence of Catholicism fighting to bring the faithful to the Church.
As far as councils go, I think history has affected things a great deal! The Bishop of Rome was isolated and walled-off by the barbarian invasions and was left to himself to guide the West so much. Islam, Communism, and other evil forces have put up more of a wall than even the stubborn nature of the Orthodox and Catholics when it comes to reunion and communion.
I think it also boils down to what one believes about Original Sin, Atonement, soteriology, liturgy, etc. when looking at choosing between the two. I laud Catholicism far more in their desire for reunion. They’re the ones, from what I see, making more overtures and effort. They are far more complimentary and kind to Orthodoxy than Orthodoxy is to Catholicism. I also hold to a more Augustinian understanding of the transmission of orders than the Cyprianic model that the Orthodox hold to. I’m an Augustinian kind of guy across the board really, not a good Orthodoxy candidate. I pondered Orthodoxy for a while. There are two of them about one hour north of here. But my Western views, Augustinian theology, and not wanting to be the Anglo amidst Russians, Ukranians, Serbians, Greeks, and Egyptians also shooed my away. I realized I was only looking at Orthodoxy because I was angry and disappointed and out of sorts (still am

) with Catholicism so they seemed the logical alternative. At this moment in time I’m caucusing with the Anglicans. While I’m full of bewilderment, frustration, and occasional head-scratching with Anglicanism (especially globally, ouch!), I know that I can think for myself a bit, not agree with everything down to the smallest hair of dogma, and there is dignified, lex orandi lex credendi worship. I’m an eclectic Christian anyway. I guess I fit an Anglican mold. I’m more of an imputation sorta guy on one hand, more of a Pauline/Augustinian with Romans and Galatians guiding my soteriology, and yet I believe in the Priesthood, sacraments, transubstantiation, love Mary, love confession, hate indulgences, believe in episcopal governance, and yet I lean toward substitutionary atonement almost like a calvinist at times! I’m crazy like a fox in my Christianity

I have been exploring both Roman Catholicism and Orthodoxy for the past few years, since I began to study the Early Church Fathers.
In some ways, Roman Catholicism would be easier for me as an Evangelical Anglican, especially culturally. Orthodox churches often have food festivals to celebrate Greek, Middle Eastern, or Russian culture. If you don’t hail from one of those areas, you can feel a bit of an outsider culturally.
Still, I would say Orthodoxy holds more appeal for me. In terms of theology, they have fewer dogma. All those post Schism dogma that Evangelicals find so troublesome–purgatory, Papal infallibility, the immaculate conception, the assumption–are not dogma in Orthodoxy. Never mind that the Orthodox may have similar notions just described differently (eg the Dormition of the Theotokos). At least in Orthodoxy, one doesn’t put his salvation in grave danger by seriously questioning whether the Theotokos was sinless or the Pope infallible.
.