I recently went to a service in the Episcopal Church that was Confirmation and Reception into the Church - people who were choosing to be sacramentally part of the Body of Christ via the Episcopal branch (many being received, btw, were Roman Catholics). In that laying on of hands, the Bishop asked them to affirm many things, firstly through the Apostles Creed, and then in numerous questions:
Do you believe in Jesus Christ?
Will you continue in the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in the prayers?
Will you seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving your neighbor as yourself?
Will you strive for justice and peace among all people, and respect the dignity of every human being? etc, etc. (See the BCP if you want the liturgical text.)
Never once did I hear the Bishop ask: Will you oppose same sex marriage? Do you believe abortion is wrong? Are you a voting Republican? What is your moral opinion on hot button issues? I have never seen that check list in any church I have been in, although it has come pretty close, in my opinion.
Jesus Christ and His Church is, for me, an open and inclusive Body. Even Bishop Jack Spong is welcome to think, reflect, wrestle with and write about his theology. Some love him and some roll their eyes, but he is ours and he is welcome.
No one. NO ONE can judge who Jesus loves and cares for as a part of His Church on earth.