Anglicans: Why don't you come home to Rome?

  • Thread starter Thread starter Dempsey1919
  • Start date Start date
Status
Not open for further replies.
Cinette,

Actually, GKC is one of the few non-Catholic posters here who has pretty solid grasp of Catholic teaching on the subject, he just happens to disagree with it. 😉
:hmmm:

Again I say we have to submit to the Magisterium - it emanated from Jesus and his Apostles after all.
 
It seems to me that you do not fully understand the meaning of infallibility

🤷
It seems to me that you’re wrong. I could cite you Ott, or describe the differences between the dogma as it was first promulgated at Vat I by the uber ultra-montanes, and how it was finally defined there. But, as I said, you can take it that I’m familiar with the definition. Trust me.

GKC
 
Cinette,

Actually, GKC is one of the few non-Catholic posters here who has pretty solid grasp of Catholic teaching on the subject, he just happens to disagree with it. 😉
I thank you for the kind words, and affirm your conclusion.

GKC

Anglicanus Catholicus
 
I thank you for the kind words, and affirm your conclusion.

GKC

Anglicanus Catholicus
If GKC stood for G K Chesterton I might take note but…

:extrahappy:

Seriously, as I understand it infallibility means that the Pope cannot err in matters of Faith and Morals. Surely the Holy Spirit is guiding our Holy Father? And Faith is not a matter of agreement, of opinion! Your colleague respects you I understand but I am not sure I would be convinced.
:cool:
 
:hmmm:

Again I say we have to submit to the Magisterium - it emanated from Jesus and his Apostles after all.
I agree. I can’t buy that the Church could do things infallibly up until (insert doctrine/dogma that you don’t agree with here) happened, then it was off the rails. I think *we’re *the ones who go off the rails 😃
 
Hi, Karen,
My experience was the opposite of yours! Our Anglican Vicar never had time to speak to me. I contacted him once because I was having serious problems and he told me to ring back and make an appointment in a couple of months as he was busy!
It is rough to feel alone and in need of help - asking for some and then effectively getting rejected. Sorry to hear of your experience in this way.

While our strength and resources are in Christ - we all appreciate the helpful hand of a person educated and trained in caring for people’s spiritual needs.

God bless. 🙂
 
Hi, Mandy,
My daughter married an Episcopal. I’ve asked her many times why she will not attend Mass with us. Would anyone have any ideas of what I could do to get her to Come Home? Mandy31
There are two links you may find helpful when it comes to looking at a role model of a Mother who sought the conversion of her child. St. Monica and her prayerful approach to this issue has a lesson or two for everyone. Her feast day is on the 27th.

newadvent.org/cathen/10482a.htm

americancatholic.org/Features/SaintOfDay/default.asp?id=1120

God bless
 
Hi, Mandy,

There are two links you may find helpful when it comes to looking at a role model of a Mother who sought the conversion of her child. St. Monica and her prayerful approach to this issue has a lesson or two for everyone. Her feast day is on the 27th.

newadvent.org/cathen/10482a.htm

americancatholic.org/Features/SaintOfDay/default.asp?id=1120

God bless
Hi Tom,

Would you please explain to me why St. Monica’s example would still apply to Mandy’s married daughter? I am a little bit uneasy with a mother stepping across the line in her daughter’s marriage. Mandy’s son-in-law is a Christian and the spiritual head of household to his family,correct? From Mandy’s post her dauughter is not unhappy with her husband’s choice in churches and respects his decision. St. Monica’s son St. Augustine was not married nor a Christian when she followed him all over the place. St. Monica wanted her husband and children to be Christians by excepting Jesus Christ as their Savior and being Baptized. From all accounts Mandy’s daughter and son-in-law are baptized active Christians attending Church.

God Bless!
 
Hi Tom,

Would you please explain to me why St. Monica’s example would still apply to Mandy’s married daughter?
Not to answer for Tom, but while Catholics would recognize that Mandy’s son in law is, of course, a Christian, he is not in communion with the Church. Mandy’s dismay is justified as her daughter is now no longer in full communion, has lost access to the sacraments and has possibly committed mortal sin by missing Mass, etc.

Her duty as a mother and a Catholic is to pray that her daughter return to the Church (along with the rest of her family). I don’t envy the delicate position she’s in, but it’s not possible for her to be happy with the status quo and do nothing.
 
Not to answer for Tom, but while Catholics would recognize that Mandy’s son in law is, of course, a Christian, he is not in communion with the Church. Mandy’s dismay is justified as her daughter is now no longer in full communion, has lost access to the sacraments and has possibly committed mortal sin by missing Mass, etc.

Her duty as a mother and a Catholic is to pray that her daughter return to the Church (along with the rest of her family). I don’t envy the delicate position she’s in, but it’s not possible for her to be happy with the status quo and do nothing.
Hi Chris!

Thank you for your reply!

Praying for our children is our duty as parents, I believe. I know that my parents continue to pray for myself and my husband plus our children. However is trying to encourage your daughter not to follow her Christian husband as a wife correct? Does Mark 10:9 also include moms?

God Bless!
 
Hi, emeraldcoast
Would you please explain to me why St. Monica’s example would still apply to Mandy’s married daughter? I am a little bit uneasy with a mother stepping across the line in her daughter’s marriage.
The way that I read Mandy’s post, I understood her to be both upset and concerned. Talking to God has a way of resolving many issues in our own hearts.

You are quite right about there being boundaries - but, as long as Mandy is praying to God, in the persevering manner in which Monica did, I am confident that God will answer her prayers. How God does this remains to be seen - but, the issue is perseverance and here is a role model.

My understanding is that you are 100% correct concerning the life of Agustine and Monica, but my intent was not to try and find an exact match in this case (even assuming one existed). Rather, here is an example of an upset and concerned mother who brought her heart and focus to God. Such dedication can be a good example for all of us…even those who are happy with the choices their offspring have made 😃

The post I made was not an invitation to nag, meddle, intrude, disrupt or what-have-you into the lives of one’s married sons and daughters. Rather, pray that God’s Will be done in their lives … and, while you are at it, pray that His Will be done in all of our lives! 👍

God bless
 
If GKC stood for G K Chesterton I might take note but…

:extrahappy:
Take note. It does. I’ve been a serious Chesterton collector for over 40 years. I own (with a few small exceptions) everything he wrote and published, between boards, along with all the major works on him. And Belloc too. among any others. It’s a hobby.
Seriously, as I understand it infallibility means that the Pope cannot err in matters of Faith and Morals. Surely the Holy Spirit is guiding our Holy Father? And Faith is not a matter of agreement, of opinion! Your colleague respects you I understand but I am not sure I would be convinced.
:cool:
That definition of Papal infallibility lacks a couple of technical details, of the complete dogma as it was promulgated by Vatican I. You might look it up.

I’m sure the Holy Father and the Holy Spirit are on intimate terms, yes.

Perhaps my “colleague” knows me better.

GKC

*Anglicanus Catholicus *
 
Hi, emeraldcoast

The way that I read Mandy’s post, I understood her to be both upset and concerned. Talking to God has a way of resolving many issues in our own hearts.

You are quite right about there being boundaries - but, as long as Mandy is praying to God, in the persevering manner in which Monica did, I am confident that God will answer her prayers. How God does this remains to be seen - but, the issue is perseverance and here is a role model.

My understanding is that you are 100% correct concerning the life of Agustine and Monica, but my intent was not to try and find an exact match in this case (even assuming one existed). Rather, here is an example of an upset and concerned mother who brought her heart and focus to God. Such dedication can be a good example for all of us…even those who are happy with the choices their offspring have made 😃

The post I made was not an invitation to nag, meddle, intrude, disrupt or what-have-you into the lives of one’s married sons and daughters. Rather, pray that God’s Will be done in their lives … and, while you are at it, pray that His Will be done in all of our lives! 👍

God bless
I agree with you, Tom!

God Bless!
 
Hi, emeraldcoast,

I was a bit late in seeing this post … nice response, Chris 😃 And, if you don’t mind let me add something here that I missed in my original post.

As I read emeraldcoast’s post, I got the impression that a distinction needs to be made between praying FOR someone…🙂 and praying AT someone…:eek:

In the first case we see a need and ask God in His mercy to help this person in a particular way. Our disposition is one of being obedient to God’s Holy Will. We are not dictating to God how our prayer is to be answered. In the second case, we are irritatated with a situation and we are invoking ‘our’ god to send punishments onto these irritating people in accordance with our will. As you probably guessed - the first group stays out of fights, back-biting, rancor and that list St. Paul mentions … while the second group basically uses this list as a check-off of items to accomplish.

God bless
 
As long as this is what your conscience tell you and where the Spirit leads but I think you are missing out.

🙂
I can’t fathom what I could be missing out having experienced both for many years. I have studied a great deal and feel I understand both Catholic theology and the Episcopal ideas quite well. I have had good experiences in both, no bad priests, helpful religious and laity. I just could not and cannot stomach a good deal of Catholic dogma today. I find its reasoning lacking and its desire to “not change” twisted. But that of course is just me. We all should be where we feel at one with God to the greatest degree. I have no quarrel with Roman Catholics at all. I do dislike some, (few thankfully) who are somewhat arrogant in their presumptuousness of being “the best and the first.” Few do that however.
 
Hi Chris!

Thank you for your reply!

Praying for our children is our duty as parents, I believe. I know that my parents continue to pray for myself and my husband plus our children. However is trying to encourage your daughter not to follow her Christian husband as a wife correct? Does Mark 10:9 also include moms?

God Bless!
I don’t think the Biblical admonition for a wife to follow her husband includes following him into heresy (no offense intended, but technically that’s how the Church still views it). If the wife is a Catholic, she is obligated to continue practicing her faith and to strive to raise her children in the faith as well. That’s part of the pre-marriage conseling for Catholics who marry non-Catholics.

Again, I think Mandy is in a very delicate position, and while she ought not to pit her daughter against her son-in-law, she cannot approve of her daughter abandoning the faith.
 
I don’t think the Biblical admonition for a wife to follow her husband includes following him into heresy (no offense intended, but technically that’s how the Church still views it). If the wife is a Catholic, she is obligated to continue practicing her faith and to strive to raise her children in the faith as well. That’s part of the pre-marriage counseling for Catholics who marry non-Catholics.

Again, I think Mandy is in a very delicate position, and while she ought not to pit her daughter against her son-in-law, she cannot approve of her daughter abandoning the faith.
Was she married in the Catholic Church?

Chris,
No offense over the “heresy” point of your post. - I understand. With that said does church teaching trump the Bible?

Chris, Tom, and Company…😉

I just thought of this after reading over a few posts. Something that I have observed is that when one leaves a church, be it Catholic, Episcopal, LDS, or what have you, they may become overzealous in trying to show everyone the light. Do you think that it would be best to keep the subject of religion like politics on the back burner with Mandy’s daughter since she knows it is a touchy subject?

Mandy, I would recommend that you be well versed in the RC’s teachings just in case your daughter challenges your beliefs. This will give you an open door to sharing your faith with her… Just a thought…

God Bless!
 
Hi, emeraldcoast,
With that said does church teaching trump the Bible?
I recently heard a sermon about the Holy Spirit’s arrival on Pentecost Sunday. The Spirit brought many Gifts to those gathered in the Upper Room - but He did not deliver a book!

The Catholic Church preceeds the New Testament. Our understanding of the Bible’s message about God’s promises of a Messiah being fulfilled in Christ comes the Church. That Christ chose to build His Church on weak men to show that human strength was not the answer - only God is going to make it happen. And this understanding is correct because Christ promised He would be with the Chruch for all time as the Holy Spirit guides His Chruch.

There are far better and more complete answers to your question, but I think this one captures the general idea: The Church is based on both Scripture and Tradition. This is not a matter of ‘trumping’ anything but of recognizing we have been given priceless Gifts by our Loving Lord.

God bless
 
Hi, emeraldcoast,

I recently heard a sermon about the Holy Spirit’s arrival on Pentecost Sunday. The Spirit brought many Gifts to those gathered in the Upper Room - but He did not deliver a book!

The Catholic Church preceeds the New Testament. Our understanding of the Bible’s message about God’s promises of a Messiah being fulfilled in Christ comes the Church. That Christ chose to build His Church on weak men to show that human strength was not the answer - only God is going to make it happen. And this understanding is correct because Christ promised He would be with the Chruch for all time as the Holy Spirit guides His Chruch.

There are far better and more complete answers to your question, but I think this one captures the general idea: The Church is based on both Scripture and Tradition. This is not a matter of ‘trumping’ anything but of recognizing we have been given priceless Gifts by our Loving Lord.

God bless
Hi Tom, I am going to throw Reason into the mix…😉

I also come from a Church that values Tradition and Scripture, but we hold that a third leg is required - Reason. Mandy’s daughter is happy in her marriage, and happy with her relationship with the Lord. Is it reasonable to undermine that sacred bond? Is it really Mandy’s or anyone else’s business? As a reasonable Christian, I value the Scriptures that say I should not come between a husband and wife, and I value the tradition that says marriage vows are sacred in the eyes of God, and no one should undermine them. If Mandy’s daughter believes that she is in line with what God wants for her life, who are you, I, or the Catholic Church to say see his wrong? Mandy’s daughter is willing to trust to the mercy and justice of the Lord - we should probably let Him do His job and stay out of the Holy Spirit’s way. 👍

God Bless!

.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back
Top