I’m nineteen, turning twenty. Which means that I clearly remember participating in the Anime and Manga culture when I was in highschool. On top of that, I have a younger brother now a HS junior who watches anime on the computer all the time.
These things can become very addicting and harmful to your family life. The t.v. has helped reduce my family time to no conversations–if any, very negative and cynical comments–and much noise from the t.v. set. I’m glad to have my own room because the t.v. is on 24/7.
I’m not saying the media is an absolute evil. However, it is a very powerful gateway to a lot of trash in the world. And because technology allows one to “do something” while merely sitting and changing channels, people are more apt to sit around and waste valuable time. In my house, more time is spent watching t.v. and being absorbed in our personal business than trying to listen to each other, solve our problems, or enjoying time together. Fortunately, my “personal business” includes prayer dedicated to my family. (Things are getting better because of Mama Mary’s intercession, but we haven’t fully cooperated yet…)
Not every family is like mine, yet there is always the possibility to fall into that kind of trap. Anime or manga phenomenons can become very involving and addictive because they are surrounded by a whole entire culture mostly executed online which is a very private space. The plot lines carry on for a long time and if one were to get into it, it’s really involving and sucks you in. Again, I’m speaking from experience.
So, unless your family is already pretty stable, and you have a good relationship with your daughter already, then I wouldn’t recommend you let her get into that business if you have that kind of power over her.
Sorry that I rambled a little. I always go on a tirade when it comes to technology and media and whether us humans really know how to deal with it. Ironic that I’m posting on an internet forum, though.
Mama Mary guide you in your motherhood
