@FrDavid96: I wonder what percentage of priests agree with you. There’s a lot of strange (and invalid) stuff going on out there in regard to this Sacrament.
Dan
I do think it’s a very small percentage, but a loud one.
It’s certainly true that we’ve had a difficult time with the revised usage of the Sacrament.
On the one hand, the idea of “only for the dying” just won’t go away—mostly among the laity.
On the other hand, there are certainly many priests out there who do abuse the administration of the Sacrament. I know of quite a few (but still, small by percentage of priests) who will anoint quite literally anyone at any time for any reason.
A few parishes back, I had a genuine spiritual problem in my parish. The previous pastor was one who anointed anyone and who made a big deal of it. He had a so-called “Healing Mass” (a term prohibited by the Church) at which he anointed anyone and everyone who showed up, even non-Catholics, and did it every week of the year.
It took me years of correction to try to at least steer things in the right direction. People were angry because I stopped their “weekly anointing.” When I asked “are you sick?” I would get a “no, but that has nothing to do with it, I want the weekly anointing.” I would also get the quite often request for the most minor illness or injury.
And I do mean minor. One person wanted to be anointed for a bee-sting. I asked “are you allergic?” Answer “no.” Another wanted anointing on the hands for arthritis. Some would actually ask for it for no reason other than “I haven’t been anointed in a while.”
So, yes, there is a lot of abuse out there.