I don’t think we have much of a choice when it comes to submission to God. Submission to God is more inevitability than choice, one way or another. God and church are not totally one and the same thing. The church teaches us about God and his will, it teaches (supposed to anyway) us how to be good people, good spouses, parents, neighbours, but it is still run by humans and not all of the church’s rules and regulations were created by God. People who want to see some changes in the way the church is run are not trying to necessarily modernize God’s teachings (you really can’t do that anyway) but rather change the way the church relates them to the people of today. Some of these centuries old traditions that have little to nothing to do with God and faith are keeping the church from moving into the 21st century.