Any advice for Daily Confession?

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Sacraments can indeed be abused. To cite the example used of receiving Communion daily & whether or not that could be considered abusive – daily reception is, of course, not abuse…it is an accepted practice; it’s even optimal in the mind of the Church, a common practice of the saints & those in consecrated life. Canon law, moreover, allows a communicant to receive Communion twice per day, if the second time is in the body of a Mass attended by the person.

But the law PROSCRIBES receiving it beyond twice since it is not simply in multiplying the receptions of the Eucharist (or any sacrament) that grace is conveyed, as if quantifying the more receptions results in more grace.

If one receives 4, 5 or 6 times per day, each time one is receiving the Body and Blood of Christ – but one is taking a mechanistic or transactional approach to how sacramental grace operates…that is an abuse of the Eucharist; a flawed understanding of sacramental theology.

I was in a parish where it was thought if you received two hosts, you received twice as much…but, as St. Thomas Aquinas says, it is only the sign that is increased, not the reality of the Body and Blood of Christ received. Such a practice, of trying to receive the host multiple times at the same Mass, is an abuse of the sacrament.

Similarly, if one is in hospital, seriously ill, one should receive the anointing of the sick without delay. But one should not receive it everyday of one’s hospitalization, as if the day would be deprived of grace without it. Such daily repetition would be an abuse of the sacrament, employing it beyond the Church’s mind. It would also be an abuse to have recourse to anointing when only lightly ill or with an insignificant medical procedure such as drawing blood or being x-rayed.

The theology of that sacrament supports receiving it once during the illness & to repeat it if the condition deteriorates, leading closer to death. If the illness is of long duration, it can be given from time to time during the duration, with prudence and in consultation with the priest who has the care of souls of the sick person.

Sadly, I knew a situation in which a person was in a fatal accident. A family member was calling multiple parishes, requesting of each a priest to come, thinking that the more times the loved one was anointed, the better (!); if enough came, perhaps the loved one might even recover. A sad situation but still a horribly flawed understanding of the sacrament of the sick. By the time I discovered what was happening, the patient had been anointed numerous times in a few hours – the priests not realizing they were all summoned for the same patient. This constituted an egregious abuse of the sacrament; it was debasing the sacrament.

The case at hand is much more delicate. It CAN be legitimate to confess daily. It is very rare but can be legitimate. But those situations are discerned by the person’s normal confessor and/or spiritual director…not simply at the penitent’s own initiative. Normally, such a situation involves a soul who at the height of sanctity & whose knowledge of the Faith & of theology is at a profound level. Such a person is not asking for ideas of what to confess because he/she does not need to.

Pope Pius XII, for example, had a thorough understanding of the theology of the sacrament of reconciliation, a thorough understanding of mystical & ascetical theology, a heroic life & a truly extraordinary spiritual life. This is a circumstance that asks more for an expert in mystical theology than a typical confessor to help such a soul – their journey is at a zenith.

For a person not in that condition to approach confession daily can have deleterious effects for the penitent & the sacrament. It can possibly result in scrupulosity. It may restrain the penitent from using the extra-sacramental means available to grow in grace & virtue. Going to confession everyday can trivialize the sacrament over time & become a matter of habit rather than a radical encounter with Christ & a moment of conversion.

All that said, it is highly improper to prescribe a “one size fits all” when it comes to confession. I personally confess once per week; others find that too frequent. The original poster mentioned the First Saturday devotion. As given by Our Lady to Sister Lucia after the Fatima visions, it asks for the recitation of the rosary, sacramental confession, reception of the Eucharist and a quarter-hour of meditation on one or all of the mysteries of the rosary. Confessing once per month has, as it were, an endorsement from the Mother of Jesus.

But…Discernment of how frequently to confess does not belong to a forum – it is best done between the penitent and his or her regular confessor, especially when the proposal is abnormally frequent, taking into account a number of criteria including availability of the sacrament, the person’s desire, where he/she is in their spiritual life at the present moment, what they are pursuing in their spiritual journey in the present moment & the circumstances of living out of their daily duty/vocation.

The confession of a Pope Pius XII or a Padre Pio is not the confession of an ordinary penitent done more frequently…it is the confession of a spiritual giant and his or her confessions are going to be markedly different from what is being discussed in this thread.

As I said in my original post, a solid confessor should query someone approaching the sacrament of penance each & every day. He would want to understand what has caused the penitent to undertake this regiment, was it endorsed by a spiritual director, what is their understanding of the nature of the sacrament, & how it is to be integrated in a healthy way into the sum total of all the spiritual exercises that should mark a healthy and sound and solid spiritual life.
 
How can receiving the outpouring of grace that comes through this wonderful sacrament be an abuse?

Would you apply the same to receiving the Eucharist too often? Would receiving the Eucharist once a day also be an abuse?

Receiving the sacrament of Penance daily is not an abuse of this sacrament. Is there anything in our Church’s teaching that states that it is?
But I know we can’t receive the Eucharist more than once a day. At least, a priest told us that when we went to a marriage and received communion then to Sat Mass we didn’t go to communion again. I don’t know the reason though.
 
Sorry Brendan…it is ridiculous! Pope Francis says he confesses every 2 weeks.

Venial sins do not have to be confessed according to the Church…& going every day is, not only, ridiculous…but impossible !!!
I would think of our poor priests who are terribly overworked as it is right now.
 
Ave Maria! Hello all!

I’ve just started driving and have found a nice church in the next town over with confession fifteen or thirty minutes before every Mass. They also have a great devotion to the First Fridays and First Saturdays.

So. I’m having a little trouble thinking over daily confession, which I haven’t done yet. Twice a week is the most I have done, but if it’s available it’s very good for the soul. Let’s say I miraculously don’t sin from one confession to confession the next day. Should I stay out of the confessional, or is there something I can also figure out? Like, imperfections and vocations? I know there are Saints who went to confession every day who were infinitely better than I am. I don’t know what they could possibly have talked about with the priest (nor is it my business), but I would like a little help.

Thank you and God bless. Ave Maria!
I do not think there is any abuse in attending to the Sacrament of Confession on a regular basis even if you want to attend to it daily. It is comforting that the Lord gives us this Sacrament through the Church. One way to confess which might help is to know there are two lists of sins when one is confessing. One list is the 10 Commandents which deals with sins of commission. These are sins which we actually do. Now there is another list which seems to be the forgotten list and it is that list of sins which we call sins of omission. Sins of omission are not from the 10 Commandments. These are sins where we lack in love, mercy and goodness. Now if anyone wants to be very holy this second list is very important. This is the Confession which makes you into a better Saint when you can discuss the lack of good which you were called to do. The saints do better when they refer to these two lists.
 
Sorry Brendan…it is ridiculous! Pope Francis says he confesses every 2 weeks.

Venial sins do not have to be confessed according to the Church…& going every day is, not only, ridiculous…but impossible !!!
So Pope Pius XII was ridiculous for going to Confession every day?

And how is it impossible? If there are opportunities for this then clearly it is not impossible. It is not impossible in the case of the opening poster, and if a person lives in a city such as London, then it is clearly not impossible, but in fact relatively easy.

And the Catechism teaches that it is recommended to confess venial sins through the sacrament of Confession. The notion that Confession is only there for the confession of mortal sins is incorrect and not in line with Catholic teaching.

If you don’t wish to attend Confession daily, then that is your choice, but telling others that it is ridiculous is not an appropriate thing to do, and has no basis whatsoever in Church teaching.

Why is it that when daily Eucharist is mentioned nobody bats an eyelid, but when daily Confession is mentioned there seems to be Catholics trying to discourage this? I think this is part of the whole culture of denial of our sinfulness, and I think this is quite dangerous. If someone wants to go to daily Confession we ought to be encouraging this, not telling them that this is ridiculous. How can it be ridiculous to want to sincerely confess one’s sins against God through the sacrament of Confession?
I would think of our poor priests who are terribly overworked as it is right now.
Do you really think that our priests are over-burdened through long lines of people waiting to go to Confession? The only place I see a long line for Confession is in Westminster Cathedral. In most other places you’re lucky to see 6 people waiting. Hardly an indication that the priest is over-burdened through hearing Confession.
 
Dear Laughing Boy 1503:

I read your very touching note and I know that this is a tremendous ordeal. I assure you of my prayers and my priestly blessing.

These are truly moments when the help of a good confessor is invaluable and following sound and solid advice from him can provide you much assistance and peace.

Turn trustingly to Our Lady, Our Blessed Mother in the order of grace, and confide your soul to her as a child has complete confidence in his or her mother.

Cordially,
Don Ruggero
 
So Pope Pius XII was ridiculous for going to Confession every day?

And how is it impossible? If there are opportunities for this then clearly it is not impossible. It is not impossible in the case of the opening poster, and if a person lives in a city such as London, then it is clearly not impossible, but in fact relatively easy.

And the Catechism teaches that it is recommended to confess venial sins through the sacrament of Confession. The notion that Confession is only there for the confession of mortal sins is incorrect and not in line with Catholic teaching.

If you don’t wish to attend Confession daily, then that is your choice, but telling others that it is ridiculous is not an appropriate thing to do, and has no basis whatsoever in Church teaching.

Why is it that when daily Eucharist is mentioned nobody bats an eyelid, but when daily Confession is mentioned there seems to be Catholics trying to discourage this? I think this is part of the whole culture of denial of our sinfulness, and I think this is quite dangerous. If someone wants to go to daily Confession we ought to be encouraging this, not telling them that this is ridiculous. How can it be ridiculous to want to sincerely confess one’s sins against God through the sacrament of Confession?

Do you really think that our priests are over-burdened through long lines of people waiting to go to Confession? The only place I see a long line for Confession is in Westminster Cathedral. In most other places you’re lucky to see 6 people waiting. Hardly an indication that the priest is over-burdened through hearing Confession.
Are you sure Pope Pius XII went to Confession every day or Communion?

Every parish in N.Y. & Florida that I’ve been in had Confession once a week on Sat. & maybe once on a weekday.
 
So Pope Pius XII was ridiculous for going to Confession every day?

And how is it impossible? If there are opportunities for this then clearly it is not impossible. It is not impossible in the case of the opening poster, and if a person lives in a city such as London, then it is clearly not impossible, but in fact relatively easy.

And the Catechism teaches that it is recommended to confess venial sins through the sacrament of Confession. The notion that Confession is only there for the confession of mortal sins is incorrect and not in line with Catholic teaching.

If you don’t wish to attend Confession daily, then that is your choice, but telling others that it is ridiculous is not an appropriate thing to do, and has no basis whatsoever in Church teaching.

Why is it that when daily Eucharist is mentioned nobody bats an eyelid, but when daily Confession is mentioned there seems to be Catholics trying to discourage this? I think this is part of the whole culture of denial of our sinfulness, and I think this is quite dangerous. If someone wants to go to daily Confession we ought to be encouraging this, not telling them that this is ridiculous. How can it be ridiculous to want to sincerely confess one’s sins against God through the sacrament of Confession?

Do you really think that our priests are over-burdened through long lines of people waiting to go to Confession? The only place I see a long line for Confession is in Westminster Cathedral. In most other places you’re lucky to see 6 people waiting. Hardly an indication that the priest is over-burdened through hearing Confession.
No one bats an eyelash at daily Eucharist because it helps us develop intimacy in our personal relationship with Christ. The focus of the Eucharist is on Christ, though, not us.

The focus of Reconciliation is on us. We are turning inward, away from our brothers and sisters in Christ and toward ourselves. If someone has a mortal sin on his or her soul, surely he or she should confess it as soon as possible. However, if one is focusing on himself or herself so much that he or she feels daily confession is necessary, then he or she is focusing far too much on himself and not enough on others. We can confess our venial sins to Christ, try to improve, and go to confession every one to two weeks.

However, as others have pointed out, if we don’t resolve to change, then confession does us little good.
 
That is exactly how I feel. I think all that focus on yourself is not healthy. I think acts of charity can wash away venial sins. Sometimes I think people are so focused on sin that we forget to help the poor. I have had more than a few priest tell me if I take up good habits I can easily stop sinning. When I wanted to stop fornicating - I stopped getting drunk at bars. I replaced my nightlife with something else. It is not always about fighting it head-on. Prayer does wonders. If you live selflessly, you must likely WILL NOT SIN mortally. Keep yourself busy by helping the poor, the needy, being a better father/mother, spouse, or taking your vocation more seriously you will stop plenty of sins. I HATE PREACHING. I HAD TO SHARE THIS GOOD NEWS.
I agree with you. All that focus on the self is not healthy. Besides the things you listed, I think developing one’s personal relationship with Christ will help stop sin more than confession will. When we love someone, we don’t want to hurt him or her. When we love Christ, we don’t want to hurt him, we want to let him know how much we love him. The thought of wounding Christ’s heart stops me from venial sins like thinking an uncharitable thought, being impatient with others, etc. I try to pray at least three of the Divine Offices each day - morning, noon, and night, in addition to my regular prayers.

I teach theology and I did not know missing a Holy Day was a mortal sin! (They don’t teach us that in college, I guess they assume we know.) Thank you for letting me know.

I think Pope Francis is a good example. He is always thinking of others. Always willing to share their anxieties and their pain. I agree that if you live selflessly you will not commit a mortal sin. I also believe that the more you love Christ, the more abhorrent sin - all sin - will become.
 
So Pope Pius XII was ridiculous for going to Confession every day?

And how is it impossible? If there are opportunities for this then clearly it is not impossible. It is not impossible in the case of the opening poster, and if a person lives in a city such as London, then it is clearly not impossible, but in fact relatively easy.

And the Catechism teaches that it is recommended to confess venial sins through the sacrament of Confession. The notion that Confession is only there for the confession of mortal sins is incorrect and not in line with Catholic teaching.

If you don’t wish to attend Confession daily, then that is your choice, but telling others that it is ridiculous is not an appropriate thing to do, and has no basis whatsoever in Church teaching.

Why is it that when daily Eucharist is mentioned nobody bats an eyelid, but when daily Confession is mentioned there seems to be Catholics trying to discourage this? I think this is part of the whole culture of denial of our sinfulness, and I think this is quite dangerous. If someone wants to go to daily Confession we ought to be encouraging this, not telling them that this is ridiculous. How can it be ridiculous to want to sincerely confess one’s sins against God through the sacrament of Confession?

Do you really think that our priests are over-burdened through long lines of people waiting to go to Confession? The only place I see a long line for Confession is in Westminster Cathedral. In most other places you’re lucky to see 6 people waiting. Hardly an indication that the priest is over-burdened through hearing Confession.
There are circumstances it can be impossible to confess daily. If you do not own a car. You work during the times confession is offered. I do not think it is “wrong” to confess daily. I think you keep missing the point that most people are saying is that it can lead to someone developing the scruples. Daily venial sins are forgiven every mass. I do not think anyone is denial in our sinfulness. Maybe some people are. I agree it is wrong some people receive communion in the state of mortal sin. Honestly, there are plenty of busy priest who would tell a very frequent confessor he has the scruples or stop committing these mortal sins and running back the next day. Excessive focus on our sinfulness is not any better than denying it. Pope Pius XII probably lived in a different time period then we do now. There are priests who confess twice a week. There are times I have went to confess more than once a week. I think I see your point. I think you are missing the point that most people are making though.
 
Are you sure Pope Pius XII went to Confession every day or Communion?
Yes, he went to Confession every day.
Every parish in N.Y. & Florida that I’ve been in had Confession once a week on Sat. & maybe once on a weekday.
As do most parishes, but people don’t need to confine themselves to a single parish, they can go from one to the other. And in large cities there tend to be a greater range of churches offering Confession on different days, and often quite a few churches and cathedrals offering daily Confession. I would find it hard to believe that there is not a church or cathedral in somewhere like New York that does not offer daily Confession.,

Personally it really puzzles me why any Catholic would object to, or disparage, the notion that a person might go to Confession every day. No eyelids are batted if a person receives the Eucharist every day, but mention daily Confession and some people seem to get upset by this. Why?

I don’t go to Confession every day, but if I wasn’t working full time and long hours and I there was a church(es) near me where I could do this then I would certainly consider it. Since going from monthly Confession, to fortnightly Confession, to usually weekly Confession, I have found that increased frequency of Confession focusses me more clearly on my sins and I believe it has helped me to battle against my own sinful tendencies. Daily Confession would, I believe, be even more effective. In our constant battle against Satan and his influence on us, we need all the help we can get.
 
Pope Pius XII probably lived in a different time period then we do now.
So is Confession less necessary in the times we live in? Is there less sin today than there was in Pope Pius XII’s time? The devil doesn’t move with the times, he hasn’t reformed. Satan is still the same deceptive liar he always was and is still out there trying to tempt us and get us to sin. There is a battle for souls raging all around us and Satan doesn’t sleep. It is very dangerous to think that these days we don’t really need to go to Confessions as often as people did in the past. If anything we need it more today.
 
How can receiving the outpouring of grace that comes through this wonderful sacrament be an abuse?

Would you apply the same to receiving the Eucharist too often? Would receiving the Eucharist once a day also be an abuse?

Receiving the sacrament of Penance daily is not an abuse of this sacrament. Is there anything in our Church’s teaching that states that it is?
Brendan, you are right and, of course, there isn’t anything in Church doctrine or teaching that prohibits it.
 
The focus of Reconciliation is on us. We are turning inward, away from our brothers and sisters in Christ and toward ourselves.
Now this is very wrong. To say that the Sacrament of Penance represents us turning away from our brothers and sisters is not correct at all. Through Confession we are confessing our sins to the Church, to our brothers and sisters via the priest. We are humbly admitting to another that we have sinned and we are asking for forgiveness and reconciliation with Christ and with the Church.

And Confession is not there only for mortal sins, it is there for all sins. The Church encourages us to confess all sins through the sacrament of Penance. That is basic catechesis.

The Sacrament of Penance is not an inward act, it is an outward expression of our remorse for the hurt we have caused to God and to the Body of Christ on Earth (our brothers and sisters in the Church). Confession is an act of healing, not just of our own wounds, but the wounds we have caused, through our sin, to the Church. Through Confession we heal the wounds in the Church and bring us back together as a Communion. Confession is very much about others, it is very much an outward act brining us closer towards our brothers and sisters, it is not ‘turning inward’. I am quite taken aback that a Catholic professor of theology would suggest this.
 
So is Confession less necessary in the times we live in? Is there less sin today than there was in Pope Pius XII’s time? The devil doesn’t move with the times, he hasn’t reformed. Satan is still the same deceptive liar he always was and is still out there trying to tempt us and get us to sin. There is a battle for souls raging all around us and Satan doesn’t sleep. It is very dangerous to think that these days we don’t really need to go to Confessions as often as people did in the past. If anything we need it more today.
Again, I exactly where you are coming from. I thought confession was just for mortal sins. There is nothing in the Catholic church that is a against it. There is nothing wrong, we are just warning against people developing a scrupulous conscience. That is it. Some people who confess daily have that tendency. The devil disguises himself very well. Some people’s pursuit for holiness has blinded them from following the ultimate commandment which is the love your neighbor as yourself. Scrupulosity is a real thing.
 
Again, I exactly where you are coming from. I thought confession was just for mortal sins. There is nothing in the Catholic church that is a against it. There is nothing wrong, we are just warning against people developing a scrupulous conscience. That is it. Some people who confess daily have that tendency. The devil disguises himself very well. Some people’s pursuit for holiness has blinded them from following the ultimate commandment which is the love your neighbor as yourself. Scrupulosity is a real thing.
Yes that can be a concern for some. One reason for “frequent confession” to be ordinarily say once a week or every other week.

Confession of venial is very good and important and strongly recommended - but they can also be forgiven in other ways. See my post above.

1458 Without being strictly necessary, confession of everyday faults (venial sins) is nevertheless strongly recommended by the Church. Indeed the regular confession of our venial sins helps us form our conscience, fight against evil tendencies, let ourselves be healed by Christ and progress in the life of the Spirit. By receiving more frequently through this sacrament the gift of the Father’s mercy, we are spurred to be merciful as he is merciful

scborromeo.org/ccc/para/1458.htm
 
Again, I exactly where you are coming from. I thought confession was just for mortal sins. There is nothing in the Catholic church that is a against it. There is nothing wrong, we are just warning against people developing a scrupulous conscience. That is it.
I will respond to what people actually write, not what they don’t write. But on this thread it is being said that people ought only to go to Confession to confess mortal sins, that they should not go too often, and now that Confession is an inward act of turning away from our brothers and sisters. All of this is false. It is also very dangerous as it may discourage people to go to Confession. If people don’t actually mean this, then they shouldn’t say it.
Some people who confess daily have that tendency. The devil disguises himself very well. Some people’s pursuit for holiness has blinded them from following the ultimate commandment which is the love your neighbor as yourself. Scrupulosity is a real thing.
You have no way of knowing the anyone’s motivations for going to daily Confession. And to suggest that the devil benefits from anyone going to Confession, where the grace of God flows, is as bad as saying that Confession is an inward looking act that separates us from our brothers and sisters. Do you really think the devil will look at someone going to daily Confession and thing, “Great, daily Confession will help make their soul come to me”?

And there is no conflict, none whatsoever, with going to daily Confession and loving your neighbour as yourself.

Discouraging people from going to Confession is very dangerous indeed. There is a battle for souls going on all around us and the I’m sure the devil would really love people to go to Confession less often so that he will have a greater chance of getting hold of their soul.
 
Some people’s pursuit for holiness has blinded them from following the ultimate commandment which is the love your neighbor as yourself.
When Christ told that we should love our neighbour as we love ourself He preceded this with the commandment that we should “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind” and then that He said that we should love our neighbour as we love ourself.

Our first duty is always to God, Christ said it to us when he gave us the Greatest Commandments, and the Lord gave this to Moses when He have him the Ten Commandments, the first of which is, “I am the LORD your God, you shall not have strange Gods before me”. If we put anything before God, we are guilty of breaching the first Commandment, that includes putting family, community, our fellow man even, before our duty to God.

God comes first, always. Reconciling oneself to God through the sacrament of Penance, (along with personal prayer, adoration, Rosaries, personal reading of scripture, Eucharistic adoration etc.) are not inward acts that distract us from God’s ultimate commandment, they are acts that help us obey God’s ultimate commandment.
 
Now this is very wrong. To say that the Sacrament of Penance represents us turning away from our brothers and sisters is not correct at all. Through Confession we are confessing our sins to the Church, to our brothers and sisters via the priest. We are humbly admitting to another that we have sinned and we are asking for forgiveness and reconciliation with Christ and with the Church.

And Confession is not there only for mortal sins, it is there for all sins. The Church encourages us to confess all sins through the sacrament of Penance. That is basic catechesis.

The Sacrament of Penance is not an inward act, it is an outward expression of our remorse for the hurt we have caused to God and to the Body of Christ on Earth (our brothers and sisters in the Church). Confession is an act of healing, not just of our own wounds, but the wounds we have caused, through our sin, to the Church. Through Confession we heal the wounds in the Church and bring us back together as a Communion. Confession is very much about others, it is very much an outward act brining us closer towards our brothers and sisters, it is not ‘turning inward’. I am quite taken aback that a Catholic professor of theology would suggest this.
Brendan, I’m not talking about the Sacrament of Penance in general; which is a wonderful thing, I’m talking about the times it’s used so excessively it becomes the focus of one’s life and leads one into scrupulosity. I thought that was implicit in my post. I apologize if it was not.
 
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