Iāll admit that I tend to be harsh in my criticisms. I donāt mean to offend, but I often do. That is my style. It doesnāt diminish the truth of what I say, but it does make me harder to bear. I thank you, rmcmullen, for your very even-tempered behavior here, and Iām truly sorry if I hurt your feelings in any way.
But, let me add THIS: Iāve known my fiance for a little over 5 years. Iāve gotten to know most of her family. And, through them, Iāve gotten to know a little about Mormonism. Without going into a lot of boring specifics, all but two of them, a daughter who married a TBM, and my fianceās oldest son, who recently returned from a mission in Mexico, have dropped out of the LDS via non-attendance and just not paying attention to it anymore. Personally, I blame Mormonism for this apostasy. They could have remained good Catholics, and been with Godās Church still. Rather, they were led into a strange religion by a father who never really learned his childhood faith well enough that he couldāve known what a major mistake he was making. I realize that LDS would like nothing better than to have all these people be faithful Mormons, but LDS didnāt offer them the true sacraments that they needed to live the faith life. Instead, it filled them with odd notions about becoming gods on other planets, and made them believe through fictionalized accounts in the holiness of a prophet who, if he were alive today, would be on the FBIās most-wanted list. In short, LDS led them all AWAY from Jesus. And now they are apostate in the worst way. Apostate from their true faith, Catholicism, and apostate from their adopted false faith, Mormonism. This makes me angry. I get angry when I hear Mormons say that I am apostate, and that all the martyrs and other great men and women of faith across the centuries were apostates. Etc. I could go on for quite awhile, but I donāt want to make this any longer than it needs to be. Suffice to say that I am angry at Mormonism, and that it is a righteous anger born of personal āwitnessā of the disaster wrought in real peoplesā lives by Mormonism, people whom I love and respect. So, if I am a little testy, and unkind, and āharsh,ā it is because Mormonism isnāt just a theoretical something I chit-chat about on the internet. It is a real, live, THING that is eating out the spiritual lives of many people I know and love. Given enough time and prayer and patience, not to mention a lovingkindness which doesnāt come naturally to me, LOL, I will help lead at least a few more of these nice people Home. I wonāt expect you to wish me well in this endeavor, but I do know from the witness of the Holy Spirit in my innermost being, and from the witness of history and scripture, that it is the correct thing to be done.