Any ideas how to finance a Catholic-school education?

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I would say the parishes are all orthadox. You won’t find liturgical abuses going on in the majority of parishes. And all the parishes I know of have 24/7 adoration, which I think speaks to the dedication of the parishners and priests.
Thanks armywife. this does sound great…our Parish also offers adoration 24/7.
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armywife:
I can’t speak to the current job situation as I haven’t lived there since I graduated from college (not on purpose, but see my username) but I do know that Koch industries, which is the #1 privately held company in the US is headquartered there. There are also the airplane manufacturing plants, I really can’t name everything but it does seem to be able to support the population.
that is great to hear also …does not help our situation as my dh is not in the manufacturing business.:o
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armywife:
As far as tornadoes, there hasn’t been a tornado that hit the metro area in more than 15 years. Tornadoes happen every year, but mostly in the rual areas and I haven’t heard of anyone being killed in a long time.
that is really great to hear!

Armywife…thanks for all of the info…but it does not look like Wichita is going to be for us…
 
To the OP…I don’t know, which is one reason we chose homeschooling through Seton.Otherwise I guess my other option would have been to go back to work. I would rather be home with my children and teaching them though, rather than sending them off to school. There are so many choices in homeschooling. I’m not saying it’s for everyone, but if you hadn’t considered it, it may be more do-able than you think!
Yes, we’ve considered homeschooling, but my wife doesn’t seem too interested in it so far, and it would indeed be a lot of work from what I’ve heard. If she were working and I wasn’t I would definitely consider doing it myself. I was considereing doing it myself in the evenings after work, but I think it would wipe me out, and I have other work-related education/training that I need to do as well, not to mention occasionally needing to work late. If someone could point me to some stats on homeschooling, perhaps it could help when we have a more serious discussion about it.
 
I don’t know how people do it. I have a friend who has 5 kids - 4 of them are in Catholic schools. She and her husband spend 30K per year on tuition alone! God bless them! —KCT
It’s a shame that even a small portion of the amount we pay in taxes for public education couldn’t be used by parents to educate their children as they see fit. Parents are the primary educators of their children, and the institutions are only there to serve them.

We need to support our public schools so that everyone has access to a free education, but somehow we need to put more emphasis on supporting parents choices in educating their children, rather than just supporting institutions.
 
I have a daughter who just graduated from 13 years of Catholic education and another who is a sophomore. I’ve told them since they were young that my wife and I have made this investment in them and that they are responsible for their college. My freshmen college daughter has never once complained about that fact she is now responsible for her college education. She even made the personal choice to go deep into hock to attend a Catholic college.

When one has a good base, you can be more confident they will make good decisions. Just their ability to stop classes on 9/11 and spend the day praying in the chapel made the investment well worth the entire tuition over all those years.
 
Another thought I had was to ask other homeschoolers in our parish. I know of a few good orthodox Catholics who are doing it with their kids. I don’t know how they’d feel about teaching others’ kids, but perhaps they’d be interested in a supplemental income that would also be less than a Catholic school tuition. Is such a thing common, or do homeschoolers nearly always teach only their own kids?
 
some Catholic schools give breaks to employees. Also, some diocese give breaks to employees. You might ask.
 
Look for a sponsor. There are good hearted people in the community who will sponsor deserving and active families. However, don’t expect them to sponsor if you are going on expensive vacations, have to have the best, etc…
 
Doesn’t the parish help with this? i believe it does. If not, i would say the husband’s job should cover it. If it does not, your children might have to go to public school then. not so bad really. If you are involved as a parent, things can be made much better. Some person said look for a sponsor. this is not the answer to me. it is nobody else’s responsibility to put one’s children through the schooling, but the parents, yes their job and their responsibility. the church perhaps can assist.
i know alot of other churches today feel gather the people together to support the minister and put all their children through the school. this to me, is being a leech, and a non-productive member of the society which expects others to do everything for them.
 
Another thought I had was to ask other homeschoolers in our parish. I know of a few good orthodox Catholics who are doing it with their kids. I don’t know how they’d feel about teaching others’ kids, but perhaps they’d be interested in a supplemental income that would also be less than a Catholic school tuition. Is such a thing common, or do homeschoolers nearly always teach only their own kids?
I did this for a year, but I wouldn’t have wanted to do it for longer. The understanding was a year because the mom waited too long to get her dd registered for the high school co-op.

Plus, I wouldn’t want to even think I could be neglecting my kids for someone else’s. --KCT
 
Doesn’t the parish help with this? i believe it does.
Yes, it does. I believe they contribute $1000 per child per year. The costs I mentioned previously take this into account. They’d be even higher without it.
 
I did this for a year, but I wouldn’t have wanted to do it for longer. The understanding was a year because the mom waited too long to get her dd registered for the high school co-op.

Plus, I wouldn’t want to even think I could be neglecting my kids for someone else’s. --KCT
What’s a high-school co-op?
 
Another thought I had was to ask other homeschoolers in our parish. I know of a few good orthodox Catholics who are doing it with their kids. I don’t know how they’d feel about teaching others’ kids, but perhaps they’d be interested in a supplemental income that would also be less than a Catholic school tuition. Is such a thing common, or do homeschoolers nearly always teach only their own kids?
This is not legal everywhere. In many, if not most states, you need to be a certified teacher to teach someone else’s kids.
 
Yes, we’ve considered homeschooling, but my wife doesn’t seem too interested in it so far, and it would indeed be a lot of work from what I’ve heard. .
I really think you & your wife would benefit from reading some homeschooling how-to books. The first several years would not take much time at all …only a couple of hours. The cost of homeschooling vs. the cost of Catholic School (with the expection of Wichita) is significant.

Maybe someone will reccommend some books?
 
Another thought I had was to ask other homeschoolers in our parish. I know of a few good orthodox Catholics who are doing it with their kids. I don’t know how they’d feel about teaching others’ kids, but perhaps they’d be interested in a supplemental income that would also be less than a Catholic school tuition. Is such a thing common, or do homeschoolers nearly always teach only their own kids?
Homeschoolers generally teach their own, but get together in support groups or clubs, for a variety of things, from play days to science projects to Mass. A lot depends on the state in question, as well. It could be done in Illinois and other states where home ed. is considered a non-registered private school. It might not work in states with tighter regulation. Each state is different.

What might work better for you (and your wife) is what’s known as a co-op school with an emaphasis on Catholic. Again, it depends on how the law is written.

You’ll have to get together with other families and determine the parameters, if there is not a co-op in your local area. A co-op is different from a homeschool support group in that, rather than each parent teaching their own and getting emotional and possible academic support from the group, the co-op either hires a couple certified teachers, or divides up the teaching responsibilities by grade or by subject. Co-ops also usually, but not always, rent space somewhere to conduct classes. The difference between a co-op and a school is that it is almost entirely parentally run and governed. There usually is no principal, but a board is elected from among the parents. Fees are determined after the budget is drawn, usually by dividing by the number of children OR the number of families involved. Students are generally self-paced, but rely on their parents and the curricula to determine place and pace.

It is not as easy as home education, because it requires more planning, more supervision, more accountability to the rest of the members of the co-op; and yet it offers more flexibility than the parish school.

As for how to afford “regular” Catholic education, a lot of schools have gift certificate purchases (Scrip, Manna), Market Day, candy and other sales; time paid to the school as tuition; in-home business, eBay business; savings plans to put away a year’s tuition in advance; paying for Catholic high school by agreement where a bond is purchased at so much per month, with no increase in the price, when the child in question is small.

The best way is stewardship programs, so cost is minimal or even free. Getting people to accept stewardship in some areas is rough, because it isn’t properly explained, or people want to keep onthe way they have because “we’ve always done it that way”.
 
Yes, we’ve considered homeschooling, but my wife doesn’t seem too interested in it so far, and it would indeed be a lot of work from what I’ve heard.
Well, when I had two of my kids in school one year, I found the whole experience to be more work than homeschooling. But, I guess it would depend on how much homework is required.

We were doing two hours of homeschool a day, which was the same amount of time I would have spent on homeschooling (third and fourth grade).
 
What’s a high-school co-op?
A bunch of homeschoolers get together and either hire teachers or teach classes themselves. My dd goes to one twice a week for 4 classes. (The math teacher is way smarter than I am in Math and dd loves her 🙂 —KCT
 
I don’t know how people do it. I have a friend who has 5 kids - 4 of them are in Catholic schools. She and her husband spend 30K per year on tuition alone! God bless them! —KCT
Its’ called SACRAFICE. Parents who send their children to a Catholic school (Grammar/High School) give up a lot. I had three in a Catholic Grammar School and believe me it was not easy. The tuition I paid for all three at once was around $650/mo. That does not include, uniforms, supplies, mandatory fundraisers. It is a lot easier now that I have one in a Catholic School. I added up how much my husband and I spent just on tuition and I could have owned 2 BMW paid for by now. (Beemers are my dream car, lol 😃 )
 
Its’ called SACRAFICE. Parents who send their children to a Catholic school (Grammar/High School) give up a lot. I had three in a Catholic Grammar School and believe me it was not easy. The tuition I paid for all three at once was around $650/mo. That does not include, uniforms, supplies, mandatory fundraisers. It is a lot easier now that I have one in a Catholic School. I added up how much my husband and I spent just on tuition and I could have owned 2 BMW paid for by now. (Beemers are my dream car, lol 😃 )
hi to Maureen Fiore. i thank you for your nice and True posting. Yes, sacrifice is needed isn’t it, as a parent? i witness many in life who are not so willing as you to do this. They would have already buy their BMW, and then say, “they could not afford the Catholic Schooling”. i have known many who say just this. To me, this shows, you are a parents with the priority in the proper spot.

God gives us all more than we ask him for when we follow Him with our hearts and our life. Perhaps it is not a BMW, but it will be something more wonderful.
 
We sacrifice to send our kids to Catholic schools - I have a small part time job to keep up with the high school payments on top of my full time job. Many times I have questioned if it’s all worth it but then I go to adoration, pray on it and know it’s the right thing to do.

By the way, Kansas, including Wichita has a lot to offer families. It’s much more than cows and tornados.
 
Yes, we’ve considered homeschooling, but my wife doesn’t seem too interested in it so far, and it would indeed be a lot of work from what I’ve heard. If she were working and I wasn’t I would definitely consider doing it myself. I was considereing doing it myself in the evenings after work, but I think it would wipe me out, and I have other work-related education/training that I need to do as well, not to mention occasionally needing to work late. If someone could point me to some stats on homeschooling, perhaps it could help when we have a more serious discussion about it.
I guess it depends on your philosophy on homeschooling. If you read something by John Holt, or unschooling, basically the idea is that kids will learn even if you do NO formal education (especially before age 8-10). So there really is so much flexibility, from doing a totally unstructured program that just involves a lot of play and having good books and toys in the home, to buying a full curriculum and enrolling the children in correspondence school and doing “school at home.” You do not have to recreate the classroom though. For my son we spend maybe an hour a day on homeschooling if he wants to. (grade K) He’s way ahead of other children his age so I don’t stress about it at all.

You might check out the seton website, www.setonhome.org
and there are others too, um, catholic heritage curricula is one www.chcweb.com .
Book recommendations are Catholic Home Schooling by Mary Kay Clark. I’ve heard Catholic Education Homeward Bound by Kimberly Hahn & Mary Hasson is good but I haven’t read it.
An author that I really like on homeschooling in general is Linda Dobson. (Try The Homeschooling Book of Answers, The First Year of Homeschooling Your Child, or Homeschooling the Early Years)

I think it would be very do-able for you as a father to take responsibility for one or two subject areas. For example, you could teach math after dinner a few nights a week, and do science on Saturday mornings. You could even start something with them before breakfast (or even just set it out for them to do when they wake up), such as a handwriting page, and read things to them at bedtime. Learning is something for kids that happens all the time, not just 8am-3pm M-F.

Even just going along with your wife on errands during the day can be educational. Kids in school might learn about the post office and the bank.They can just go along to the post office and the bank. Voila–Field trip! 🙂

I guess from my point of view, homeschooling is a lot of fun. I’m sure it’ll be more work as the children are older, but I’m not worried about that. I’m only committed to it for right now. If it doesn’t work next year or in three years or in high school, well, we’ll do something different then.
 
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