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Steadfast
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I get annoyed when I hear people whine about how unfriendly church x was when they visited.
Of course there are cases where a person will encounter actual hostility from a member or the minister. It sounds like Syele had something like this kind of experience.
And I am not saying it’s okay to be rude.
But to kvetch because you visited a church and they didn’t give you a hug and make you feel welcome is puerile.
Christ didn’t die on the cross so everyone would be nice.
Judge a church by what they confess, not by whether they fall all over themselves trying to make you feel good.
You don’t deserve it and if it’s what you expect, I’m inclined to guess that you’ve imported expectations from our narcissistic culture into the church.
Of course there are cases where a person will encounter actual hostility from a member or the minister. It sounds like Syele had something like this kind of experience.
And I am not saying it’s okay to be rude.
But to kvetch because you visited a church and they didn’t give you a hug and make you feel welcome is puerile.
Christ didn’t die on the cross so everyone would be nice.
Judge a church by what they confess, not by whether they fall all over themselves trying to make you feel good.
You don’t deserve it and if it’s what you expect, I’m inclined to guess that you’ve imported expectations from our narcissistic culture into the church.