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You are carrying around this burden, Limerick, *but you don’t have to. *Let me propose an experiment. Go elsewhere on the internet, not here, and argue on the pro-life side. Seriously. You will not be committing yourself in any way, because you can be totally anonymous and it won’t be here. Take a break from arguing your current point of view and just do that.
I suspect that if you do this seriously for 3 or 4 weeks that you will feel a burden lifting from your heart, because from what I see you saying, the burden is caused not by God or us but by yourself in your continuing to hang on to rationalizing what you have done. The conflict is within yourself.
Try my experiment and see how it works. I’m praying for you, as I am sure that all the rest of us are.
I will be praying for you as well Limerick. Sometimes this is lost as the arguments heat up: but we are here reaching out with truth for the sake & ultimate well-being of those who we do not see eye to eye with. I doubt very many Catholics sign up in these forums to argue for the pure sake of argument, we show up not because we are searching for truth, meaning, happiness… but because we want to share what we already have found (a pearl of great price) with others. We do this because we want what is best for others (ultimately eternal life in union with God our Father)… we do this for their betterment.
I know Limerick has highlighted certain less-than-charitable responses to her comments, even alluding to the fact that the Catholic Church must not be the church for her in lieu of such responses.
I would like to further what user *St. Francis * has spoken of in light of the charity we should show those whom we disagree with. The charity and posture we present to those who we profoundly disagree with is just as important as the Truth conveyed. Very few people come back to the Church because of empirical logic or apologetics, though some do. Most come back because the see the Christian ideal lived out by devout Catholics and they know that these individuals have something profound - argument does not bring them back to Truth, example does.
I would like to extend a hand to Limerick to re-visit the Catholic Church on your own time, and re-ponder the meaning of Christs promise within your own heart, away form the verbal judo found within these forums. It is there within the stillness and silence that God will speak to you, unbeknown to any of us.
If my faith and participation in the body of Christ in His domestic church were dependent on other Catholics than their is a good change I too may not be in the Church. The Truth found within Christs Church cannot be tainted by those who do not live up to the ideal of the Precepts. Ones reservation to see the Church as the fullness of Truth, based on the examples shown by those within the Church is not a good reason. If anybody’s participation in something rested on the actions of others, than nobody would ever be a part of anything - that type of reasoning assumes a group of people with flawless qualities. Nobody would be pro-life or Catholic if the bad examples of a few were expressive of the whole. You would not be ‘pro-choice’ either as their are many who convey very hateful behavior towards others (aside from the 'doctors-themselves), you need only bear silent, peaceful witness outside an abortion mill with only your rosary beeds to experience this behavior. Please remember: the Catholic Church is not an institution of Saints, but a hospital for sinners. And my brothers and sisters in faith who do not live up to its ideals do not make me lose my faith or obstruct my peace, as it is not dependent on them.