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Sailor_Kenshin
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Maybe you do need to understand about forgiving and letting go. I don’t know. You do not sound as though you are nearing ‘that place where you can finally rest.’**
Yes … conveniently stacked on the side of the Church. Nuns make judgment calls about the intelligence of their students and dumb them down, never thinking that the message they carry to these kids stunts their growth rather than encouraging it.
I am honestly tired of it all. I have turned a thousand stones in my adult years looking for a party who is willing to say “We did the wrong thing, we’re sorry we spoke to you like a two-year-old, we didn’t know that children have minds and imaginations”. The Church is not responsible, the nuns and priests are not responsible, the lay teachers are not responsible - everybody has an airtight alibi for the days when such half-baked catechism was thrown at me.
I’m getting there. I’m getting to that place where I can finally rest, knowing that leaving the Catholic Church was the right thing for me. Being a Catholic has been the most unrewarding, fear-riddled, punishment-centric experience I never asked for. I’m grateful that I didn’t raise my daughter to be a Catholic so she can be truly ignorant of all this stuff so maybe at least she will have a shot at a happy life, a happy death, and a happy afterlife.
It permeates. It metastasizes. It’s over.
L **
Becoming Catholic was and still is the toughest thing I’ve had to do so far. I would do it again because I knew it was the right thing.
I am sorrier than words can express.
