Anything in the OT that bans polygamy?

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Polygamy detracts from the good of union of one man and one woman, as it was revealed from the beginning.
The issue is not the goodness of monogamy but whether polygamy is tolerable to God. Clearly it is. Even Moses did not denounce it. He certainly banned murder, strange he couldnt be equally clear re polygamy isnt it?
 
In my case I see it as God making the best of what had already happened.
Exactly so. Or more likely, His inspired revisionist temple editors/scribes doing so with inconvenient stories re past great leaders.
 
In my case I see it as God making the best of what had already happened.

If a man is married to multiple women he should not treat one worse than the other and there is no point in punishing the favorite by not letting her have children.

I see Rachel’s initial infertility as being caused by God. I have no direct evidence but I think it’s implied by mentioning Rachel being barren in the same sentence as God opening Leah’s womb.
Lets lay out some basic facts of the Bible:
  • God is all-good in that he can not want nor do that which is immoral.
  • God has no problem calling out people for immorality
Your explanation is not logical given these two facts. A holy God would not ignore sin and assist it just because “it already happened”. If you sin, He calls you out for it and wants you to repent. Not even the Catholic Church today would put up with your explanation when it comes to new converts who are already in polygamous marriages or gay marriages.
 
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There is only speculation to support the view that God allowed polygamy for a certain reason other than it being a moral option.
Agnosticboy. It is a moral option. If a circumstance like the one I described, were to present it’self. It’s possible that the evil of permitting it is less than the evil of allowing it.

If you want it to be a moral option that can be chosen instead of the choice God commands that is not possible.

God made man and woman the proper form and that is the form He has lifted up as a sign of sanctified life. No other form has that dignity and will ever equal it. No other form will be an option unless that form is unavailable.
 
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If polygamy is not God’s will, that would mean that God wants those in marriage to be in monogamy. He wants a man to love only ONE woman. So why did God want Jacob to love TWO women and impregnate them according to the story in Genesis 29:30-33?

This one example disproves your point.
Love isn’t what identifies marriage. Love is supposed to bond all relationships. God was loving Leah because Jacob could not. She was not at fault and God didn’t want a mother of His people to bear children from a womb unloved. Marriage is identified as oneness. One man and one women is a microcosm of one humanity. It’s a simple as that gets as a sign. One man and two women are a manifestly deficient sign of oneness. Leah suffered that reality when she was excluded from it. Laban, who seems to be a father of lies was asked for a daughter to marry into a godly sign of marriage. Through deceit and manipulation he forced a marriage that God only permits iif there is no other choice.
 
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Agnosticboy. It is a moral option. If a circumstance like the one I described, were to present it’self. It’s possible that the evil of permitting it is less than the evil of allowing it.
You were supposed to show that Christian morals can be circumstance-based, as in murder and rape not always being wrong. You have not demonstrated how or why God would approve the murderous act. Just you doing it doesn’t mean God approved of it. If you can show me God actually ordering it or assisting you, which is not possible unless you refer to biblical stories, then you’ll be on to something. What about rape?
If you want it to be a moral option that can be chosen instead of the choice God commands that is not possible.
In my view, if it conflicts with God’s rules, then it is never a moral option. Polygamy does not conflict with God’s rules.
God made man and woman the proper form and that is the form He has lifted up as a sign of sanctified life. No other form has that dignity and will ever equal it. No other form will be an option unless that form is unavailable.
I’ll try to address this point in my next post to you.
 
Love isn’t what identifies marriage. Love is supposed to bond all relationships. God was loving Leah because Jacob could not. She was not at fault and God didn’t want a mother of His people to bear children from a womb unloved.
Love by itself isn’t what defined a marriage, since also procreation is involved. BOTH Leah and Rachel were considered Jacob’s wives so clearly he met the standard, otherwise why were they called his wives,?! Most importantly, they were treated as such by God.

You also say that polygamy was allowed in this case because God did not want one person to go unloved. While true, but God also wants that which is morally good and he is perfect at behaving accordingly. This is precisely the problem with your point, it is illogical in that it contradicts basic facts of the Bible. If polygamy is a sin, or only tolerated, just like incest, idolatry, and divorce, then God could “allow” it but He would not permit it (or order and assist it). I’ve already shown evidence of God permitting polygamous acts.
Marriage is identified as oneness. One man and one women is a microcosm of one humanity. It’s a simple as that gets as a sign. One man and two women are a manifestly deficient sign of oneness. Leah suffered that reality when she was excluded from it. Laban, who seems to be a father of lies was asked for a daughter to marry into a godly sign of marriage. Through deceit and manipulation he forced a marriage that God only permits iif there is no other choice.
Oneness refers to union. According to the Biblical writers, it is possible to have multiple unions. We have a union with the Church and we can have a union with our spouse. In the case of polygamy, the man has two unions (or marriages), each marriage has two people within. That’s why I stress the important difference between the biblical writers teaching a two-person marriage as opposed to ‘monogamy’.
 
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He allowed divorce which is not moral now.
True, but where did God divorce or order others to divorce or even assist someone in carrying out a divorce? He did want and assist polygamous acts, and by definition all that God wants and does is perfect and morally good!

Believe me, I really have more evidence for polygamy than what I’m letting out so far. I just find it easier to focus on one argument at a time.
 
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Hosea 2 (name removed by moderator)lies it.
Assuming that God’s figurative divorce counts for a literal divorce through implication, then that would mean at some point divorce was made moral. This would count as a change in the rules. I accept this change in rules (which is different from relative or circumstance-based morality, I might add) because Jesus verifies that the change took place (Matthew 19). I don’t see that same verification for polygamy when it comes to it being declared immoral at any point of time. There’s good evidence that it would not change and that’s because polygamy is accommodated in God’s moral laws which are forever binding. I brought up that evidence earlier in the thread regarding how the meaning of adultery (adultery is in 10 commandments - from God’s finger and not Moses) accommodated polyGYNY…

So not only does your side lack evidence for any rule change on polygamy, but I also have counter-evidence.
 
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Fundamentalists interpret scripture passages in a vacuum, out of context with the rest of scripture. Catholicism interprets scripture as a whole. If a passage is out of step with the whole, you need to look deeper through the literalist interp.

You are insisting that Gen 29 transmits the literal will of God to accept polygamy.

That’s textbook fundamentalism. You should know this.

so again, if you insist on this point, then show us the hammered dome up in the sky. It’s in the bible.

Go ahead we’ll wait.
 
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Hosea 2 (name removed by moderator)lies it.
So not only does your side lack evidence for any rule change on polygamy, but I also have counter-evidence.
Not to be confrontational, but you seriously have absolutely nothing but out of context fundamentalism.

You keep going on about this after others have showed you what Catholics hold in this matter.
Can you accept the ways of reading scripture and the beliefs of others, or must they conform to yours?

A little tolerance please.

In addition, if you want to really know what Catholics believe here, read Theology of the Body by St John Paul 2. It fleshes out (pun intended) Genesis and overall Catholic morality really well.

Your assertions here are pointless and tiresome.
 
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Fundamentalists interpret scripture passages in a vacuum, out of context with the rest of scripture. Catholicism interprets scripture as a whole. If a passage is out of step with the whole, you need to look deeper through the literalist interp.

You are insisting that Gen 29 transmits the literal will of God to accept polygamy.

That’s textbook fundamentalism. You should know this.

so again, if you insist on this point, then show us the hammered dome up in the sky. It’s in the bible.

Go ahead we’ll wait.
I used to be a fundamentalist Christian until logic and evidence freed me from it. You start off assuming that all of it is true, and then expect that a deeper look will explain everything. You have nothing to say for all of the other religionists who expect the same of their religion. That leaves you prone to confirmation bias. I start out by looking at the Bible just like any other text, capable of errors, contradictions, I assume nothing.

You fault me for going off of one passage when it is very logical for one passage to serve as evidence. If one passage says that God loves polygamy, then “looking deeper” won’t make it say God hates polygamy.
 
In addition, if you want to really know what Catholics believe here, read Theology of the Body by St John Paul 2. It fleshes out (pun intended) Genesis and overall Catholic morality really well.

Your assertions here are pointless and tiresome.
Does he explain why Genesis 29 can’t serve as evidence for God’s will on polygamy? If so, then use all that you’ve learned from him to argue for it here and you can start by addressing my arguments.
 
Fundamentalists interpret scripture passages in a vacuum, out of context with the rest of scripture. Catholicism interprets scripture as a whole. If a passage is out of step with the whole, you need to look deeper through the literalist interp.

You are insisting that Gen 29 transmits the literal will of God to accept polygamy.

That’s textbook fundamentalism. You should know this.

so again, if you insist on this point, then show us the hammered dome up in the sky. It’s in the bible.

Go ahead we’ll wait.
I used to be a fundamentalist Christian until logic and evidence freed me from it.
Evidence is to the contrary. You are demonstrating textbook fundamentalism.
You start off assuming that all of it is true, and then expect that a deeper look will explain everything. You have nothing to say for all of the other religionists who expect the same of their religion. That leaves you prone to confirmation bias. I start out by looking at the Bible just like any other text, capable of errors, contradictions, I assume nothing.
No, you are the one insisting on a fundamentalist confirmation bias. You are cherry picking verses out of context that support your view. It;s been said repeatedly that CC does not read scripture this way. So while the way you read scripture might resonate with some versions of Christianity it does not resonate with Catholicism.
You fault me for going off of one passage when it is very logical for one passage to serve as evidence. If one passage says that God loves polygamy, then “looking deeper” won’t make it say God hates polygamy.
You must be the last one to see that these words above demonstrate fundamentalism.
“one passage”
One passage does not dictate eternal truth.

You are free to believe what you want about God.
Please don’t tell others what they believe because you insist on taking the bible out of context.

And we are still waiting. Please show us the hammered dome in the sky. It says so in Genesis, it must surely be there according to you.
 
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No, you are the one insisting on a fundamentalist confirmation bias. You are cherry picking verses out of context that support your view. It;s been said repeatedly that CC does not read scripture this way. So while the way you read scripture might resonate with some versions of Christianity it does not resonate with Catholicism.
Are you afraid to dive into the details? You’re being very superficial and I have to keep assuming what you mean exactly. What exactly about my point in Genesis 29 is out of context? Are you at least willing to accept that God assisted in polygamy in that case?
You must be the last one to see that these words above demonstrate fundamentalism.

“one passage”

One passage does not dictate eternal truth.

You are free to believe what you want about God.

Please don’t tell others what they believe because you insist on taking the bible out of context.

And we are still waiting. Please show us the hammered dome in the sky. It says so in Genesis, it must surely be there according to you.
Any truth can be built on multiple passages, BUT all of those passages must be coherent - without contradiction. And yes, ONE passage can lead to a contradiction if it conflicts with all of the other passages. Please lets get down to the details of my argument.
 
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No, you are the one insisting on a fundamentalist confirmation bias. You are cherry picking verses out of context that support your view. It;s been said repeatedly that CC does not read scripture this way. So while the way you read scripture might resonate with some versions of Christianity it does not resonate with Catholicism.
Are you afraid to dive into the details? You’re being very superficial and I have to keep assuming what you mean exactly. What exactly about my point in Genesis 29 is out of context? Are you at least willing to accept that God assisted in polygamy in that case?
You must be the last one to see that these words above demonstrate fundamentalism.

“one passage”

One passage does not dictate eternal truth.

You are free to believe what you want about God.

Please don’t tell others what they believe because you insist on taking the bible out of context.

And we are still waiting. Please show us the hammered dome in the sky. It says so in Genesis, it must surely be there according to you.
Any truth can be built on multiple passages, BUT all of those passages must be coherent - without contradiction. And yes, ONE passage can lead to a contradiction if it conflicts with all of the other passages. Please lets get down to the details of my argument.
You simply have no idea what in the world you are talking about.
Scripture is chock full of contradictions. It is rife with them.
Scripture is written by human beings. Did you know that, or do you scribe to the “robot theory” of scripture?

You have no Catholic sense of scripture. Which is fine, but don’t pass off your fundamentalist understandings to Catholics.

Read theology of the body and come back in a year, and we can have a meaningful discussion.
 
You simply have no idea what in the world you are talking about.

Scripture is chock full of contradictions. It is rife with them.

Scripture is written by human beings. Did you know that, or do you scribe to the “robot theory” of scripture?

You have no Catholic sense of scripture. Which is fine, but don’t pass off your fundamentalist understandings to Catholics.

Read theology of the body and come back in a year, and we can have a meaningful discussion.
I know logic, and it’s clear that TRUE statements can not contain contradictions. Do you agree? And if yes, what good is an eternal Truth to a rational mind when it is “chock full of contradictions”?
 
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You simply have no idea what in the world you are talking about.

Scripture is chock full of contradictions. It is rife with them.

Scripture is written by human beings. Did you know that, or do you scribe to the “robot theory” of scripture?

You have no Catholic sense of scripture. Which is fine, but don’t pass off your fundamentalist understandings to Catholics.

Read theology of the body and come back in a year, and we can have a meaningful discussion.
I know logic, and it’s clear that TRUE statements can not contain contradictions. Do you agree? And if yes, what good is an eternal Truth that is “chock full of contradictions”?
We are still waiting.

Show us the hammered dome in the sky. It’s in Genesis. Gotta be true. Can’t be contradictions.

Waiting…
 
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