Appropriate attire?

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Is it appropriate for a Catholic sister to wear shorts that do not reach her knees and to post it on FB?

Some clarification here- the photo was posted by a family member of her and the sister seems to have approved it by means of a “Like”?
 
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How to advise a sister? Spirituality
Recently a friend of mine who is formation for becoming a sister posted a photo of her community in FB in which one of the consecrated fully professed sisters’ cleavage was visible (to a small extent). I want to advise my friend that she should be careful about posting photos of sisters/women in inappropriate attire. How to go about this? I am looking for charitable and constructive responses than personal attacks.
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As the others said and pray for her
 
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I think the advise is all still going to be the same as in the other thread.
 
In reference to post #2 by Rose

I very politely PM-ed the sister about what Roseurekacross said and she blocked me on FB
I bought the same to the attention of their community and they just said a Thank You to me
The photo remained there
 
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I personally thank you for paying attention to this. What the posters said in the other thread is not appropriate for Christians, as St. Paul said to point out each other’s shortcomings. Pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy for these women when you see such instances. That’s about all we can do. I will notify our CAMM Ministry of Our Lady of Purity regarding this case.
 
I didnt actually give advise . I posted one of your old threads on a very similar topic and said the advice given will all be the same.

I think you should take the advice of the Priest in that thread, Edward_George1. Let it go.

And as you can see, the sisters were not very attentive to your suggestions in that instance. Any reason to believe they would welcome your (name removed by moderator)ut this time?
 
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And as you can see, the sisters were not very attentive to your suggestions in that instance. Any reason to believe they would welcome your (name removed by moderator)ut this time?
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Is this the same sisters?

I would also guess it’s a family snap shot. Why are you on a family page, as you said the family member of this sister posted it.
 
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I very politely PM-ed the sister about what Roseurekacross said and she blocked me on FB

I bought the same to the attention of their community and they just said a Thank You to me

The photo remained there
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Fine, then your work is done and there’s no need for you to be bothering about this further.

At a certain point after you’ve brought it to the attention of the poster and the superior, which is all you can do, it ceases to be your business.

I realize you are extremely focused on “modesty” topics based on your past post and your linked blog. That doesn’t mean everybody is going to agree with you.
 
You’ve asked this multiple times. As you’ve informed the pertinent people and no change has occurred, they must be fine with it. Now you need to let it go.
 
Sorry this is a new topic…The previous incidnet happened in August 2017 this is March 2018.
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Rose - can you edit your first reply in this thread. Peope may get confused with this thread and the old thread.
 
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Maybe just mind your own business. I mean, in what other context would we even consider reporting someone for this reason. The responsibility lies with the superior to mention these things.
 
As lea says, really it’s the same issue, same thing, different day.
The advise and comments will be very similar.

This is the same sister, right? She has blocked you. Her Superiors thanked you for your concern last time.
Is the outcome likely to be different this time around?

Is this a family member of yours? I can understand if it’s a family member, but her superior is now her head. Family members must learn to let go . It can be difficult though.
 
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