Let’s not personalize this, OK?
If you want to say that a Catholic’s faith should permeate his or her life, I’m fine with you stating your opinion.
But you already know that faith, any faith, must permeate a person’s whole life. That’s the meaning of the word fides, to be faithful. The question is one that all of us, not just you, must grapple with.
If we find that we can’t be faithful, because we’re in conflict with some part of the faith that we were born into or that we chose, then we do have to step back and prayerfully examine whether we are truly Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Hindu and so forth.
It is not my intention to offend. But it is important that anyone who presents himself or herself as X, whatever that faith may be, it is important that the person represent that faith correctly, as it is, not as one believes it should be.
This is an issue that many people of different faith groups have to face, especially when it comes to public action. I’ll give you an example that has nothing to do with this thread, but I think it may help. Right now we have a serious problem with terrorism, much of it in the name of Islam. But those who study Islam carefully find that such actions are a miscontruction of Islam. In fact these people not only terrorize those outside of Islam, but they frighten their own people to such a degree that these folks are afraid to stand up and denounce them.
My point is that calling oneself Catholic, in this case, but publically proposing choices that are in conflict with the Catholic faith is as problematic as calling oneself Muslim and proposing choices that are in conflict with that faith.
We cannot change the moral absolutes. They are what they are. They are infallible. If one calls oenself a Catholic, but publically proposes something that is contrary to an infallible moral absolute, then one has to ask himself or herself such questions:
Why do I call myself Catholic?
Do I believe in infallible moral absolutes?
Do I want to carry out the missioin that Christ gives to the disciples, to convert the world?
And if I don’t believe in infallible moral absolutes or I don’t believe that I am called to convert the world to a Culture of Life, then am I really Catholic, since these are essential to being Catholic?
I can’t say that I have a different personal opinion on a moral absolute and then say, “Let’s not make this personal.” The moment that I teach what is my doctrine instead of the moral absolute that is taught by the faith, I have made it personal. I’m no longer teaching Catholicism. I’m teaching something else that comes from me, not from the faith.
The question is not intended to offend. It is intended to warn anyone who says that they are Catholic that any position that is contrary to an infallible truth places the person outside of the Catholic communion.
If I did not point that out to anyone who is in this position, I would be unfaithful. My mission as a Catholic and as a Franciscan is to point out these things, not to hurt people, but to help people. Sometimes we don’t realize where we place ourselves with certain positions.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
