Last year the archdiocese of Trenton, upon receiving a report of a priest who sexually molested a 16 year old boy, immediately called the authorities and let them handle the situation. This should be protocol for all bishops upon any such reports. There have been priests who have even been cleared by the use of this method, the correct procedure in my opinion. Not only can the minor or young adult be damaged for life, but the parish suffers tremendously. I am a parish member of the church of which the above-mentioned priest was arrested. It was a shock to the whole parish. Upon driving home after receiving the news by a guest priest speaking openly to the congregation about this priest’s arrest, I was in such a daze and confused that I even accidently ran a red light going home with my two kids in car. I could have caused a major accident due to the shock and confusion. I should also add that the arrested priest was very much loved by everyone.
It is unbelievable in this day and age that anyone can think they can get away with molestation or covering up any form of molestation. The word needs to get out to all clergy in all churches and denominations throughout the world that if they have these types of tendencies and feel that they cannot control themselves they need to step down immediately. They have a snow ball’s chance in hell of getting away with these heinous acts.
I once saw an episode of Mother Angelica Classics (who I love dearly) in which she commented that gay men, because of their not being attracted to women, have been called to lead a life of celibacy and may even be called to the priesthood. While I agree with the celibacy part, I totally disagree with the second part. That is a preposterous position to take, leaving the door open to possible scandal and the destruction of the lives of children. I am a witness to the type of destruction that this selfish behavior can cause to a parish a well.