Archbishop O'Brien says gays should be banned from seminaries

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felra:
Your point is lost on me. The cardinal’s statement addresses a compulsive behavior which by definition is: Compulsive, defn:***a)***An irresistible impulse to act, regardless of the rationality of the motivation. b) An act or acts performed in response to such an impulse. However, this is quite different than rationalizing acting on (not resisting with God’s grace) a persistent sinful desire: “I only do it because I can’t help it”.
I think a general principle on moral culpability is being applied here by the Cardinal to a specific case. In general, the less a person is in his right mind, the less morally culpable God will hold him for his bad behavior. This is true whether the behavior is theft, murder, homosexuality, whatever. But there is no fooling God in this. No one is going to get away with any pretense that “I couldn’t help myself.” But even if a person is ultimately found not to be morally culpable, his behavior can still hurt my kid.
 
I think thw whole money stealing issue is dependable. If the person is known to have once taken some money from someone elses wallet, then I would find it in my heart to forgive them, something the catholic church encourages. If on the otherhand the person frquently steals large amounts, even from those he loves dearly, then no, I would not entrust my money to him.
But, I didn’t say someone who has stolen money, of either great or small amounts, but someone prone to stealing. I think it obvious that such a person ought not be put in a situation in which he would be daily tempted to steal. Common sense.
I do agree, anyone addicted to sex, or sexual activity should be rejected from a seminary (regardless of sexual orientation) however we cannot say that because certain things are related to a particular type of person then they should be rejected. It is fact that more Americans own guns than Italians. Much more, but should we reject Americans from the priesthood? Ofcourse not. Common sense would be to evaluate each person separately and see what they are like, rather than to say all homosexuals should be rejected from the priesthood.
People prone to any kind of sexual deviation ought not to be admitted to the seminary. Once again, so he cannot bring scandal on the Church. Common sense.
 
But, I didn’t say someone who has stolen money, of either great or small amounts, but someone prone to stealing. I think it obvious that such a person ought not be put in a situation in which he would be daily tempted to steal. Common sense.
A good point but I still can’t consider it to be conclusive evidence, we are all prone to sin are we not? Secondly I don’t think stealing can be compared to sexual sin, they are entirely different, I would generally say that a person considering priesthood would find it easier to steal, than to commit a grave sexual sin; this is rather weak though.
People prone to any kind of sexual deviation ought not to be admitted to the seminary. Once again, so he cannot bring scandal on the Church. Common sense.
All men are prone to sinful sexual desire, all of these deires can bring scandal upon the church, we cannot ban homosexuals as an attempt at bringing order to our church, it won’t work. Other churches have homosexual priests, they don’t have such grave problems, does that not say something?
that the sexual behaviour of homosexual persons is always and totally compulsive and therefore inculpable."
Why does the church bother calling homosexuals to chastity, and then make statements like this, catholic homosexuals must be completely demoralised.

By banning homosexuals are church is saying in a sense that they are incapable of overcoming their disorder, even in a place where they shall come into the most contact with God. Is this not doubting the ability for people to overcome disorders with Gods help?
 
I think you took Cardinal Ratzinger’s statement out of context. This is what he said:
Cardinal Ratzinger:
…It has been argued that the homosexual orientation in certain cases is not the result of deliberate choice; and so the homosexual person would then have no choice but to behave in a homosexual fashion. Lacking freedom, such a person, even if engaged in homosexual activity, would not be culpable…
Here the Cardinal is pointing out one of the arguements coming from the homosexual community. He is not agreeing with it. He is saying, if true, the homosexual person would not be culpable because he acts out of compulsion and not freedom.
Cardinal Ratzinger:
…Here, the Church’s wise moral tradition is necessary since it warns against generalizations in judging individual cases. In fact, circumstances may exist, or may have existed in the past, which would reduce or remove the culpability of the individual in a given instance;or other circumstances may increase it…
Here he is saying that you can’t generalize. It might be possible that some individuals, in some instances, act out of pure compulsion and not freedom. But he goes on to uphold the Catholic doctrine of free will.
Cardinal Ratzinger:
…What is at all costs to be avoided is the unfounded and demeaning assumption that the sexual behaviour of homosexual persons is always and totally compulsive and therefore inculpable. What is essential is that the fundamental liberty which characterizes the human person and gives him his dignity be recognized as belonging to the homosexual person as well. As in every conversion from evil, the abandonment of homosexual activity will require a profound collaboration of the individual with God’s liberating grace…
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Libero:
Why does the church bother calling homosexuals to chastity, and then make statements like this, catholic homosexuals must be completely demoralised.
Obviously he is not saying the call to chastity for homosexual persons is of no use.
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Libero:
By banning homosexuals are church is saying in a sense that they are incapable of overcoming their disorder, even in a place where they shall come into the most contact with God. Is this not doubting the ability for people to overcome disorders with Gods help?
Again, this is not what he said. Barring homosexuals from the priesthood has nothing to do with overcoming their disorder. It has everything to do with their track record as priests, their fitness to be priests, and protecting minors from further abuse.
 
Cardinal Ratzinger is not a stupid man, it would be foolish to accept everything he says at face value. Secondly my main point is that the nature in which the church educates people about homosexuality, is not inspiring homosexuals on a call to chastity, someone who does not choose to sit down and discuss the statements on a forum would probably find the cardinals words to be slightly insensitive (which I know is in every way his last intention) I find this to be a grave problem, is it any wonder homosexuals aren’t agreeing to the church, when the church talks of them as if they are not real people?

P.S. I’ve found it hard to put my thoughts into words here, it’s possible that you may interpret me wrongly, so please be patient.
 
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Libero:
Cardinal Ratzinger is not a stupid man, it would be foolish to accept everything he says at face value. Secondly my main point is that the nature in which the church educates people about homosexuality, is not inspiring homosexuals on a call to chastity, someone who does not choose to sit down and discuss the statements on a forum would probably find the cardinals words to be slightly insensitive (which I know is in every way his last intention) I find this to be a grave problem, is it any wonder homosexuals aren’t agreeing to the church, when the church talks of them as if they are not real people?

P.S. I’ve found it hard to put my thoughts into words here, it’s possible that you may interpret me wrongly, so please be patient.
I understand your point and disagree very much. Not long ago some dissident priests in Chicago wrote an open letter saying the Vatican’s language was off putting to homosexuals and in essence saying they were homophobic.

This type of reasoning strikes me as disingenuous on many levels. First, we live in a very sophisticated society and the language of the Vatican is necessarily precise. Are we to believe that educated people, particularly priests, cannot understand what the intent of these documents are? Additionally, many intentionally distort the Church’s words for their own agenda. This is done in the media, by “gay” groups and by uninformed lay Catholics.

My question is why? Why do these folks claim the Vatican is confusing or uncharitable in matters regarding homosexual conduct? My conclusion is that many are clinging to behaviors they would rather not give up and some are clinging to false notions because to accept the truth would mean thinking with the mind of the Church, rather than being a slave to their opinions.

The documents I have read are not only very compassionate, but not overly theological. The truth can only be accpted to the degree the reader is open to the truth.
 
I would not accuse the Vatican of being homophobic, they do not fear homosexuality, the only thing they fear is what open sinful homosexuality can do to the church.

Secondly, I think this documnet may be a poor example, it was cleraly not intended for the lay community.
My question is why? Why do these folks claim the Vatican is confusing or uncharitable in matters regarding homosexual conduct? My conclusion is that many are clinging to behaviors they would rather not give up and some are clinging to false notions because to accept the truth would mean thinking with the mind of the Church, rather than being a slave to their opinions.
Maybe the answer is actually because it appears to be the case that the vatican are uncharitable. Alot of lay people are clearly less inteligent than yourself and would have trouble trying to access the real meaning of a document. There is very rarely a high ranking clergy member who speaks of the hardships that homosexuals endure (pleasse correct me if wrong), and when they do, people completely over react and accuse them of heresy. I find it hard to believe people consider themselves as becoming slaves to the opinons of the vatican - are there such people?
The documents I have read are not only very compassionate, but not overly theological. The truth can only be accpted to the degree the reader is open to the truth.
We clearly have two very different descriptions of compassion.
 
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Libero:
I would not accuse the Vatican of being homophobic, they do not fear homosexuality, the only thing they fear is what open sinful homosexuality can do to the church.
They want the salvation of all souls.
Secondly, I think this documnet may be a poor example, it was cleraly not intended for the lay community.
It was written to bishops, but that does not mean it is not for the laity. There is nothing secret about it. What in the document makes you think it pertains only to the clergy and the laity are to be denied reading it or living it out?
Maybe the answer is actually because it appears to be the case that the vatican are uncharitable.
Many are decieved that does not mean the deception is real.
Alot of lay people are clearly less inteligent than yourself and would have trouble trying to access the real meaning of a document.
I do not have a superior intellect and anyone of average intelligence can grasp the faith. These issues are not so complex that the CCC is above them. The CCC has been called unchartiable as well.
There is very rarely a high ranking clergy member who speaks of the hardships that homosexuals endure (pleasse correct me if wrong), and when they do, people completely over react and accuse them of heresy. I find it hard to believe people consider themselves as becoming slaves to the opinons of the vatican - are there such people?
I was saying that people who claim the Vatican is uncaring are slaves to their own opinions, rather than accepting the objective truth. The truth is not mean. The truth is not unloving. The truth may mean we have to change the way we lead our lives. That demand, by Christ, is seen as uncharitable by many today.
We clearly have two very different descriptions of compassion.
Indeed.
 
They want the salvation of all souls.
I know, I am Roman Catholic.
It was written to bishops, but that does not mean it is not for the laity. There is nothing secret about it. What in the document makes you think it pertains only to the clergy and the laity are to be denied reading it or living it out?
I am not stating that it is secret, but the primary reason for this document is for the clergy, the laity often get seperate documents, I don’t think what you state, but rather that it is less appropriate for the laity due to language and the nature of the document.
I do not have a superior intellect and anyone of average intelligence can grasp the faith. These issues are not so complex that the CCC is above them. The CCC has been called unchartiable as well.
I know anyone of reasonable intelligence can graps the faith, but I do think that it would require someone of a greater intelligence, or perhaps someone who has spent alot of time on a subject to be capable of grasping the meaning of the particular document in question. Personally, I find the catechism to be very charitable, and I would say more so than Cardinal Ratzinger’s document -However I say this as the document was mainly a set of instructions for bishops, and therefore would not have been as concerned about being charitbale on homosexuality.

Finally, please can we not let this deteriorate into a situation where we just quote the other poster, and say why they are wrong. We find out nothing if that happens.
 
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Libero:
I am not stating that it is secret, but the primary reason for this document is for the clergy, the laity often get seperate documents, I don’t think what you state, but rather that it is less appropriate for the laity due to language and the nature of the document.
First, one may speak to a priest or other educated person, about it to come to a greater understanding. Second, there is a type of hyper clericalism that wants to restrict the rights, and duties, of the lay faithful by creating a false notion about what the laity roles are.
I know anyone of reasonable intelligence can graps the faith, but I do think that it would require someone of a greater intelligence, or perhaps someone who has spent alot of time on a subject to be capable of grasping the meaning of the particular document in question. Personally, I find the catechism to be very charitable, and I would say more so than Cardinal Ratzinger’s document -However I say this as the document was mainly a set of instructions for bishops, and therefore would not have been as concerned about being charitbale on homosexuality.
We disagree. Most people who have a college degree, or not, can obtain normal reading comprehension and if needed put a little more work into understanding something. It is no great feat.
Finally, please can we not let this deteriorate into a situation where we just quote the other poster, and say why they are wrong. We find out nothing if that happens.
Why? Discussing these issues is not deterioration, but one way to seek out truth. Is dialogue now seen as negative or strident?
 
miguel said:

I plan on subscribing to those folks. I like them.

As I was reading it the phrase they mentioned from Christ to the adulteress that says go and sin no more struck me. By modern standards that is almost hate speech. It is judgmental, it is not compassionate as we now define compassion and the woman may have felt humiliated and guilty afterward.
 
First, one may speak to a priest or other educated person, about it to come to a greater understanding. Second, there is a type of hyper clericalism that wants to restrict the rights, and duties, of the lay faithful by creating a false notion about what the laity roles are.
Okay good point, but I don’t understand your aim, I understand hyper clericalism, but what of it. What do you expect me to say here?
We disagree. Most people who have a college degree, or not, can obtain normal reading comprehension and if needed put a little more work into understanding something. It is no great feat.
If you say so, but there will always be documents that the very nature can confuse those who attempt to read them, such as those who accused the vatican of homophobia as you previously stated.
Why? Discussing these issues is not deterioration, but one way to seek out truth. Is dialogue now seen as negative or strident?
In posting that remark, I was only concerned that the thread would begin to deteriorate. It remains that merely proving someone wrong is not having a discussion. Also, this thread has strayed of topic now, the nature of Cardinal Ratzinger’s documents to the clergy has nothing to do with the original post.
 
But, I didn’t say someone who has stolen money, of either great or small amounts, but someone prone to stealing. I think it obvious that such a person ought not be put in a situation in which he would be daily tempted to steal. Common sense.
Libero: A good point but I still can’t consider it to be conclusive evidence, we are all prone to sin are we not? Secondly I don’t think stealing can be compared to sexual sin, they are entirely different, I would generally say that a person considering priesthood would find it easier to steal, than to commit a grave sexual sin; this is rather weak though.

Della: Of course the comparison isn’t conclusive evidence. I didn’t intend it to be. It is just a comparison, but an apt one because the propensity for a man towards a particular sin makes him a poor candidate for particular vocations. So, someone who can’t keep their fingers out of the coffers shouldn’t be given a position in which he will be tempted to do so. By the same token a man who has deviant sexual desires ought not to be placed in a vocation in which he would be exposed to constant temptation. Surely that is plain enough for anyone to understand.
People prone to any kind of sexual deviation ought not to be admitted to the seminary. Once again, so he cannot bring scandal on the Church. Common sense.
Libero: All men are prone to sinful sexual desire, all of these deires can bring scandal upon the church, we cannot ban homosexuals as an attempt at bringing order to our church, it won’t work. Other churches have homosexual priests, they don’t have such grave problems, does that not say something?

Della: But, not all men are prone to deviant sexual desire, which is what we are talking about here. And it doesn’t matter what other churches decide for their ministerial positions, the Catholic Church ought to be more circumspect than others because we are the Church founded by Christ, not by the whim of this human founder or that.

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that the sexual behaviour of homosexual persons is always and totally compulsive and therefore inculpable."

Libero: Why does the church bother calling homosexuals to chastity, and then make statements like this, catholic homosexuals must be completely demoralised.

Della: I don’t see what is demoralizing about saying that people prone to sexual deviancy are not culpable/as guilty as those who don’t suffer from such a disability. It’s meant to be a statement of mercy not of condemnation, which you seem to have missed.

Libero: By banning homosexuals are church is saying in a sense that they are incapable of overcoming their disorder, even in a place where they shall come into the most contact with God. Is this not doubting the ability for people to overcome disorders with Gods help?

Della: No, by banning homosexuals the Church is saying that the priesthood is a high and holy calling that is not to be made into a politic football nor used by anyone to push agendas. A priest is a priest for life, and the priesthood is for all eternity not just during times when some people feel homosexuals ought to be in seminaries as if the seminary was a place in which to treat sexual deviancy.

The seminary is a place to form priests who will serve the Church and the world. Those ought not to be admitted who would find it an occasion of sin or even a near occasion of sin. The Church has to think of the good of the whole of the Church which has to live with the effects of the sins of a few who never ought to have been ordained in the first place. And those people include any man with any form of sexual deviancy at all, be it homosexuality or pedophilia or any other such problem.
 
Regarding the connection between fiscal and sexual scandal in the Church, check out this article by a former FBI agent.

newoxfordreview.org/article.jsp?did=0903-ryan

You need to purchase the article, but the intro shown on the site gives you a clue. Priests accused of sexual scandal were highly represented among those accused of fiscal scandal.
 
Della, you have made alot of valid points, I shall try and answer them all.

the idea of preventing temptation is good, but there are plenty of other temptations, and also ones which heterosexuals will suffer. I do not think that any candidate for the priesthood who cannot resist sin that is morally wrong on a large scale should be considered. However having said this, it is still unfair to prevent any homosexual from entering seminary, due to the poor will power of others. Also, are candidates required to tell of their sexual orientation, even if it is homosexuality that they reject?

Yes, I agree, not all men are prone to deviant sexual desires, but to claim that it is only homosexuals that are, is unfair. Secondly, this does not answer the fact that other churches have managed to allow homosexual priests, without creating such mayhem.

The whole demoralised idea is clearly just matter of opinion, I think that many homosexuals would feel demoralised in an attempt at chastity, when the church so rarely talks about the hardships a homosexual faces, but rather continously talks about how terrible homosexuality is. Why otherwise do so many faithful homosexuals either ignore the church on the matter, or just switch denominations?

Lastly, this whole agenda idea is blown out of proportion, we are generalising, not all homosexual priest are ‘pro - gay’ some just stay faithful to the churchs teachings, also this is once again a matter for America to sort out, I have attended many different churches, and have heard from many different priests, the issue of homosexuality is rarely talked about in England. It is very hard to find a statement from Cardinal Murphy - O’connor about the issue.
 
Libero: Della, you have made alot of valid points, I shall try and answer them all.

the idea of preventing temptation is good, but there are plenty of other temptations, and also ones which heterosexuals will suffer. I do not think that any candidate for the priesthood who cannot resist sin that is morally wrong on a large scale should be considered. However having said this, it is still unfair to prevent any homosexual from entering seminary, due to the poor will power of others. Also, are candidates required to tell of their sexual orientation, even if it is homosexuality that they reject?

Della: There is nothing unfair about not taking the chance that a homosexual man will cause scandal. Homosexuality is not the only thing for which men are found unsuitable. This is the priesthood we are talking about not a job as an investment banker or a dentist or clothes designer. The priesthood is a very specific calling and vocation that is more important than any one candidate’s worth as a candidate. I do not know what individual seminaries require their candidates to reveal about their personal lives, but if a man is hiding something in order to be accepted, he shouldn’t be there at all. It’s like getting married. A potential spouse has the right to know about any major problems his/her fiancée/fiancé has had or continues to have or s/he will have grounds for an annulment.

Libero: Yes, I agree, not all men are prone to deviant sexual desires, but to claim that it is only homosexuals that are, is unfair. Secondly, this does not answer the fact that other churches have managed to allow homosexual priests, without creating such mayhem.

Della: I did not claim that only homosexuals are prone to deviant sexual desires. In fact, if you will reread my comments, I went out of my way not to say that. As to what other churches do, it has no bearing on what the Catholic Church ought to do. Other churches have women ministers and allow homosexual marriages and claim they have no problems because of it, but that doesn’t make either of these things right or desirable by the Catholic Church. This isn’t a justice issue. This is about suitability for the priesthood, who is suitable and who isn’t, which is up to the Church to decide not those who think they are being discriminated against or by what other churches do.

Libero: The whole demoralised idea is clearly just matter of opinion, I think that many homosexuals would feel demoralised in an attempt at chastity, when the church so rarely talks about the hardships a homosexual faces, but rather continously talks about how terrible homosexuality is. Why otherwise do so many faithful homosexuals either ignore the church on the matter, or just switch denominations?

Della: The Church has made loving statements about the plight of homosexuals. If people want to ignore them or exaggerate any negative teachings about homosexuality that is up to them. Catholics who embrace homosexuality as just their orientation like heterosexuality and won’t admit to its being a disorder are hardly likely to find anything they want to hear in any Church statements. If people leave they leave in order to find a church that will conform to them instead of them conforming to the Church. That is their option, but is no reason for the Church to change its teachings nor admit homosexuals to our seminaries.

Libero: Lastly, this whole agenda idea is blown out of proportion, we are generalising, not all homosexual priest are ‘pro - gay’ some just stay faithful to the churchs teachings, also this is once again a matter for America to sort out, I have attended many different churches, and have heard from many different priests, the issue of homosexuality is rarely talked about in England. It is very hard to find a statement from Cardinal Murphy - O’connor about the issue.

Della: I did not say that only those with an agenda want to be priests, but they are certainly being used by those with an agenda, which no one can deny. And how much an issue is talked about has no bearing on whether or not any particular person or group of persons ought to be admitted to the priesthood. If it isn’t an issue elsewhere also means nothing. Even if all the world stood against the Church on this issue, it would not matter. Indeed, such opposition is usually a sign that the Church is right and being counter-cultural, something she was called by Christ to be.

I am disturbed that you are asking: “why not?” “why can’t?” “why shouldn’t?” instead of “why would?” “why can?” and “why should?” homosexual men be admitted to the priesthood. The Church isn’t called to please any man or group of men but only to do what Christ called her to do–to bring the Gospel to all men. The Church, like a virgin bride, ought to rightfully ask, “Is this right and good?” not “how much can we get away with and not offend God?”
 
Okay Della, thanks for your previous post, firstly I am going to make the point that I am not trying to prove anyone wrong, and if I accidentally misinterpret you or misquote you it is not to try and ‘win’ the conversation on this topic; I am merely trying to justify my beliefs that the Archbishop’s idea was not rational and really that fair. I am not condoning homosexuality or promoting men who are not capable of doing the job to be allowed into the priesthood.

I would say that homosexuals should be allowed to apply for the priesthood and have a fair chance of being considered. Just because someone has a disorder does not mean they should be automatically vetoed from the priesthood, especially when they have mastered their disorder. Should a person who has overcome their eating disorder be pushed away from the priesthood?

I apologise for my mistake about your comment on devious desires, Upon talking about other churches, I am not suggesting that the catholic church should follow suit, but rather posing the question as to why other churches do not have such problems with their homosexual priests, is there something which the catholic church has done wrong?

Lastly, I am slightly concerned at your choice of the word disturbed. I would like to correct you slightly here, I am not asking why not, why can’t and why should’nt? But rather why should all homosexuals regardless of how faithful to the church and the churches theachings they are, be rejcted from all seminaries. I can list plenty of reasons why the church should not, but these reasons are not fair, they are not standard reasons based on fact occuring in every situation. I understand fully what the church is called to do, and I would like to think that the church is a good example of fairness and tolerance in todays society, but I do think that preventing all homosexuals from the priesthood is not consistent to fairness and tolerance.
 
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Orionthehunter:
The document starts out as follows:

The study of sexual abuse of minors
Attraction to minors does not equal pedophilia. Under Roman Law (Roman Empire and subsequent countries that adopted this part of Roman Law) children were minors until age 25. Here in the states, children are minors until age 18. In other countries it is higher and lower.

***“minor: *persons who had already reached the age of puberty, but who were younger than twenty-five. Under Roman law, persons younger than 25 were regarded as minors and consequently had limited legal capacity.”

**http://www.oup.com/uk/booksites/content/0199276072/resources/glossary/borkowski_v5.htm
 
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