Are bikinis always sinful?

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Debora123 said:
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Walking_Home:
Yep – big cop-outs. A man lusts – because has allowed himself to lust.
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To quote my husband: "I don’t see why some men claim it is so hard to treat a girl as a human being."
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👍---- you are married to a very good man.
 
Debora123 said:
I agree with all of this.

Not sure how it ties in to wearing a bikini at a pool, but whatever. Nice post.
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Yes, I’m not entirely sure myself and don’t look forward to having to deal with teenage daughters who dress “immodestly” - bearing in mind that most parents will think their daughters dress immodestly as the fashions of the day evolve from our own times.

Immodesty in dressing is a slipper slope. I’m not sure where one draws a line along the slope from a burqa to a thong bikini. In Australia back in the 50s, I think, they used to measure the dimensions of swimwear and charge people with offenses against public decency (or more commonly just order them off the beach). I’m not sure what the measurements allowed were, but the public rejected this and it was discontinued. I’m not sure what measurements I should allow/encourage as a father. I really don’t know where to draw the line, and the level of debate in this thread shows that it’s a difficult matter.
 
Walking_Home said:
👍---- you are married to a very good man.
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He is a great man - the best. (And thank you by the way!)

But treating people as people is basic human decency. It shouldn’t take a great man to acknowledge that doing so is really NOT that difficult.
 
underacloud said:
Yes, I’m not entirely sure myself and don’t look forward to having to deal with teenage daughters who dress “immodestly” - bearing in mind that most parents will think their daughters dress immodestly as the fashions of the day evolve from our own times.

Immodesty in dressing is a slipper slope. I’m not sure where one draws a line along the slope from a burqa to a thong bikini. In Australia back in the 50s, I think, they used to measure the dimensions of swimwear and charge people with offenses against public decency (or more commonly just order them off the beach). I’m not sure what the measurements allowed were, but the public rejected this and it was discontinued. I’m not sure what measurements I should allow/encourage as a father. I really don’t know where to draw the line, and the level of debate in this thread shows that it’s a difficult matter.
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Well you sound like a great father. I’m sure you know that first and foremost you are to teach your daughter that she is a human being, deserving of respect and love regardless.

If you values herself, she will be more likely to make good life decisions in ALL the aspects of her life.

Self respect and self value are key. 👍
 
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