C
Cruciferi
Guest
Hmmm sounds like my lifeNot having Catholic friends can easily lead one to despair.
Hmmm sounds like my lifeNot having Catholic friends can easily lead one to despair.
I have very few friends I talk to much and super-regularly, but yes a great deal of my acquaintances, online or otherwise, are Catholic. But lots of them also aren’t. In my semi-closest circle of friends, the Catholics may barely outnumber the non-Catholics. In my very closest circle of friends, which includes a couple of close relatives, the non-Catholics barely outnumber the Catholics.Are most of your friends the same religion as you?
I have no idea, since my non-religious friends and acquaintances don’t tell me how they view me. Not usually. I’ve had a person or two say they’re not particularly religious but they respect it, so that’s good. That doesn’t mean they agree with it or even like it, and they’d probably get annoyed if I were to browbeat them, but they seem to understand that I’m just trying to follow what I believe in, and they respect that even if they don’t believe it too. I guess it’s similar to the way I myself look at people who believe in other religions: I might not agree, and might not even like some of their beliefs, but I respect them for sincerely trying to do what they think is right, even in some cases where I might even oppose them. That’s usually all I ask of others too.How do your non religious friends view you?
You’d have to define “influence.” I don’t browbeat, but I absolutely do think we have a duty to point toward God for people, and I hope I do. I just think you don’t have to try to argue people into it, or browbeat them for embracing things we find sinful when, if they don’t even share our religion yet, that’s putting the cart before the horse. Instead I think just by living your Faith openly, just by being open that you’re an orthodox, practicing Catholic, and being open about your love for God and how valuable an orthodox practice of the Faith is to you, you’re already evangelizing without ever having to browbeat or shame people. Because evangelizing isn’t about arguing or browbeating, but pointing to God and His Church. Just by living your Faith openly, proudly, and by name, you’re doing that. I guess I could say it this way: Don’t hide your lamp under a bushel, but that doesn’t mean you have to burn people with it. I try to walk that line, though I’m still learning.Do you try to influence your friend’s ?