Eric,
You misunderstood me. The point I was making is that I didn’t label you. Let me try to explain it more clearly:
You posted aboutOrdinary Form of the Latin rite of Mass in which you gave several examples of very severe Liturgical abuses as evidence that the Ordinary Form is not beautiful. I pointed out that your post very unfairly characterized these abuses as being intrinsic to the Ordinary Form, rather than what they were - abuses contrary to the proper celebration of the Ordinary Form. You responded with rather harsh and negative post in which you said that 95% of all Ordinary Form Masses are like that and in which you made it clear that you recognize the Ordinary Form is not supposed to be as it was in those examples. I said that this is a gross exagerration, to which you replied that I hadn’t walked in your shoes and that you had been labeled a wacko, looked at with odd looks, and suffered many other injustices due to your love of the Extraordinary Form.
I invited you to be a part of the solution by showing how the EF has transformed you into the image of Christ. I pointed out that one of the reasons you were treated that way is because most of the vocal traditionalists do act like wackos, for lack of a better term. They go around labeling people heretics and spouting vile language towards the Pauline Mass and those who attend or prefer it. I invited you to help eliminate this reputation, and to join the many traditionalists on this forum who do not behave that way. In response, you said that I had not walked in your shoes and so that in some way either excuses you from or causes you to act harshly as you did.
I then said that you had not walked in my shoes, and that I have been subject to the very same sorts of attacks from traditionalists as you have from others, but that I had not labeled you but had instead prayed to the Holy Spirit so that He might help me to communicate with you in a loving way. My point was that if you truly want to support the EF and to spread the news about it, you must act in this way, showing forth the love of Christ which you have received at that Mass.
I didn’t label you. My point was exactly that just as I had not labeled you because of the many vocal traditionalists who behave terribly, so too you ought to offer up your suffering on the behalf of those who treat you poorly for your belief and preach your message lovingly as I have tried to do.
I hope that clears things up! Peace and God bless