Are the women who seek abortion victims, too?

[RoseMary131]

Talking about women as victims of abortion removes the decision makers from the consequences of their actions. Not a very wise tactic, IMHO. Think of the old testament law that required parents who wanted their rebellious children killed cast the first stone. (Deuteronomy 21:18-21) If the parents want an abortion, they should be forced to own up to the act they are going to commit and accept the consequences.

Most women seeking abortion have no idea anyone is calling them “victims of abortion” - not before their abortion and not afterwards.

They aren’t saying “well I’ll go get an abortion because I can just say I am a victim and that will remove any consequences of the abortion.”

Knowing post-abortive women are victims of aboriton is “not a tactic”… it is reality.

Many women don’t even know they are suffering from Post Abortion Syndrome. They don’t know there is even such a thing.

They don’t connect their addictions, their depression, their disorders, their failure to be able to bond with children they have later, their promiscuous life-style to their abortion.

Many mothers take what they did, the horrible day of the abortion, and stuff it deep inside their mind. They try not to think about it. When they see a child the age of their child and suffer - they usually suffer in silence.

Their abortion is a hidden secret. Most mothers are afraid for people to know.

God forgives them when they ask for His forgiveness. Many women think God will never forgive them for their horrible act. I heard one woman thought if she walked into a church, it would surely fall down upon her… that is not a normal, logical thought… but it is the sad feelings of a post-abortive woman.

Until many of these mothers experience a healing, they live daily with the consequences… they just might not even know it is a consequence of their abortion.

May all those suffering from abortion hear God’s words of Love touching their hearts.

 

[Jeanne_S]

Most women seeking abortion have no idea anyone is calling them “victims of abortion” - not before their abortion and not afterwards.

They aren’t saying “well I’ll go get an abortion because I can just say I am a victim and that will remove any consequences of the abortion.”

Knowing post-abortive women are victims of aboriton is “not a tactic”… it is reality.

Many women don’t even know they are suffering from Post Abortion Syndrome. They don’t know there is even such a thing.

They don’t connect their addictions, their depression, their disorders, their failure to be able to bond with children they have later, their promiscuous life-style to their abortion.

Many mothers take what they did, the horrible day of the abortion, and stuff it deep inside their mind. They try not to think about it. When they see a child the age of their child and suffer - they usually suffer in silence.

Their abortion is a hidden secret. Most mothers are afraid for people to know.

God forgives them when they ask for His forgiveness. Many women think God will never forgive them for their horrible act. I heard one woman thought if she walked into a church, it would surely fall down upon her… that is not a normal, logical thought… but it is the sad feelings of a post-abortive woman.

Until many of these mothers experience a healing, they live daily with the consequences… they just might not even know it is a consequence of their abortion.

May all those suffering from abortion hear God’s words of Love touching their hearts.

Thank you Rose Mary.I want to emphasize to those who continue to argue,that women who abort,deserve the pain ,sorrow,etc.Trust me,that never completely leaves,the soul wound left by the scars of abortion,is something the post abortive woman lives with daily.Again,yes these women are victims,maybe of their own decision,however,the dirty little secret the pro aborts don’t want known is the very fact that effects of abortion extend beyond the innocent life in the womb.

 

[KostyaJMJ]

Most women seeking abortion have no idea anyone is calling them “victims of abortion” - not before their abortion and not afterwards.

They aren’t saying “well I’ll go get an abortion because I can just say I am a victim and that will remove any consequences of the abortion.”

Knowing post-abortive women are victims of aboriton is “not a tactic”… it is reality.

Many women don’t even know they are suffering from Post Abortion Syndrome. They don’t know there is even such a thing.

They don’t connect their addictions, their depression, their disorders, their failure to be able to bond with children they have later, their promiscuous life-style to their abortion.

Many mothers take what they did, the horrible day of the abortion, and stuff it deep inside their mind. They try not to think about it. When they see a child the age of their child and suffer - they usually suffer in silence.

Their abortion is a hidden secret. Most mothers are afraid for people to know.

God forgives them when they ask for His forgiveness. Many women think God will never forgive them for their horrible act. I heard one woman thought if she walked into a church, it would surely fall down upon her… that is not a normal, logical thought… but it is the sad feelings of a post-abortive woman.

Until many of these mothers experience a healing, they live daily with the consequences… they just might not even know it is a consequence of their abortion.

May all those suffering from abortion hear God’s words of Love touching their hearts.

Have you ever visited a prison? The exact same thing you’ve said here about post-abortive women could be said about many post-murder men. They suffer from depression, suicidal thoughts, and addictive behavior. Many struggle to find God’s forgiveness and compassion and question their very worth as human beings. Yet we would hardly go around calling these men a victim of murder or suffering from Post Murder Syndrome. Doing so would rightly be condemned as insulting to the real victims of murder. Same with abortion; the real victim is the fetus and not the perp.

 

[Jeanne_S]

Have you ever visited a prison? The exact same thing you’ve said here about post-abortive women could be said about many post-murder men. They suffer from depression, suicidal thoughts, and addictive behavior. Many struggle to find God’s forgiveness and compassion and question their very worth as human beings. Yet we would hardly go around calling these men a victim of murder or suffering from Post Murder Syndrome. Doing so would rightly be condemned as insulting to the real victims of murder. Same with abortion; the real victim is the fetus and not the perp.

The point you are missing here is the fact that the fetus has been catogoized as nothing more than a blob of tissue.The pro abortion industry has done a very effective job in separating the humanity of the fetus,to the extent that a the chant is “it’s my body,it’s my choice”,shows a complete disconnect between the woman and the nascent life in her womb.why do you think the PP and the like are outraged by the thought of ultrasound machines in all crisis pregnancy centers? They know that if the mother does make the connection that this is a baby,regardless of how far into her pregnancy,she will opt out of aborting.let me add,unless you know from personal experience,or know of someone who has had an abortion,I wouldn’t be so quick to condem …

 

[RoseMary131]

Have you ever visited a prison? The exact same thing you’ve said here about post-abortive women could be said about many post-murder men. They suffer from depression, suicidal thoughts, and addictive behavior. Many struggle to find God’s forgiveness and compassion and question their very worth as human beings. Yet we would hardly go around calling these men a victim of murder or suffering from Post Murder Syndrome. Doing so would rightly be condemned as insulting to the real victims of murder. Same with abortion; the real victim is the fetus and not the perp.

I have only visit the jails with the Sisters to celebrate Easter and Christmas in a small way with the prisoners. I have not spent time talking with them. These imprisoned people are so grateful to shake our hands or give us a hug and take their little bag of treats. The tears in their eyes say so much. I’ve seen men, so emotional, they can’t step forward to accept their treat and a handshake. For those who can not come out of their cell, they press their faces up to the glass for as long as they can see us or hear our songs.

Praying the Our Father with them “as we forgive those who trespass against us” has a different feel than praying it with those not in prison. May they be freed from the prison of their pains, even while serving their punishment for their illegal crimes.

One distinction from a person who is imprisoned for murder and a woman who legally kills her child through abortion is what society tells the person and what the government makes as illegal and legal.

Our society and government laws tell the murderer before killing that murdering a person outside the womb is wrong, is illegal.

Our society and government tells the frightened pregnant mother that abortion (terminating the pregnancy) is acceptable… a right to your reproductive freedom… a right to your own body… a choice and no one should take your choice from you … this is legal.

Some of those who commit murder and are imprisoned are actually victims - victims of abuse, victims of drugs and alcohol addiction, victims of domestic abuse, victims of a fatherless society, victims of poverty and being drawn into gangs.

I don’t think it is offensive to the family and friend of the person who was murdered to look at the life of the murderer and understand their background, understand what was different in their life that may have lead to the act of murder. It does not disrespect the person who was murdered, simply because someone looks back on the life of the murderer and sees what may have lead to their choice to murder.

Our society and LAWS tell the murderer before they kill that murder is wrong and illegal.

Our society and LAWS tell mothers that aborting her baby is acceptable, a “right”, and legal.

We need to reach people before they are faced with an unexpected pregnancy and share with them the truth of abortion. We need to keep electing pro-life politicians and working with them to get better laws passed to limit abortion on demand.

We need to support pregnancy centers and be ready to let everyone know where their pregnant friend can get help at these centers. We need to be ready to share with post-abortive women and men that God does love them. We need to be able to give them information where they can find a loving, compassionate healing program or even where to find support on line.

When we look with our hearts at abortion, we need to see not just the horrors of the babies’ bodies torn apart, but we need to see the lives of the post-abortive mothers and fathers torn apart.

If we only look at the horrible pile of baby parts and can not see the pains of the mothers, we are missing a huge part of the destruction before our eyes. When we know it was our society’s teachings, our government laws, and even teachings from “Christians” that lied to those mothers - we can see they were victims, too.

I believe those babies pray for their parents from heaven. We deserve to help those babies by seeing the truth about their mothers. The babies can see the lies their mothers bought into. The babies can see the fear and panic their mothers felt. We can help their mothers. Recognizing that the mother and the baby were both victims is not insulting to the precious child who lost her life through abortion.

 

[Evania]

Talking about women as victims of abortion removes the decision makers from the consequences of their actions. Not a very wise tactic, IMHO. Think of the old testament law that required parents who wanted their rebellious children killed cast the first stone. (Deuteronomy 21:18-21) If the parents want an abortion, they should be forced to own up to the act they are going to commit and accept the consequences.

No one is saying that they aren’t responsible! However, very few people can deny that they are victims of the abortion industry. This industry will lie, use coercion, cover up crime, lobby Congress for money and to change laws, influence classroom curriculum and our very culture. Ask a woman who has suffered an abortion. They will certainly tell you that they were responsible. However, they are painfully aware that they were lied to by nearly everyone. If they knew then what they know now, the abortion would never have happened. Right now, the pro-choice movement is very effective in convincing women that we are the enemy, that we are the ones who are victimizing them. The pro-life movement, more and more, is realizing that they (women) are actually being used as pawns by the pro-choice movement.

 

[RoseMary131]

The pro-life movement, more and more, is realizing that they (women) are actually being used as pawns by the pro-choice movement.

A pivotal pawn in the pro-choice, pro-abortion movement was Norma McCorvey. Everyone “knows” Norma, just by a different name and probably not much about her.

Norma McCorvey wanted to obtain an illegal abortion. She was put in contact with two female lawyers who used her as their pawn in a legal case.

I heard her talk one evening. She said the lawyers said “We won!” and her thought was “You won, I didn’t win anything, I still have my baby.” Her point was that she had to remain pregnant in order to be the “pregnant mother” they needed for their legal case. She gve her daughter up for adoption.

She spent years working at legal abortion mills, helping to justify her role in the legal case. She never had an abortion. She later was baptized, became a pro-life advocate, and later joined the Catholic Church.

Everyone knows her as Jane Roe, of Roe v Wade, the Supreme Court decision that gave the US abortion on demand. A woman, a pawn, used by the pro-abortion camp. A victim who works today to make sure other women do not fall prey to the lies of abortion.

Here is her poem.

Empty Playgrounds
A poem by Miss Norma McCorvey

I sit across from a playground that I visited this eve with a small child.
I know of such places where children play.
I know that I am the cause of them not being here today.
These playgrounds for “innocent children” now dead because of sins I helped do.
I hope, Lord, that the wonderful playground is well guarded with angels.
Angels who will protect them keep them happy and safe.
Angels who will make them smile and laugh.
So that when that glorious day comes; the children will not hold “the sin” against me.
For every time I see a playground empty, I will know that yours will be full.
The sun is now setting, and my heart hurts, Lord.
For the numbers who from abortion have been torn apart.
I pray you can put them back together and make them whole.
If you like, Lord, use my body to make your precious children whole again.
I ask you to do this not only for them, Lord, but also for the love I have for each of them.
Lord, God, you gave your only Son, and He died and shed His blood for us.
All I did was give my baby away so that “women could tear theirs apart.”
For this I will never be able to look in your face out of shame.

 

[Evania]

Have you ever visited a prison? The exact same thing you’ve said here about post-abortive women could be said about many post-murder men. They suffer from depression, suicidal thoughts, and addictive behavior. Many struggle to find God’s forgiveness and compassion and question their very worth as human beings. Yet we would hardly go around calling these men a victim of murder or suffering from Post Murder Syndrome. Doing so would rightly be condemned as insulting to the real victims of murder. Same with abortion; the real victim is the fetus and not the perp.

They also don’t have an entire industry targeting them to make money off of the murder.