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spauline
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that’s absolutely right: we HATE sin but LOVE the sinner. We judge OBJECTIVE nature of acts, but not SUBJECTIVE motives. If a girl is promiscuous, she is objectively doing something wrong. But what are her motives? What’s really going on inside her SUBJECTIVELY? THAT we do NOT judge. She could be the victim of severe family abuse and so is looking to fill the painful void in the wrong places. Or, PERHAPS, as the Pharisee woudl just automatically assume, she is just a spoiled, selfish, superficial person that is looking for cheap thrills and is fully culpable for what she’s doing. But we cannot know for sure!oh i see…it seems we do differ on the purpose of Law. Since Jesus said Love God and love the other sums up the law, i though this was the same truth you hold. No i do not support gay marriage, but it does not mean that i marginalize gays or ask them not to mingle with me. Jesus was criticized for this, and when the actions oppose the law of love then you make the Law vain because you can’t love the One you don’t see if you can’t love the one you see.
And so, a holy person would tell her (if the situation were appropriate), “Susan, what you are doing is not good for you. It is seriously wrong and you should realize how priceless you are in God’s eyse, and that the boys you run after do not really love you for who you truly are. You need to find love in the Lord and find a good man who will sacrifice for you and truly love you.”
But a pharisaical person would just blurt out, "You whore! If you died right now, you’d go to hell! "
That 's the difference between Catholic fraternal correction and ultra-fundamentalist judgementalism.