I can’t say that I am scared of dying per se, because that time is just another aspect of this life and there is nothing you can do to avoid it. I try not to be anyway. I’m probadly more scared of creepy crawling things. But the fact is we are familiar with what we have here, and the thought of going into the unknown can definitely be unsettling at times. As bad as things are here on earth, most of us all still have that great will to keep a hold of this life. What can one do? As Jesus said follow the Ten Commandments, living life knowing that in the end Jesus is our mediator, one who has experienced what you are experiencing now. Fight the good fight here on earth and pray daily for God’s help. As Father Groelshel has said many times when asked what will be his first words after he passes on: “Mercy Lord! Have mercy on me.”
P.S. I once was in a situation where I thought the end had come. When I realized I couldn’t get out of my predicament, I stopped struggling, laid back down, and a calm came over me as I waited for things to play out. At that point there was nothing I could do. Well, I’m still here, so it just turned out to be a very interesting personel experience.