Granted that I think the strongest reasons against contraception are religious and not secular…
- Granted your seat-belt suggestion, If you knew there was an activity that contributed to widely accepted negative consequences, wouldn’t you agree that at the very least that there would be a strong presumption against that activity?
If we have good evidence that an increase in contraception increases sexual promiscuity (which seems reasonable), with the accompanying ills, divorce, depression, increased stds etc, wouldn’t we agree that at the very least, this is a reason to think that there is a strong presumption against it?
Absolutely!
And since most suicides happen on Monday, we should ban Mondays!
More logically, alcohol has been shown to be a factor in at least half of reported sexual assaults.
By this token, should we make alcohol illegal?
Guns kill more people than any other weapon Does this mean we should make guns illegal?
States with higher percentages of college degrees are more likely to be pro-choice, we should ban colleges!
A secular stance might be that we could focus on educating people how to use freedom responsibly instead of curtailing their freedom.
- Granted your gum suggestion (which I’m not sure quite works) Wouldn’t we think something was odd about someone who chewed a whole pizza and spit it out? Is is reasonable to think that this is at least somewhat comparable to someone who has sex but deliberately renders the act infertile.
Odd, sure, but odd only means uncommon. Lots of things are odd. Being a left-handed albino unicyclist is odd, as is being able to read Sanskrit, knowing the starting line up for the 1938 Yankees, or eating garlic-and-banana-sandwiches. That doesn’t mean that those things are immoral, just odd.
But let’s broaden your definition only slightly. Do I think it’s odd for people to deliberately remove nutrition from the food they eat while still experiencing taste? By the fact that I put Splenda in my coffee, I will have to say “no.” Baco’s, veggieburgers, decaffinated coffee, and margarine also fall into this category.
So maybe the argument should be: “Contraception: As evil as Sweet-n-Low”
- Contraception risks having parents stand in the wrong relation to their children.
alexanderpruss.blogspot.com/2008/11/argument-against-contraception.html
That, at least, is an an argument that is not rendered irrelevant by chewing gum, and doesn’t boil down to a spike on the steering wheel. Thank you.

This, however, I do have some experience with. My stepdaughter was an unplanned pregnancy for my wife. She knows that she was a “surprise baby,” and that her mommy didn’t want a baby at the time because she thought she wouldn’t be able to take good care of it, but when she got one, she decided that she was going to be the best mother she could be to this baby. And, to be honest, I have never met a better mother than my wife.
Therefore, this is only a significant issue if the parents persist in wishing the baby hadn’t happened after it has happened.
My other concern about this argument is differentiating it from NFP used to avoid pregnancy. If parents are trying to avoid/delay having another child using NFP, doesn’t that create the same mindset as contraception would: an active, premeditated desire not to conceive?