Artist hangs herself after aborting her twins

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I disagree strongly with abortion… I could never do it… but I think that we can never take away the right to a women’s choice, because it is then that we become a dictatorship…
Substitute slavery for abortion in your argument and you have the CSA’s case for secession. Of course, now that slavery is illegal we have all those secretly held slaves being treated worse that they were before when slavery was safer.

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I say that I can’t determine it because I care for both the mother, and the baby… it is not because I value either life less.

I guess, if I was only to apply my own morals to this situation, I wouldn’t agree with abortion, but that is purely based on my perspective… and no one else’s.
Substitute slavery for abortion in your argument and you have the CSA’s case for secession. Of course, now that slavery is illegal we have all those secretly held slaves being treated worse that they were before when slavery was safer.

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I kind of responded to that before you posted it. :hmmm:

Basically, you’ve all already identified the floors in my argument (although I’m not sure it was an argument either way… :confused: ?) I just don’t think there is a right or a wrong in this. I think we need to remember though that different topics have different ways of dealing with them. I don’t think it’s really fair to compare the legalization of rape or slavery to the legalization of abortion, since they are different topics; and need to be examined from different perspectives.

None of this is meant to cause offense, I am just contemplating!
 
I kind of responded to that before you posted it. :hmmm:

Basically, you’ve all already identified the floors in my argument (although I’m not sure it was an argument either way… :confused: ?) I just don’t think there is a right or a wrong in this. I think we need to remember though that different topics have different ways of dealing with them. I don’t think it’s really fair to compare the legalization of rape or slavery to the legalization of abortion, since they are different topics; and need to be examined from different perspectives.

None of this is meant to cause offense, I am just contemplating!
Well, I’ll have to agree you didn’t make an argument but you did make some unsupported assertions that merit a response. Rape, slavery, and slaughtering children in the womb have at least one critical fact in common: they are gross violations of human dignity and therefore objectively immoral. Calling murder a “choice” doesn’t change the nature of the deed.

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Substitute slavery for abortion in your argument and you have the CSA’s case for secession.
That wasnt the case for secession. I know that may seem a bit like nit picking, considering the topic, but lets not get too carried away with things.
Of course, now that slavery is illegal we have all those secretly held slaves being treated worse that they were before when slavery was safer.
Actually slavery is still very much alive and well and still being practiced in the open the way that it used to be in many parts of the world. The major issue with it being that live is worth a lot less now than it used to be so there is no real incentive to look after your slaves as its cheaper to buy new ones.

Of course you have different forms of slavery (child sex workers, sweat shop workers ect.) and some of them are actually legal.

This is a very emotional issue that has many angles to it, I know that I was almost in tears reading the article. A person has taken their own life and has left family and friends behind to try and cope with this tragidy, I dont think that talk of slavery really fits into it.
 
I AM SO IN BETWEEN… which I know won’t please most people to hear!

but I think that we can never take away the right to a women’s choice, because it is then that we become a dictatorship…


I would just sincerely pray that they don’t, adoption is a far better option. But everything has it’s negatives.
I am not so sure that I agree with your ‘everything has it’s negatives’ statement. What is the downside of adoption? :confused:

What is the downside of keeping your clothes on and choosing to do so prior to sexual relations (where the choosing is supposed to take place)?

In the ‘right to choose’, does the baby have a right to choose as well?

Just some questions I pray you ponder. Peace be with you,

Kelly
 
Very good point… but then won’t we put more lives in danger with backstreet abortions if they were made illegal… thus all those who campaigned for abortions to be made illegal, would also be responsible for a loss of life.

In fact, either way, we are damned!?

Because if we watch lives being killed through legal abortion we are also wrong!

It’s one of those nasty situations that my opinion is so… mixed up? I don’t disagree with you, but I’m not sure I entire I agree either.

Also, the whole dictatorship thing, does really depend on a person’s opinion of a pregnancy. I do agree from the moment it is conceived a baby is a baby, a life… but if someone else doesn’t take that view point, then our beliefs are being dictated to them.
“Backstreet Abortions” leading to thousands of deaths are a myth perpetuated by ‘pro-choicers’. In the USA, in 1972:
the year before Roe, the federal Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reported 39 maternal deaths from illegal abortion. Those 39 mothers and their 39 children were very real tragedies that should have been prevented by providing support and care for the mother and her unborn child. The number 39 however is a far cry form those exaggerated figures of thousands, even tens of thousands, used by abortion advocates in their cause.
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It is also important to remember that women today still die. They die from      so-called "safe" and legal abortions. According to the CDC and the Alan      Guttmacher Institute (a "special affiliate" of Planned Parenthood) over 200      women have died from legal abortions since 1973. These numbers are also      cited in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology, vol. 171, no.5      (November 1994), pp. 1365-1352. Common sense would also suggest that it has      never been in the abortion industry's self interest to report all the deaths      from legal abortion. 

Legalizing abortion simply gave the back-alley physician/butcher permission      to put his shingle on the front door. Abortion remains very much the same      today as it was in 1960, particularly regarding the first-trimester abortion      techniques. The risk now comes from the huge increase in the sheer numbers      of abortions done on a daily basis.
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Let’s see…39 women and children dead v. nearly 50 million babies dead and countless souls lost for all eternity (the mothers and doctors).

Peace be with you,

Kelly
 
Also, the whole dictatorship thing, does really depend on a person’s opinion of a pregnancy. I do agree from the moment it is conceived a baby is a baby, a life… but if someone else doesn’t take that view point, then our beliefs are being dictated to them.
That is precisely why we need laws to protect innocent human beings from those who don’t see anything wrong with killing someone else. There are those who have the opinion that killing others is okay and the innocent need to be protected from these people.
 
That is precisely why we need laws to protect innocent human beings from those who don’t see anything wrong with killing someone else. There are those who have the opinion that killing others is okay and the innocent need to be protected from these people.
Well, I just want to jump in and say this whole argument politically anyway hinges on when life becomes life, and right now medically a baby isn’t considered a life until it’s born, or at the very least, not before it’s viable outside the womb. Even though we believe life begins at conception, a large number of people do not and the whole debate with the law is that one group of people can not tell others what to think and create laws that cater to their specific beliefs - and this goes for so many things like what religion to practice, abortion, etc. Let’s use that slavery example. If you say one group is above all else when it comes to making decesions, then you possibly could even be saying (or it could imply) that some people could say their race is superior - and we all know we are equal and no race is superior above any other.

On a side note however, I don’t think that if abortion was illegal and women had back alley abortions and even died that it would be the fault of those that made abortion illegal.

I guess my point is that while we believe abortion is a killing of an innocent person, unfortunately some others do not (back to the when life begins argument) and that’s how things are set up - for free choice. Right now we are still making progress and I am glad for the growing movement against the late term abortions centered on when a baby is viable and therefore has a right ot life - I don’t think anyone can really argue with when a baby becomes viable they should have a right to life and if they can, then they are just more concerned with being right and not the consequences. One group can’t tell others how the law should be and what to do. We can pray however that women stop having abortions.

As for the downside of adoption as someone mentioned, I do actually believe there is a downside sometimes. Sometimes a parent can not take care of their child and they have to live with a great sadness and regret of having lost the child they carried, loved and bared. Also, children who are adopted sometimes react badly to this and suffer when they later find out. I know overall adoption is a good thing, but sometimes it is very painfull too (as is abortion as a poster noted above as well).
 
I am not so sure that I agree with your ‘everything has it’s negatives’ statement. What is the downside of adoption? :confused:

What is the downside of keeping your clothes on and choosing to do so prior to sexual relations (where the choosing is supposed to take place)?

In the ‘right to choose’, does the baby have a right to choose as well?

Just some questions I pray you ponder. Peace be with you,

Kelly
Well yes, I agree that there is no real downside to practicing restraint; some people would argue (although this is not my opinion) that if the pregnancy was conceived due to rape, that is not necessarily because of their immorality or promiscuity.

But adoption and foster care can have profound negative effects on children. Not every child gets adopted, some inevitably end up in the care system, and not all care experiences are positive… and beside that there is the emotional turmoil of knowing/believing you aren’t wanted. I KNOW those children have a value, a purpose, and are wanted in some respect (because after all their parents we assume were caring enough to save their life even if their chose not to be part of it); but it would be naive to assume these children will be taken in and be loved and feel wanted. Even if they do, how will the feel when, inevitably, they find out the truth? To be honest I don’t want to see children aborted, but nor do I want to see them bundled off to the authorities.
“Backstreet Abortions” leading to thousands of deaths are a myth perpetuated by ‘pro-choicers’. In the USA, in 1972:

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Let’s see…39 women and children dead v. nearly 50 million babies dead and countless souls lost for all eternity (the mothers and doctors).

Peace be with you,

Kelly
That is quite horrific how twisted it has become, but I do feel that we’ll never know the exact figure of back street abortions, and the consequences of them. I agree it must be far less than exaggerated pro-choice materials.
That is precisely why we need laws to protect innocent human beings from those who don’t see anything wrong with killing someone else. There are those who have the opinion that killing others is okay and the innocent need to be protected from these people.
There is the “tissue issue” previously mentioned though… it’s not necessarily that they see killing a person as being okay, just that they disagree that the baby or “tissue” (depending on the outlook) is a life. There are medical arguments for and against the classification of life, so inevitably either way someone is going to disagree with such a law!

Anyway, in the end of the day; what happened to this woman was a tragedy. She was not in a fit state of mind for the abortion and not properly prepared. It is inevitable that a woman feels such loss; and I very much dislike the concept of the medical profession withholding medical facts from a patient… but with an increasingly promiscuous society and lifestyle I don’t think it will be possible to bring this law in to a country that is bent on rights to women. You can be a feminist and a pro-lifer at the same time in the end of the day. It’s a case of “you live your life, and I will live mine”.
 
Well, I just want to jump in and say this whole argument politically anyway hinges on when life becomes life, and right now medically a baby isn’t considered a life until it’s born, or at the very least, not before it’s viable outside the womb. Even though we believe life begins at conception, a large number of people do not and the whole debate with the law is that one group of people can not tell others what to think and create laws that cater to their specific beliefs - and this goes for so many things like what religion to practice, abortion, etc. Let’s use that slavery example. If you say one group is above all else when it comes to making decesions, then you possibly could even be saying (or it could imply) that some people could say their race is superior - and we all know we are equal and no race is superior above any other.

On a side note however, I don’t think that if abortion was illegal and women had back alley abortions and even died that it would be the fault of those that made abortion illegal.

I guess my point is that while we believe abortion is a killing of an innocent person, unfortunately some others do not (back to the when life begins argument) and that’s how things are set up - for free choice. Right now we are still making progress and I am glad for the growing movement against the late term abortions centered on when a baby is viable and therefore has a right ot life - I don’t think anyone can really argue with when a baby becomes viable they should have a right to life and if they can, then they are just more concerned with being right and not the consequences. One group can’t tell others how the law should be and what to do. We can pray however that women stop having abortions.

As for the downside of adoption as someone mentioned, I do actually believe there is a downside sometimes. Sometimes a parent can not take care of their child and they have to live with a great sadness and regret of having lost the child they carried, loved and bared. Also, children who are adopted sometimes react badly to this and suffer when they later find out. I know overall adoption is a good thing, but sometimes it is very painfull too (as is abortion as a poster noted above as well).
You’ve really just summed up on what I’ve tried and failed to say!

Thank you! :hug:

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Peace and Love!
 
to be honest I know I can’t argue with them! I still feel a bit on the fence as to my opinions regarding it all though, because for me it’s impossible to determine the greater good in this situation…
If it be impossible for you to determine the greater good, why not give the benefit of the doubt to the child?

You think taking away a women’s “choice” (if you really have to call it that) would liken our government to a dictatorship… I think allowing women to continue to have this, “choice” is a holocaust… To each his own. 🤷

God bless
 
davia I read your profile and I see that you are Catholic so I understand that these are probably not your views and you are just giving the other side. I still have some comments though. 😉
right now medically a baby isn’t considered a life until it’s born
Wait though you say later that people cannot tell people what to think in order to create laws that cater to others beliefs?
people can not tell others what to think and create laws that cater to their specific beliefs
So which is it? Are people allowed to tell me when life begins but I am not allowed to have a say in it?
Let’s use that slavery example. If you say one group is above all else when it comes to making decesions, then you possibly could even be saying (or it could imply) that some people could say their race is superior - **and we all know we are equal and no race is superior above any other. **
Unless you are a baby in a woman’s womb… Then you are equal to no one. In fact you are so unequal to anyone else that someone can easily dispose of you.
On a side note however, I don’t think that if abortion was illegal and women had back alley abortions and even died that it would be the fault of those that made abortion illegal.
I agree 👍
Right now we are still making progress and I am glad for the growing movement against the late term abortions centered on when a baby is viable and therefore has a right ot life
Wait, hold up. You said that a baby doesn’t become a human until it is, “born” so what is your gripe about late term abortions? It makes no sense. Either a baby doesn’t become human until birth and therefore late term abortions are no, “biggie” or the opposite is true and early abortions are just as terrible as late ones.
I don’t think anyone can really argue with when a baby becomes viable they should have a right to life and if they can,
So then like I said to the other poster, lets give the benefit of doubt to the baby. Lets give the benefit of doubt to life.
One group can’t tell others how the law should be and what to do.
This isn’t true because you just said that one group believe a baby doesn’t become human until it is born… What if I said a baby doesn’t become human until is has the human ability to talk? Can I then do away with my child up until that point? And don’t tell me what to believe, if I believe a child is not human until it can talk, that is what I believe.
We can pray however that women stop having abortions.
Why should we pray to stop it if they are not human until they are born?
Also, children who are adopted sometimes react badly to this and suffer when they later find out.
Yes, much better for them to not be around then to find out that their mother made the “choice” to allow them to live.

God bless
 
Well, I just want to jump in and say this whole argument politically anyway hinges on when life becomes life, and right now medically a baby isn’t considered a life until it’s born, or at the very least, not before it’s viable outside the womb.
Is that really the case?

Scott Peterson ring a bell? He was charged with double homicide and found guilty. And what of Bobby Cutts Jr. who is facing the death penalty in court at this very moment? He was charged with the murder of his ex-girlfriend and their unborn child.

Life begins (on the law books) when secularists decide it does depending on the situation.

Peace
 
Do you thing there are really women who honestly believe that “blob of tissue spin?” My personal opinion (which may be quite wrong) is that the verdict was well-deserved because even my grade-schooler could sketch a baby if asked to represent the contents of a pregnant woman’s belly. He wouldn’t need a nurse to tell him what’s in there and neither should she! :rolleyes:
People who want to believe something are very easy to convince.

The point here is, the medical provider – aside from murdering the twins – violated the Hippocratic Oath (“First, do no harm”) with respect to his patient. He had an obligation to assess her mental condition and advise her accordingly.
 
Well, I just want to jump in and say this whole argument politically anyway hinges on when life becomes life, and right now medically a baby isn’t considered a life until it’s born, or at the very least, not before it’s viable outside the womb.
You would be mistaken if you believe the scientific and medical community is not in agreement that a unique life is present from the moment of conception.
Even though we believe life begins at conception, a large number of people do not
Because a large number of people do not believe something does not make it so.
and the whole debate with the law is that one group of people can not tell others what to think and create laws that cater to their specific beliefs - and this goes for so many things like what religion to practice, abortion, etc.
No, the issue is not to make laws telling others what to think and believe, but to protect the innocent from those who believe it is okay to kill them.
I guess my point is that while we believe abortion is a killing of an innocent person, unfortunately some others do not (back to the when life begins argument) and that’s how things are set up - for free choice.
Unfortunately some other do not believe murder (or theft, or rape, or fill in the blank) is wrong.
Right now we are still making progress and I am glad for the growing movement against the late term abortions centered on when a baby is viable and therefore has a right ot life
In what way is a baby not viable from the moment of conception?
I don’t think anyone can really argue with when a baby becomes viable they should have a right to life and if they can, then they are just more concerned with being right and not the consequences.
And so from the moment of conception they should be protected from being murdered.
One group can’t tell others how the law should be and what to do.
Sure they can. They have been doing that since Roe v. Wade.
But adoption and foster care can have profound negative effects on children.
Of course negative effects are a different order of magnitude compared to murder.
Not every child gets adopted, some inevitably end up in the care system, and not all care experiences are positive… and beside that there is the emotional turmoil of knowing/believing you aren’t wanted.
Not everyone grows up with a cushy pillow and happy feelings all their life, but are still happy to be alive regardless of whether someone else wants them or not or whether they feel wanted.
 
There is the “tissue issue” previously mentioned though… it’s not necessarily that they see killing a person as being okay, just that they disagree that the baby or “tissue” (depending on the outlook) is a life. There are medical arguments for and against the classification of life, so inevitably either way someone is going to disagree with such a law!
Could you provide one of these medical references please?
Anyway, in the end of the day; what happened to this woman was a tragedy. She was not in a fit state of mind for the abortion and not properly prepared. It is inevitable that a woman feels such loss; and I very much dislike the concept of the medical profession withholding medical facts from a patient… but with an increasingly promiscuous society and lifestyle I don’t think it will be possible to bring this law in to a country that is bent on rights to women. You can be a feminist and a pro-lifer at the same time in the end of the day. It’s a case of “you live your life, and I will live mine”.
It’s a case of “you live your life, I will live my life, and the baby will lose its life”.
 
The point here is, the medical provider – aside from murdering the twins – violated the Hippocratic Oath (“First, do no harm”) with respect to his patient. He had an obligation to assess her mental condition and advise her accordingly.
Funny how the Hippocratic Oath is so easy forgotten when it comes to abortion.
 
davia I read your profile and I see that you are Catholic so I understand that these are probably not your views and you are just giving the other side. I still have some comments though. 😉

I am still new to this, so let me try and address each of these. Yes, I believe life begins at conception. Unfortunately like I said others don’t, and while I think everyone should have their say to how the law is shaped, unfortunately I don’t think lawmakers are going to go against women’t “choice” when they will not define life as beginning from conception and that life in the womb has a right to live.

Wait though you say later that people cannot tell people what to think in order to create laws that cater to others beliefs?

Right, but unfortunately the law only goes one way. We can’t have both a law giving this “choice” and one that makes abortion illegal - I mean, how would we even do that? Each religious group would have a different law for themselves?

So which is it? Are people allowed to tell me when life begins but I am not allowed to have a say in it?

No, we definately have a say in it. It’s up to lawmakers to listen or not so that’s why we have to keep on pushing through writing congressmen and through our voting of government officials. I guess that’s why some say it’s my choice to and yours not too. That’s their “say”. I still don’t think we’ll ever get abortion illegal again which is why I say we should pray for women to stop on their own.

Unless you are a baby in a woman’s womb… Then you are equal to no one. In fact you are so unequal to anyone else that someone can easily dispose of you.

I see what you are saying, but in that example, I was talking about races as a whole, not every individual (although I believe that as well). Once again unforunately it goes back to what is considered life by the law. The law doesn’t see the “fetus” as they say as a life in comparison to those already born.

Wait, hold up. You said that a baby doesn’t become a human until it is, “born” so what is your gripe about late term abortions? It makes no sense. Either a baby doesn’t become human until birth and therefore late term abortions are no, “biggie” or the opposite is true and early abortions are just as terrible as late ones.

Well, actually I said the argument centers not just on being born, but also on vwhen there is the ability to live outside the womb. as we see every day there are millions of premature babies that survive even though they are not “full term”. So, that’s why I say I am glad people are seeing that, and that I hope the law will recognize that life “begins” at the very least at viability and that can’t be argued otherwise. A person can argue that a 10 week “fetus” can’t survive, but they can’t argue a 28 weeker couldn’t survive and that surviving baby would obviously have “life”.

So then like I said to the other poster, lets give the benefit of doubt to the baby. Lets give the benefit of doubt to life.

We can do that as Catholics, but athiests may not agree, and the law is going to side with “freedom” and choice. The way the law it set up, they have “freedom” to do what they want with the law and we have “freedom” to do what we want and believe in.

This isn’t true because you just said that one group believe a baby doesn’t become human until it is born… What if I said a baby doesn’t become human until is has the human ability to talk? Can I then do away with my child up until that point? And don’t tell me what to believe, if I believe a child is not human until it can talk, that is what I believe.

well, I am not talking about being human, I am talking about unquestionable proof that there is life, and that is with being born. We may believe it happens much sooner, but not everyone does 😦 If you did for example believe that, it’s not what the law believes which is like I said the whole center of this arguemnt IMO.

Why should we pray to stop it if they are not human until they are born?

Because I didn’t say they weren’t human or alive, I said others don’t believe it. What they believe may not be the truth, but it has shaped the law to what it is today too.

Yes, much better for them to not be around then to find out that their mother made the “choice” to allow them to live.

They will still know. Yes the mothers who do not recognize life as from conception do not know nor believe this.

God bless

*You too, and like I said I am not trying to offend, just to point out a few points and give another side that many other people seem to believe./*QUOTE]
 
You would be mistaken if you believe the scientific and medical community is not in agreement that a unique life is present from the moment of conception.

Because a large number of people do not believe something does not make it so.
No, the issue is not to make laws telling others what to think and believe, but to protect the innocent from those who believe it is okay to kill them.

Unfortunately some other do not believe murder (or theft, or rape, or fill in the blank) is wrong.In what way is a baby not viable from the moment of conception?
And so from the moment of conception they should be protected from being murdered.
Sure they can. They have been doing that since Roe v. Wade.

Of course negative effects are a different order of magnitude compared to murder.
Not everyone grows up with a cushy pillow and happy feelings all their life, but are still happy to be alive regardless of whether someone else wants them or not or whether they feel wanted.
The science and medical community may be in agreement, but the law is not.

I agree the innocent should be saved, but the law does not see the “fetus” as an innocent unfortunately.

The baby is not viable because it can not live outside the womb. I think that from the age of viability and on (which is 22 weeks I believe), we can get abortions stopped because if there is some 'medical reason" like they claim, the child could be born and given’t it’s chance. Before that unfortunately it will not survive, and I think until that point, the law will not prohibit abortions.

In Roe Vs Wade they are not telling people what to do, they are giving others “options” and their “choice” but the law isn’t forcing anyone into abortions.

I am not saying I hope people have abortions. I am just saying we can’t dictate what what they can and can’t do, just as they can’t dictate for us. This is the law and it won’t change as much as we may want it too. That’s the cold hard facts. “choice” will always “win” when it comes to this because it will open up a whole can of worms if it doesn’t like I was discussing in my post (such as dictating what religions can and can’t do, race “superiority” etc)
 
In Roe Vs Wade they are not telling people what to do, they are giving others “options” and their “choice” but the law isn’t forcing anyone into abortions.
I assure you, people are forced to have abortions – by boy friends, husbands, parents, school nurses and so on.
 
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