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Of course, now I’M assuming. Because I’m assuming you’re daughter is in my age group. Like I said, I’m 26, and personally, I have a 5 year limit. I don’t feel comfortable dating someone more than 5 years older or 5 younger than myself, since my concern is compatibility issues that even half a decade’s difference can make.
I’m glad you went off on a tangent there a bit, because it allowed me to defend myself and people in situations like this all over the world. What they think of in art doesn’t necessarily reflect how they are or what they think of the same subject, but in reality and real life choices, thought processes, and such.
If this topic had been about nudity and sex (like lets say in immoral fashions, movies, etc), you might not recognize me, since my opinions and feelings on THAT would have been different.
So, yeah, I have seen it and meditated on it reeeeeeeal good, and I don’t justify excuses I’m not making, and most certainly for things that haven’t even happened. All I see is you assuming I’m in a bad way mentally and that things I haven’t even done need to be rebuked so far that you’d mention your motherhood and daughters as if people who have legitimate thoughts like these endanger your daughters.
The minute you lost track that this whole thread was a hypothetical question I wanted an opinion on (which a good catholic would want, and a bad catholic wouldn’t care to even ask in the first place), and you thought it was me confessing some perversion I have or something and how I need help avoiding it in regards to art, was the minute you stopped looking, reading, and replying (to me anyways) with any real respect or dignity and the minute I lost any hope of being taken seriously by you again.
I am scrupulous. How and why, I don’t know. Maybe you’re right, ironically, and it’s not scrupulosity, and maybe I’m just obsessive compulsive and I just don’t know and haven’t been diagnosed. Either way, I’m certain of one thing. I’m a good, moral person, and I don’t endanger you, yours, or the rest of society. To indirectly insinuate I could, by referencing I’d get the boot in dating your daughter means I’ve already been judged in your eyes. And if that’s how you feel, there’s nothing I can do to change that, and I won’t.
Don’t get me wrong, however. I’m glad you posted, and I still respect, agree with, and admire your morality on this issue.
IF I was dating your daughter, and you went into mother hen or mama bear mode, I can almost be certain you wouldn’t find blame in me and I wouldn’t be hitting any pike. I say this not out of arrogance or cockiness, or an assumption that you’d like me, but because I’m a good catholic person, and your daughter would be treated with the utmost respect. I’m a conservative kind of guy, despite my 26 years and the age we live in these days with quick shaking up pre-marital sex and so forth. You’re assuming there’s a problem based on the preconceived notion that I’m likely to lust after your daughter or objectify her, or worse because I currently have hang ups with specific artwork having to do with nudity and the subject just so happens to be female nudity. In all honesty, I’d of shared this issue with your daughter in conversation, and for all we know, out of love or concern for me, she’d want to help me through it, and it might make our bond closer and she might be inspiration in my future art projects.One of my daughters is still in the dating phase of life. If she were to even think about dating a guy like the OP or some of the other posters here, we’d have a nice talk and the guy would be told to hit the pike!
Of course, now I’M assuming. Because I’m assuming you’re daughter is in my age group. Like I said, I’m 26, and personally, I have a 5 year limit. I don’t feel comfortable dating someone more than 5 years older or 5 younger than myself, since my concern is compatibility issues that even half a decade’s difference can make.
No need to apologize at all. Your feelings are strong and rightfully so, but some of your above statements are misguided or misplaced, I feel, given what I feel are the reasons or basis motivating them- namely whether someone who has concerns or questions about sexuality in art can be trusted with theirs and other people’s sexuality in real life circumstances and so forth.I apologize if some are offended by my rather strong opinions regarding this issue, but the sins they are courting are deadly.
I’m glad you went off on a tangent there a bit, because it allowed me to defend myself and people in situations like this all over the world. What they think of in art doesn’t necessarily reflect how they are or what they think of the same subject, but in reality and real life choices, thought processes, and such.
If this topic had been about nudity and sex (like lets say in immoral fashions, movies, etc), you might not recognize me, since my opinions and feelings on THAT would have been different.
I’ve seen the movie, actually, and I nearly cried and my eyes were with tears during the scourging scene. That was the worst part of the movie for me, actually, Some will say the crucifixion, but that was quite mild, I must say. Also, in regards to the rosary and the mysteries, my favorite IS the sorrowful mysteries. In a way, it should be everyone’s favorite mystery, but people don’t like the violence or this and that, it it’s too sensitive for them or it makes them feel guilty. Not me. It makes me realize how much God loves me.I think some who don’t agree could get a copy of Mel Gibson’s film the Passion and view the Scourging at the pillar our dear Lord took and meditate on it reeeeeeal good then try to justify their sexual excesses and flippant excuses. Good luck!
So, yeah, I have seen it and meditated on it reeeeeeeal good, and I don’t justify excuses I’m not making, and most certainly for things that haven’t even happened. All I see is you assuming I’m in a bad way mentally and that things I haven’t even done need to be rebuked so far that you’d mention your motherhood and daughters as if people who have legitimate thoughts like these endanger your daughters.
The minute you lost track that this whole thread was a hypothetical question I wanted an opinion on (which a good catholic would want, and a bad catholic wouldn’t care to even ask in the first place), and you thought it was me confessing some perversion I have or something and how I need help avoiding it in regards to art, was the minute you stopped looking, reading, and replying (to me anyways) with any real respect or dignity and the minute I lost any hope of being taken seriously by you again.
I am scrupulous. How and why, I don’t know. Maybe you’re right, ironically, and it’s not scrupulosity, and maybe I’m just obsessive compulsive and I just don’t know and haven’t been diagnosed. Either way, I’m certain of one thing. I’m a good, moral person, and I don’t endanger you, yours, or the rest of society. To indirectly insinuate I could, by referencing I’d get the boot in dating your daughter means I’ve already been judged in your eyes. And if that’s how you feel, there’s nothing I can do to change that, and I won’t.
Don’t get me wrong, however. I’m glad you posted, and I still respect, agree with, and admire your morality on this issue.