@NoelFitz
but we often see the Father as the stern judge,
Yes right in a ways ,we know the Father is a stern Judge in other words God’s Divine Justice,The Father was also merciful so he immediately promised salvation in Gen 3:15 Mother Mary -Jesus, In the OT ,we know what happened, How the Father judged the world and chastised the humans in the Great Flood because of the sins.in John 5:22 The Father judges no one
but has given all judgment to the Son, the Heavenly Father has entrusted the judgement to the son that’s why when we die the personal judgement is done by Jesus and not the Father or the Holy Spirit.
and yes you nicely mentioned Jesus is our loving brother ,well this mercy is till the last breath after death Jesus will be our Divine Judge,one of the attributes of God is Divine Justice ,and we have to be accountable for our sins ,hear too ,we have our spiritual Mother to intercede for us to the Father and the Son ,more of less in our favor like an defense lawyer or advocate as we have in the litany ,she pleads on our behalf and remind Jesus the good works and other graces and merits which Jesus has allowed us to gain by his Grace and add her own to that of our’s.Lets hope for the best the judgement would be of mercy as we see our sins through the eyes of Jesus.
well again the at the end of the world at the general judgement here again the heavenly Father chastise, corrects , and punishes ,but the final victory and judge will be again Jesus 1 Peter 3:22 22 who has gone into heaven and is at the right hand of God, with angels, authorities, and powers made subject to him. Philippians 2:9 Therefore God also highly exalted him and gave him the name that is above every name,10 so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bend,in heaven and on earth and under the earth,11 and every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,to the glory of God the Father. Colossians 1:15 -20
am sorry for my poor explanations and understanding ,but still hope you get some idea .God Bless