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This is not from Blessed Henry Suso’s (1300-1366) autobiography but someone else commenting on the extreme lengths he went to in his youth before his “enlightenment” by God (I’ll dish out his own account either later or perhaps tommorrow since its late here). Prepare to get squeamish :o
It seemed to Henry Suso that a life of suffering and pain and self-torture was more seemly for those who were following in the steps of Christ, than a life of ease and comfort.
And in his earnestness and ignorance, he provided himself with a hair shirt and iron chain, which he wore till the blood ran down from the wounds it made. And he wore a belt studded with sharp nails, the points of which he drove into his flesh. And in this belt he slept all night, or tried to sleep. And when he was bitten and stung by insects in the hot weather, he would not drive them away, but let them settle upon him and sting him, tying up his hands to a collar he had made, lest he should use them for his relief. And later he made himself leathern gloves with brazen points, so that if in his sleep he should perchance move his hands, the points might wound his flesh. And on his back he wore a wooden cross, with thirty iron nails driven through it, which he wore for eight full years, and once when he had blunted the points with a grindstone, he repented of it, and sharpened them again with a file. And daily did he scourge himself with leather straps, into which he had fixed iron points, with hooks like fish-hooks. And into his wounds he rubbed vinegar and salt, altering his penances for different days in the calendar of the Church.
For his bed he had an old door which had been cast away, upon which he slept without any blankets, but covered only by an old mat made of rushes. For a pillow he had a sack stuffed with pea-shells, and he wore the same garments night and day, and under him was the cross with pointed nails. And as his mat was too short to cover his feet, they were frozen on the cold winter nights, and covered with chilblains. And he had many sores from the wounds he gave himself.
And here is something direct from his writings - his enlightenment experience whereby he set aside this dreadful self-torture for the moderate path and thankfully seen the light. An angel tells him to stop his self-imposed torments:
It happened once that he was seated in his cell after Matins reflecting on spiritual matters. As he pondered the wonders of Eternal Wisdom, his senses were stilled in ecstacy and it seemed to him that a princely young man drew near and spoke to him: “You have spent enough time in the elementary school and are ready to take up higher studies. Follow me; I will conduct you to the spiritual graduate school where you will be instructed how to bend your stiff neck to the divine yoke. This will establish your soul in holy peace and bring your devout beginning to a blessed end.”
The Servitor jumped happily to his feet and it seemed to him that the young man led him by the hand through an unfamiliar countryside. After walking across a meadow they entered a schoolhouse and were received with open arms by the students. When the headmaster heard the uproar being made over this would-be disciple, he said in true professional style, “Before accepting him as a pupil, I must question him personally.”
After a short interview the headmaster announced to the student body: “This undergraduate has within him the seed of a first-rate scholar. But whether the seed will sprout or lie fallow depends on himself; if he is willing to be pulverized by the constant friction of hard work and stringent rules, luscious fruit will result from the seed of his dead self.”
The Servitor, not understanding the meaning of these words, turned to the young man who had acted as his guide and questioned him: “Dear companion, tell me more about this graduate school and the higher studies one pursues there.”
“The science learned in the advanced school of holiness,” said the young man, “is nothing else than a complete, perfect resignation of oneself, so that a man’s will is so evenly balanced that the scale turns neither to the right nor left when God places on it joy or suffering, directly or through creatures. Man must strive earnestly to remain as steadfast in this total renunciation of self as is possible to human weakness, and to look only at God’s honor and glory, imitating in this Christ’s continual hunger for his heavenly Father’s glory.”
This explanation satisfied the Servitor. Hence, he resolved to put it in practice, cost what may, and to submit to all the school’s regulations. The young man instructed him further: “This science requires a single-hearted idleness; here, the less one does to the eye, the more one accomplishes as a matter of fact.” He was referring to those activities in which a man gravitates around himself instead of seeking God’s honor.
After a few minutes the Servitor returned to himself and sat for a long time pondering on these truths which are but a reiteration of Christ’s own doctrine. His musing found expression in self-reproach: “Look into the secret depths of your soul and you will see that, notwithstanding all your exterior penances, pride and self-love still rise in rebellion when you have to put up with a contradiction from others. You are like a scared rabbit hiding in a bush and trembling every time a leaf rustles in the breeze. This is how things stand with you: you shrink from sufferings which are not of your own seeking; the sight of uncongenial people makes you grow pale; you fly from humiliation, rejoice in praise, and avoid blame. Strike the iron while it is hot and enroll in the advanced school of holiness.”
Later on, when Blessed Suso is teaching one of his female disciples he warns her not to go to the extremes of ascetism that he did in his youth:
“…You should not aim at achieving the severities of the Desert Fathers or the austere practices of your spiritual father [Suso himself]…One finds written down formerly that many of the old fathers led a life of inhuman and incredible austerity…One also finds that some did not subject themselves to such severe austerities…In general, austerity practiced in moderation is better than immoderate practices. But if one finds it difficult to find the Middle Way, it is still more sensible to remain a little more on the easier side than too venture too far in the other direction…”
BTW Suso’s “autobiography” also contained some quasi-fictional scenes ie his vision of the “school” is allegorical. His book was a semi-dramatized account of his own experiences put into the charming tale of a “Servitor” seeking for Eternal Wisdom
 
Yeah… :bowdown: I’d like to do it again sometime (we don’t do the full counts they do in the monastic tradition as I guess teachers were seeing that it just took western lay people too long to get through them…) – but it is such a powerful way of working with your ego and surrendering.

When does your tradition do prostrations?

The Zen tradition seems to emphasize no movement as well. The two traditions I’m closest to are a bit more relaxed. (The Buddha said that we should always strive to be between the extremes of too tight and too loose!) We should work with the distraction and discursiveness of our body. If your nose itches or a fly lands on your arm or whatever, you don’t have to do anything about that. And some physical pain is part of that. Pain isn’t a problem necessarily. We’ll experience a lot worse and it’s not a bad idea to make friends with it. But still, if your foot is falling asleep or whatever, you should feel free to just move it. 🙂 Sometimes it is helpful to just take a fresh start as well.

There are some interesting things that come up in working with your body and mind together, that’s for sure!

My guess is that on the ascetic front we’ve got nothing on the Christian Monastic traditions. I haven’t heard of any practices involving hair shirts. 😉
If one has to one can move during meditation but very slowly with the mind concentrating on the movement. It is really a short term shift of focus. There is a bit of collapsing that happens when sitting for a length of time so one straightens slowly and mindfully as well.

If one does morning chants one usually does prostrations. Although most don’t stand up and go through all of the steps you describe in the illustration. One stays in a kneeling position and moves forward as shown in the last part of the illustration (5 - 6), repeating the process through the chant. It builds up thigh muscles.🙂 Again the Tibetan Buddhists are tops on prostrations.

youtube.com/watch?v=6-hsCfIOasM
 
Lodro-Thank you for the example in post #432. I’ll have to keep an eye out for that Crater! And I see what you mean about beating up on ourselves so to speak. I must becoming very mature :). Off to page 11.
 
Vouthon,

It was your illustration I referenced in my post. Sorry for the mix up it’s just that the illustration is identical to the full prostration of Buddhist practice. I got confused. 😊

If you look at the video, you will see what I mean, I don’t think any Westerners regularly go on pilgrimages by prostrations.
 
Okay guys, I have a question for my Buddhist friends.

Okay here it is. I am a Roman Catholic, I can say I indeed have a God who layed down his life for ME. Yes Me, Nothing me, A sinner!

Would I lay down my life for Jesus Christ, Yes I believe I would, I pray I would ever single day of my life.

I pray I would not be a coward and betray him as his own right hand man Peter did. Not that I in no way judge Peter, I have alot in common with Peter, His weakness for sure.

But could any Buddhist say they would lay day their life for that faith, religion, etc, whatever it is?

I can say Yes I would and pray to my Lord my God I could.

I guess what I am asking could any Buddhist is are that sure the path they have taken is the Right path and would indeed be willing to lay down their life for it|?

I can say with my right hand to God, the God I believe in that I am that sure he is indeed the Savior of the world.

Can anyone on this thread say they are AS sure as I know I am.

I cannot say I am Strong! But I can say I am sure.

Can anyone else state that are truly that sure? I can say with my whole heart and soul and mind I am Sure!
 
Okay guys, I have a question for my Buddhist friends.

Okay here it is. I am a Roman Catholic, I can say I indeed have a God who layed down his life for ME. Yes Me, Nothing me, A sinner!

Would I lay down my life for Jesus Christ, Yes I believe I would, I pray I would ever single day of my life.

I pray I would not be a coward and betray him as his own right hand man Peter did. Not that I in no way judge Peter, I have alot in common with Peter, His weakness for sure.

But could any Buddhist say they would lay day their life for that faith, religion, etc, whatever it is?

I can say Yes I would and pray to my Lord my God I could.

I guess what I am asking could any Buddhist is are that sure the path they have taken is the Right path and would indeed be willing to lay down their life for it|?

I can say with my right hand to God, the God I believe in that I am that sure he is indeed the Savior of the world.

Can anyone on this thread say they are AS sure as I know I am.

I cannot say I am Strong! But I can say I am sure.

Can anyone else state that are truly that sure? I can say with my whole heart and soul and mind I am Sure!
To deny your faith as a Catholic is a grave sin, if I understand the teachings of the Church.

To deny being a Buddhist is a lie and therefore Wrong Speech. Although a lie is a violation of one of the Precepts, it isn’t something that would result in a Buddhist going to Hell. I would do everything I could to refrain from breaking a Precept, but it was my life or another’s life on the line, I would take the karmic hit. This does not indicate a lack of “faith” on my part. It is just I consider to do other wise would be suicide which would be a violation of the First Precept.
 
I wasn’t aware that Buddhists did prostrations! (I assumed it was a theist thing that the likes of only Christians and Muslims do 🙂 )

How wrong I obviousdly am!
They do actually. Here’s a video of a Chinese Buddhist evening service - note the prostrations during the refuge to the Triratna at the end of every verse (at 1:34, 2:56 and 4:14, respectively) just before the recitation of the Nilakantha Dharani (also note the bow at 6:06 and 8:17).

I take refuge in the Buddha, wishing for all sentient beings to understand the great Way profoundly and make the greatest resolve. (Prostration)
I take refuge in the Dharma, wishing for all sentient beings to delve deeply into the Sutra Pitaka, causing their wisdom to be as broad as the sea. (Prostration)
I take refuge in the Sangha, wishing all sentient beings to lead the congregation in harmony, entirely without obstruction. (Prostration)

Also this recitation of the Heart Sutra by Korean monks.
 
In Orthodox Christianity - that is Eastern Catholicism - they call it Zemnoy poklon (“great bow” literally ground bow) as I already explained and here is an illustration of six different types of Zemnoy Poklon:

http://image.absoluteastronomy.com/images/encyclopediaimages/d/di/different_kinds_of_bows_in_eo.gif

These different bows are done at different times during the Eastern Catholic/Orthodox liturgy, especially at the mention of the Name of Jesus and I believe the Holy Trinity.

In the West, Roman Catholics do not do the full Zemnoy Poklon but rather we do what Hesychasts would call Poyasny (“little bow”, literally belt bow) which is the first bow of only the head that you see in the image, and we also genuflect (bending at least one knee to the ground along with little bow of head as in above picture 1) whenever we enter or leave a Church before the Altar, that is the Tabernacle, where the Blessed Sacrament is kept, as in this picture:

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_j3jEs0gnE-U/TTq9g_0li4I/AAAAAAAAAeY/5fgBMIkHJUg/s1600/genuflection.jpg

The custom of bowing the head at the mention of the Name of Jesus was formally written into law at the Second Council of Lyons, A.D. 1274, convened by Pope Gregory X: “Those who assemble in church should extol with an act of special reverence that Name which is above every Name, than which no other under Heaven has been given to people, in which believers must be saved, the Name of Jesus…Each should fulfil in himself that which is written for all, that at the Name every knee should bow; whenever that glorious Name is recalled, especially during the sacred Mysteries of the Mass, everyone should bow the knees of his heart, which he can do even by a bow of his head”.

In the West, Catholics used to do the full ground bows - the “full whammie” so to speak - until 1502, when genuflection became standardized. Also in Eastern Catholic Churches there are no seats but just a floor where everyone stands and of course bows at the appropriate times, whereas in western Catholic Churches there are seats - called pews - which is why we stopped doing the full one and instead brought in genuflection when entering Church, just before you sit down on the seat, and when leaving, always facing the altar.
In the Roman Rite, the Good Friday liturgy (it is not a Mass) is unique in that the celebrant performs a full prostration before beginning the liturgy. Here is the pope prostrating:

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In the context of ordination:

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Dominicans performing an inclinatio at the choir stalls during the Confiteor at Compline.



BTW, I found a video explaining Eastern (Orthodox) prostrations. And here’s a Coptic version.
 
Can anyone else state that are truly that sure? I can say with my whole heart and soul and mind I am Sure!
From the Theravadin perspective, you are essentially asking whether or not I have unshakable faith in the teachings. I prefer not to answer this question because unshakable faith is a characteristic only found among those who have attained to at least the Sotapanna level of enlightenment, so I can’t answer your question without revealing very personal information regarding my own personal attainments.

Talking about one’s own attainments is a major taboo in Theravadin circles and is almost always confined to discussion with one’s teacher. I wouldn’t feel comfortable talking about it in a public forum.

(I just thought I should say something on that subject so you wouldn’t think I was being evasive by not bringing up the matter in the first place. I hope this post doesn’t come across as standoffish.)
 
From the Theravadin perspective, you are essentially asking whether or not I have unshakable faith in the teachings. I prefer not to answer this question because unshakable faith is a characteristic only found among those who have attained to at least the Sotapanna level of enlightenment, so I can’t answer your question without revealing very personal information regarding my own personal attainments.

Talking about one’s own attainments is a major taboo in Theravadin circles and is almost always confined to discussion with one’s teacher. I wouldn’t feel comfortable talking about it in a public forum.

(I just thought I should say something on that subject so you wouldn’t think I was being evasive by not bringing up the matter in the first place. I hope this post doesn’t come across as standoffish.)
Thats fine Bakmoon, I would never want you to answer something you were not confortable talking about. Thanks for sharing that with me.😉
 
My dear brother Patrick 👍

Those are incredible images and videos for both Buddhism and Catholicism!

I am learning all the time! 😃

Thank you so much!
 
Vouthon,

It was your illustration I referenced in my post. Sorry for the mix up it’s just that the illustration is identical to the full prostration of Buddhist practice. I got confused. 😊

If you look at the video, you will see what I mean, I don’t think any Westerners regularly go on pilgrimages by prostrations.
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No probs Sister Notself!

I actually just assumned that you had been referring to my illustration anyway, since I knew that Lodro had not put one up.

It is especially intriguing to me when such close resonances arise in different religious traditions.

That the bows are identical, is wonderful too know and reflect upon.

I like the idea of “chanting” in rythm with one’s prostrations. I can imagine that this practice would be very powerful, as Lodro says as an act of full-surrender.

Such surrendering of self-will to divine providence is of great import within Catholic mysticism:

As Una Agnew writes:
Ecstasy is a degree of illumination where the mystic is seized by an awareness so total, so absorbing that he experiences himself outside time and space. In this state, one remains momentarily freed from the constraints of time and space. Experience of this kind usually leads to further purification. In some cases, there is a total dying to self in what St John calls the ‘Dark Night’ of the soul. Some mystics reach a state of surrender so complete that there ensues’ a mystical marriage’; an intense union with God.
Transformation is the natural outcome of mystical life. A person becomes changed inwardly because of the intensity of this personal inner journey. There is a gradual ‘rebirthing’, some times dramatic, sometimes barely perceptible in the personality. What is most obvious is that the person achieves inner peace…radiating a deep, imperturbable inner joy. The equanimity that ensues is not the end, but the beginning of new levels of enlightenment
 
:hug3:

No probs Sister Notself!

I actually just assumned that you had been referring to my illustration anyway, since I knew that Lodro had not put one up.

It is especially intriguing to me when such close resonances arise in different religious traditions.

That the bows are identical, is wonderful too know and reflect upon.

I like the idea of “chanting” in rythm with one’s prostrations. I can imagine that this practice would be very powerful, as Lodro says as an act of full-surrender.

Such surrendering of self-will to divine providence is of great import within Catholic mysticism:

As Una Agnew writes:
But you have to admit, Isn’t the Pope the cutest little thing!😃
 
Oh boy :rolleyes:

I am guessing you have never read Blessed Henry Suso’s autobiographical account of his bizare and extreme experiences with hair-shirts!!! :eek:

I was really like :eek: reading it.
Indeed. Reading that text (at the age of 17) was a tipping point for me in getting me to “open up” to what was strange and even repellent about the past.

I had known about Suso in a rather Protestantized version in which his “turn” to a “higher way” was presented as a renunciation of asceticism–which it really wasn’t.

Edwin
 
Indeed. Reading that text (at the age of 17) was a tipping point for me in getting me to “open up” to what was strange and even repellent about the past.

I had known about Suso in a rather Protestantized version in which his “turn” to a “higher way” was presented as a renunciation of asceticism–which it really wasn’t.

Edwin
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The story of Symeon the Stylite is also “eye-opening” in terms of ascetic practice :eek:

Yes, the “higher school” was not a renunciation of ascetism but rather the pursuing of a more advanced spiritual path where the focus is on an inner, psychological detachment from the world as it is and a kind of “holy indifference” to whatever reality throws one’s way rather than self-imposed and self-focused tortures that do not really contribute to true melting into the Will of God in each moment but serve to build up “pride” and lead to senseless and almost pathological sado-masochism.

Mercifully Suso came to realize that such extreme ascetic practices, quite appositely from making one a spiritual athlete, does not equal instant gurantee of sanctity but rather poor health and even death.

He learned that the “higher way” was to learn to accept all the afflictions and suffering imposed from without as God’s will, rather than suffering that was self-imposed.

I think that Suso became a more “wordly ascetic” thereafter, if it is not oxymoronic to say so.
 
But you have to admit, Isn’t the Pope the cutest little thing!😃
I was thinking the exact same thing Sister Rinnie when I saw him sprawled out like that on the floor 👍 😃

I just thought “awww!” 😊
 
i do not know much about buddhism. i was born a catholic. never had much interactions with other religions. but all i can say is that from what i have learned. buddhism is another religion. and yes atheism find buddhism soothing than other religions.
 
I was thinking the exact same thing Sister Rinnie when I saw him sprawled out like that on the floor 👍 😃

I just thought “awww!” 😊
I have to admit that while the first thing I thought was that it was touching and affecting to see a Pope prostrating to something above himself, the second thing I thought was “are those Ferragamos he’s wearing?” Shows where my head is at. (We’d never wear shoes in a shrine space so that sort of lept out at me.)

(edit) I was also thinking that those cold marble floors must be really painful for the guys in the back to kneel on.
 
But could any Buddhist say they would lay day their life for that faith, religion, etc, whatever it is?
In general no. Dharma is just the truth, it doesn’t need to be protected. Or, to put it in a better way, it has it’s own protectors already, and their power comes out of the wrath of egolessness. 😉 And as soon as you talk about sacrificing yourself for your religion, you become even more eager to sacrifice others for it as well. :slapfight: Fundamentally, thinking like that too often ends up in violence.

Now, if my teacher or a fellow sangha member were drowning would I leap into the water to save them? I hope I would, but I would do the same thing for others.

Of course, the real world is too complicated for easy answers. There are Buddhists who have done this. We have the example of Vietnamese monks self-imolating out of desperation over that horrible war. And today unfortunately, we have Tibetan Buddhist monks and nuns doing the same thing. thebuddhadharma.com/web-archive/2012/2/8/commentary-a-cry-for-freedom.html

In some Buddhist communities, there are protectors who from some point of view are a military or security service, and who train extensively in personal security and related matters. They would see it as there duty to do everything they could to save the principal, certainly at the risk of their own lives. It’s an interesting practice.
I guess what I am asking could any Buddhist is are that sure the path they have taken is the Right path and would indeed be willing to lay down their life for it|?
As far as the path goes, the level of commitment is higher than that. You’re giving over both the manner of your life and your death to the path. But except perhaps for the cases above, I can’t think of many scenarios where it would make any sense at all to do such a thing. It’s sort of a romantic notion though. Hmm…

About the closest I can say is that I would supplicate to have enough devotion to have trust in the guru and to follow his instructions with complete faith. But see below.
From the Theravadin perspective, you are essentially asking whether or not I have unshakable faith in the teachings. I prefer not to answer this question because unshakable faith is a characteristic only found among those who have attained to at least the Sotapanna level of enlightenment, so I can’t answer your question without revealing very personal information regarding my own personal attainments.

Talking about one’s own attainments is a major taboo in Theravadin circles and is almost always confined to discussion with one’s teacher. I wouldn’t feel comfortable talking about it in a public forum.
Yes, I’m glad you said that. For a Christian, to proclaim your faith and devotion is I think usually a matter of celebration and evangelism. For a Buddhist, that would generally be considered bad form, boasting really. That’s because faith and devotion are directly connected to realization, so if you are saying that you have great devotion to the Buddha or the teachings, it’s sort of a round about way of saying that you’ve achieved some kind of realization, which would be extremely bad form, obnoxious really.

Generally you don’t talk about attainment, except with your closest mentors and teachers as Bakmoon says, for the simple reason that attachment to attainment is the greatest block to any actual attainment, whatever that means. For Tibetan Buddhists, almost all of our practices revolve around devotion, so it would also be a way of saying that you were well-practiced, which again you just would never say. Maybe it is sort of a false modesty, but arrogance is one of the fundamental stumbling blocks to true realization and compassion. Probably the nicest thing you could say about someone is that “so-and-so is a devoted student of the [Teacher X]”.

Even the greatest teachers often talk about how “they don’t really know if this is true, they just heard it from someone else”… 🙂 Which leaves us ordinary dharma students to be very wary of thinking that we have any real practice or knowledge. Speaking of monks, for a lay person, comparing your learning and practice experience to what even a typical monk has done is very humbling.

You always know a charlatan (like all of those gurus in the 60s, and cult leaders) because they talk about how they’ve attained this and that, or they had this and that realization. Of course, some teachers have has those kind of experiences but they would only share that when it was really called for as part of a teaching. (For example in an empowerment, it’s important to know that the teacher has actually fully received the teachings that they are giving to you.)

Where a teacher’s devotion often becomes apparent is when they begin talking about their teachers. That is an indescribably touching and very intimate thing to share. Through seeing the example of devotion alone, one can realize devotion in one’s own heart.

In fact, there are aspects of this discussion that I’ve felt a bit uncomfortable about. Like talking about things like Ngöndro. In the Vajrayana, we usually don’t talk about what practices we are doing, except with the people who are doing the same kinds of things. It’s probably okay, but I have to think about whether I’m crossing any lines in sharing my enthusiasm for my own faith and practice.

To be clear, I know that you don’t mean any of that, it’s just a contrast in faith experiences and culture.
 
In general no. Dharma is just the truth, it doesn’t need to be protected. Or, to put it in a better way, it has it’s own protectors already, and their power comes out of the wrath of egolessness. 😉 And as soon as you talk about sacrificing yourself for your religion, you become even more eager to sacrifice others for it as well. :slapfight: Fundamentally, thinking like that too often ends up in violence.

Now, if my teacher or a fellow sangha member were drowning would I leap into the water to save them? I hope I would, but I would do the same thing for others.

Of course, the real world is too complicated for easy answers. There are Buddhists who have done this. We have the example of Vietnamese monks self-imolating out of desperation over that horrible war. And today unfortunately, we have Tibetan Buddhist monks and nuns doing the same thing. thebuddhadharma.com/web-archive/2012/2/8/commentary-a-cry-for-freedom.html

In some Buddhist communities, there are protectors who from some point of view are a military or security service, and who train extensively in personal security and related matters. They would see it as there duty to do everything they could to save the principal, certainly at the risk of their own lives. It’s an interesting practice.

As far as the path goes, the level of commitment is higher than that. You’re giving over both the manner of your life and your death to the path. But except perhaps for the cases above, I can’t think of many scenarios where it would make any sense at all to do such a thing. It’s sort of a romantic notion though. Hmm…

About the closest I can say is that I would supplicate to have enough devotion to have trust in the guru and to follow his instructions with complete faith. But see below.

Yes, I’m glad you said that. For a Christian, to proclaim your faith and devotion is I think usually a matter of celebration and evangelism. For a Buddhist, that would generally be considered bad form, boasting really. That’s because faith and devotion are directly connected to realization, so if you are saying that you have great devotion to the Buddha or the teachings, it’s sort of a round about way of saying that you’ve achieved some kind of realization, which would be extremely bad form, obnoxious really.

Generally you don’t talk about attainment, except with your closest mentors and teachers as Bakmoon says, for the simple reason that attachment to attainment is the greatest block to any actual attainment, whatever that means. For Tibetan Buddhists, almost all of our practices revolve around devotion, so it would also be a way of saying that you were well-practiced, which again you just would never say. Maybe it is sort of a false modesty, but arrogance is one of the fundamental stumbling blocks to true realization and compassion. Probably the nicest thing you could say about someone is that “so-and-so is a devoted student of the [Teacher X]”.

Even the greatest teachers often talk about how “they don’t really know if this is true, they just heard it from someone else”… 🙂 Which leaves us ordinary dharma students to be very wary of thinking that we have any real practice or knowledge. Speaking of monks, for a lay person, comparing your learning and practice experience to what even a typical monk has done is very humbling.

You always know a charlatan (like all of those gurus in the 60s, and cult leaders) because they talk about how they’ve attained this and that, or they had this and that realization. Of course, some teachers have has those kind of experiences but they would only share that when it was really called for as part of a teaching. (For example in an empowerment, it’s important to know that the teacher has actually fully received the teachings that they are giving to you.)

Where a teacher’s devotion often becomes apparent is when they begin talking about their teachers. That is an indescribably touching and very intimate thing to share. Through seeing the example of devotion alone, one can realize devotion in one’s own heart.

In fact, there are aspects of this discussion that I’ve felt a bit uncomfortable about. Like talking about things like Ngöndro. In the Vajrayana, we usually don’t talk about what practices we are doing, except with the people who are doing the same kinds of things. It’s probably okay, but I have to think about whether I’m crossing any lines in sharing my enthusiasm for my own faith and practice.

To be clear, I know that you don’t mean any of that, it’s just a contrast in faith experiences and culture.
Well speaking for Jesus, he gave up his life not for violence but so we could have eternal life with him in heaven,

People have killed Christians and will probally until the day God comes and ends it all.

But the real reason is because when you truly think about People want to have power over other people. Look at the Kings, they ruled the people.

Our King is Jesus, and if we have to die to have our faith and belief, its not his fault it is the fault as you said of people and thier own ego’s.

But there comes a time in your life you must stand up for truth, and Christ is the truth. Its sad there are country’s you have to die for Christ and his truth, but it is what it is.

But I would rather die and go to the light, then live and live in the darkness.
 
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