The problem is that many homosexuals play into American identity politics, and thus define their entire being as “homosexual.” So, when someone believes the acts to be wrong, then the homosexual has no choice but to believe that the someone hates them, or mathematically, person=“homo acts”, therefore to hate “homo acts”, one must (as the ideology holds) hate the person as well. It’s quite sad that people fall into this trap
Lord, just as you freed Your people from the bondage of slavery through water,
save those who suffer from disordered attraction through Grace.
We pray Lord: have mercy on us, and spare us,
for there may be 10 righteous men in our nation.
We ask this through Christ our Lord, Amen.
St. Basil, pray for us, and help those who suffer from same-sex attraction follow your advice.

Hate mongering, sadly, is here to stay, regardless of what is considered a deviation from the norm. Everyone struggles with something, and I am a firm believer that the Devil and cohort are playing a major role in the battle. I too am a huge fan of the saints (especially seers) e.g. Faustina, Teresa of Avila etc, and they speak to this issue in no uncertain terms.