Can you give me an example of evidence that your Nordic god/goddess wouldn’t ever demand that you continue in a pregnancy? You say that there’s a lot of lore that’s merely entertainment, so I guess we should dismiss those writings.
The lore is not “just” entertainment (although it is that) in the same way that Jesus’ parables weren’t just entertainment. Their purpose was to tell the people about their gods, to teach the next generation about their values. Unfortunately, since the tribes had an oral culture, the best known written material that we have was written down by Snorri Sturluson, who was a Christian. It’s a bit like trying to understand what Christians believed in if they only text we had to go by was something written by Dawkins.

We also have reports from other writers like Tacitus and Ibn Fadlan, but they too have their own cultural biases.
You say that there is textual evidence as well as archeological evidence that supports how you know this? Can you provide sources for this?
Ah, I see why you might be confused. Let me back up a bit. The texts provide us with certain bits of information (that horses were sacrificed to Freyr) but other things are pure speculation (a popular term for this is UPG–Unverified Personal Gnosis). There are things that we simply cannot know from looking at the texts alone. I’ll use a less complicated example: It is generally accepted that Freya likes to receive strawberries as an offering, obviously, strawberries aren’t found in Northern Europe, but since so many people have reported that she accepts them when they offer them to her, it’s become more or less “canon” (and it seems appropriate, given that strawberries are heart-shaped, sweet, and go well with chocolate, seems like it might make for a good offering for a love goddess).
Also keep in mind that, as I mentioned, certain cultures didn’t necessarily view certain issues in the same way that we would. Homosexuality, for instance, had more to do with who was “on top” than any “ick” factor. There’s an Icelandic hero named Grettir who allegedly slept with “maidens and widows, everyone’s wives, farmers’ sons, deans and courtiers, abbots and abbesses, cows and calves, indeed with near all living creatures,” and no one seems to really care that much (although these days, we would have arrested him for pedophilia and bestiality).
Doesn’t it seem a bit like you’re projecting your own views upon these gods/goddesses? Aren’t they entities of their own thoughts/ideas?
They are their own entities, true, but if any of them have a problem with certain issues, they haven’t told me either way. I personally think that if any deity REALLY had a problem with a certain person based on something they professed, then they just wouldn’t bother engaging with that person.
This talk of “projection” reminds me of “Republican Jesus”, maybe you’ve seen this cartoon before:
cmoore.com/gallery/albums/uploads/news/Cartoon20041116.gif It seems to me that that Jesus isn’t like the Jesus I encountered in Catholic school. I think it’s a given when texts are so open to interpretation. I think it’s natural to want “a deity who looks like you” to quote
The Secret Life of Bees but it seems I forgot my own words about gods not necessarily taking sides.