How will refering to someone as a husband be violating your rights??? You don’t have to agree with that union. No one is forcing you. But the fact is that the term husbnad would be correct. Why would you WANT to deny medical service to someone merely because of their bedroom practices?? As far as what you feel is beneficial to our “souls”, if you are right, then that will be very clear when that couple is judged. You needn’t bother yourself. No one is forcing the church to marry people they don’t want to. You don’t even need to stay quiet. You are allowed to voice your moral opinion, but as far as legal matters go, the law doesn’t care about your moral opinion because we don’t all share your beliefs.
I stayed what scandal is. People called the pope a Nazi because they misunderstood what his life was like. He was forced to serve in the military. Forced to. Just like I would be force to call John and Jimmy husbands even if my kids are listening to me. I would be teaching them the wrong things. That is Scandal. It is a serious sin. And you would be forcing me to commit this sin without even knowing it.
I never want to deny them medical coverage. I would love to help them as
individuals. Or as two friends. I cannot help them as two family members or two spouse.
“but we need to believe in the dogmas and doctrines of the Church.”
NO you don’t. You need to THINK about the dogmas of the church and decide for yourselves it they are moral. Otherwise you have fallen victim to blind faith.
This is your definition of how things should work. If you read what I wrote. We need to investigate for ourselves. It is a sin to have blind faith as well. Living as a Catholic is **not **easy. We are called to learn. Please, understand this. However, the Church has fully logic behind it. It is not blind teaching. So those that do not believe that wishes to be Catholic are *obligated * to find out the truth.
“And the Church has never failed to think about issues critically and on all sides to give a wonderful and clear answer.”
I was a catholic for 25 years and they have failed on many occasions to critically think about issues. They only JUSt last year accepted evolution for pities sake. lol
I think you do not understand what the Church teaches. You may call me arrogant. But I do not understand everything. Note my name, I am in the process of learning. Being a Catholic means to continue to learn. Some learn spiritually, some learn intellectually, some learn in other ways and in a combination of ways. But being a Catholic is not a NAME! It is a way of life, a being, a path, and many other descriptions. I personally still feel evolution is a weak theory despite the links I was given form another thread. It’s very interesting, but it is not like math or nuclear physics for me. Well, either way it does not apply to the Church. The Church feels that evolution is a scientific question and so there’s no need to deny or accept it. Even now the Church does not require anyone to accept or deny it. It’s all up to us to think how we wish about this scientific endeavor. So you said the Church just accepted it last year is not correct. Where are you getting your news from? I would like to check on it.
Also, as a Catholic, did you read the Catechism of the Catholic Church? Did you ask Catholic scientists or doctors about the things you see the Church fails at understanding?
I will admit that catholics are more open minded and progressive than many other religions, but that doesn’t mean that you just blindly believe that those in power in the church say out of authority.
Thank you for your considered tone and patience, I look forward to discussing this with you.
Thank you as well for having a full dialogue with me. You know as well as I do how awful it is to just be in a argument without meaning–where both sides are just fighting. So please help me to stay open and stay open yourself.
Well, the Church is really big. But there are surveys and reports out there that suggests only a third of Catholics in name are Catholics in belief and action. And even among these, there are people that deliberately put a blind eye or cover their ears when the Church teaches. Well, it’s okay to disagree and investigate. It is a sin to disagree and claim “well, I do nto feel that is right” or “my logic says that is wrong even without having to look at the Church’s evidence”. There are so many brilliant Catholics minds out there right now and in the past. I’m sure someone out there is smart enough to answer your questions or your disagreements fully. I do not claim to be one of them, but I do want to share with you what I understand.