“question your faith”? What, exactly, do you mean by that?
The reason the New, Militant Atheism is operational, now, goes back to the 1960s. It was part of a social engineering program based on a weakness in Catholics and communities at large during the time period: Respect For Authority. And Respect for EACH OTHER.
People restrained themselves. There were social rules of engagement. We did not lock our doors at night. Do not ever blame Vatican II.
1968 Humani Generis, the turning point for everyone. Don’t use artificial contraception or you will value the love of your life less. Send in the Hippies. The sale of millions of birth control pills was at stake. Free love! Sex with anyone. Scramble your brain. Smoke dope. drop acid (LSD, a powerful hallucinogen). You mom, dad, priests and nuns don’t know anything.
The Vietnam War is going badly. What was accomplished in a few years in Germany, and three in Korea, will not occur in Vietnam. The survivors will be badly treated by the public.
1970 Dissidents and the disillusioned leave the Catholic Church (Time magazine cover story).
1970s Porn legalized. Adult Bookstores open everywhere selling graphic porn. Head Shops (Head meaning dope head) open selling underground newspapers introducing young people to communism, marxism, general anarchy and targeting of “evil” corporations. Underground comix appear introducing young people to perverted sexuality and drug trip-like images.
1973 Abortion legalized. Homosexuality removed by non-scientific vote from the DSM.
Television gradually becomes more sexualized. Movies also.
– The gradualness was the key. It all started as a little off color, a little bawdy, a little risque. Too many, me included for a while, said, “Oh, that’s not so bad.”
1978 The National Organization for Women tears up the rules between men and women. They convince some women they will be the eternal victims of the eternal enemy - men. Are they solution oriented? No. They push for Women’s Studies, and Women’s Culture and separation. Relationships become a matter of power and control. Men are referred to as “male chauvenist pigs.” Gloria Steinem starts Ms. Magazine (the origin of that word), a sort of Playboy for women.
By the 1980s, the fear and mistrust generated by NOW bears fruit when No-Fault Divorce completes its sweep of the country. No kids? For a small fee, you’re out and no messy court fight.
Here is where women were painted into a corner. Free from their husbands, they needed to work, especially if alimony or child support were difficult to get. Now, in some cases, the divorce may have been justified, but what else happened? Pain was spread to the children and in-laws on both sides. And what about their relationship with the Church? One I knew refused to get an annulment because that would make her kids illegitimate. She married her next husband in a courtroom.
1990s Shock jocks. Rap. Partial Nudity and Profanity on NYPD Blue. Porn on the internet 24/7.
The Big Problem. The BIGGEST problem was the destruction of the holy and life-giving bond of matrimony. You do it by telling Catholics in the late 1960s: “You know what the problem is with you Catholics? You’re sexually repressed!” Then you send out the Hippies to show you how to live “free” and ruin your brain, and your life. You ignore the Pope and go on The Pill. In 1973, in my Catholic high school, mandatory sex education. For what? All the Catholics I knew understood the seriousness of marriage and that it meant a lifelong commitment. Sex was about having kids while married. It was not to be treated lightly. Women were treated with respect, which meant no sexual intercourse while dating.
The Church was not to blame for the most part. Individual Catholics made very bad choices involving themselves, their kids and their relatives. Can you imagine living through the late 1960s and being Catholic, finally waking up one day in the 1990s and realizing you’ve had an abortion or two, a divorce or two, you have bitter in-laws and kids that may or may not hate you? And with all this, you also realize that you’ve allowed yourself to acclimate to the culture around you? I can imagine why some of these people stopped going to Church. Which would be easier? Staying away or walking into a Confessional? Which would be easier? Simply accepting having sex with whoever, getting divorced and then moving on to husband number three? After all, everyone else is doing it. It’s in the movies, it’s on TV. E V E R Y O N E is like this now. It’s normal, right? It’s OK, right?
It’s not OK or normal. There is no new normal. That is why the Church is inviting you back now. And I encourage everyone reading this: Now is the time to simply ask for forgiveness and renew your mind.
Peace,
Ed
1980s Here is where the separation occurred. Dallas with the ultra-evil J.R. Ewing. Sue Ellen drinking liquor straight out of the bottle while driving. Movies are getting worse