why can’t everyone be christian. is that what jesus wants
There are things that can be “proven” beyond all human doubt. For example, the ancient Greeks proved that the square-root of two was an irrational number (ie, it cannot be expressed as a fraction). And, thus, they proved that there was SUCH A THING as an “irrational number” (this was the first such number discovered).
But the concept of an “irrational number” had never occurred to anybody in the whole history of the world. The idea was so “absurd” that these Greeks kept the proof hidden for many years, least others think them insane.
But the proof was eventually made known. Since then, absolutely NOBODY (of any recognized stature) has claimed the contrary. The proof of the Greeks is too absolute and compelling.
All mathematicians have free-will, and may choose to believe that all numbers are rational. But any mathematician who is confronted with the proof of the Greeks must acknowledge that irrational numbers exist - he cannot deny it (so he really doesn’t have free will in this regard once incontrovertable proof has been presented).
Likewise, If there WERE such a proof of either God (as known by the Jews) or Jesus (as known by Christians) then there would be no possibility of denial for any intelligent person. This would not be “faith.”
and to go into to that even futher… why does he want to judge us?
Because we DO have free will. So what do we CHOOSE to do with our free will?
In a very real sense, Jesus does not “judge” us at all. We judge ourselves. Did we accept Jesus? If so, He will accept us. Did we reject Jesus? If so, he will reject us. The real decision is ours, not Jesus’. Jesus only confirms what we decide.