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Brandon_Cal
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Looking at your fellow congregants won’t help much since you spend the vast majority of the Low Mass kneeling. You kneel from the very beginning of the Mass until the Gospel. You stand for the Gospel and Creed, then kneel all the way until the offertory (at which point you sit). You commence kneeling at the Agnus Dei (not after it, but before it), and then remain kneeling for the rest of the Mass (save for getting up to actually receive communion). Your only hope is to gauge where the priest is relative to the altar and what he’s doing (is he on the Gospel side or the Epistle side? Are his index finger and thumb held together or not? Did he mumble something semi-audibly “nobis quoque peccatoribus”]?) and hope that you’re sitting close enough to pick up on what seems like a private conversation between the priest and the altar server.Ah so that is e big difference, the low mass is more or less quiet with just the kneeling, sitting, standing and priest position on the altar differentiating what is going on from a congregation POV?
If this is your very first time to the EF I’d highly recommend waiting until you can assist at a Missa Cantata or Missa Solemnis. Otherwise try to take a seat as close as possible as to hear what little you can, while leaving a parishioner or two in front of you so that you can mimic their gestures as they perform them if “being out of step” is something that bothers you. Ironically enough I’ve noticed that the parishioners at Ordinary Form Masses are far more uniform in their liturgical gestures than those who assist at the EF, the protestations of particular “rad trads” notwithstanding.
You shouldn’t be worried about standing at the wrong time, or failing to stand, etc. I’ve seen piety run the gamut at the EF from those who are crossing themselves every couple minutes, to those who stand as soon as Father stands from his chair to those who wait until he says “Dominus Vobiscum”. It gets even more diversified at a Missa Cantata or Missa Solemnis. Since the choir is not in sync with the part of the Mass the priest is currently at you have about half of the laity making gestured responses to the priest (usually those close enough to actually see/hear what he’s doing/saying) while the other half gesture in response to the choir. Some hedge their bets and respond to both! Point is, there are no rubrics for the laity at the EF so you don’t really need to worry about making any faux pas.