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I was a best man in an ND wedding in South Carolina, and @TNMan has it right. The ceremony seemed like it was over before it even got started. The reception afterward was cake & punch and was even shorter. I don’t think anyone even sat down. Then everyone went their separate ways.There won’t be much participation other than standing there. Most ND weddings I’ve been to last about 20 minutes and it’s maybe 1 or 2 readings, exchange of vows and rings, kiss the bride, and you’re outta there.
(this was before I knew there could be any concerns about being a Catholic participant–that fact never even occurred to me)