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I follow you man.I forgot the link: youtube.com/watch?v=mxDumU0TSrY&feature=related
You can choose for yourself which side of the argument this video supports.
I come from a Protestant background and am sure that however wellmeaning and zealous Lily is for her faith, she would have turned me of when I was in the process of becoming Catholic.
There is a time for firmness, yes, but it has to happen with utmost sensitivity and not like an elephant in a glass store.
After my conversion I met so many Protestants that think we are legalistic and donât have a living relationship with Christ.
My approach has been to pray with them and speak with them. I have come with them to their churches, recognized the beauty of their strengths and some of the weaknesses of our own church life, and they have actually done the same, even come to my church and my fellowship. First we have to grow friendship and love, and let them see a good role model of love of Christ⌠this is the most difficult.
You know Jesus went and ate with the sinners in his days⌠he went into the houses of sinners. This symbolism was SO much stronger back then than it is today. A Jewish man back then who ate with a sinner in their house⌠it was almost like he defiled himself.
Yesterday a friend came to visit me. She is evangelical. When I met her she was on her guard against Catholics. At that time I was a new convert to Catholicism, I prayed a lot and was very in love with Jesus. This woman was so surprised at that. She told me later: âBack then was surprised to find a Catholic like you. I even envied you for your love of Christâ. Back to the present: Her and severel other friends came to visit me yesterday. Her friends said: âWe have heard about you that you are a Catholic who loves Christ and prays on your knees with fervour.â I did not know what to say. My shame was so big. if they only knew what a sinner I am. The conversation that followed was like holding a tiny baby in ones hands. There was a lifetime of suspicion in their eyes. I had to weigh my words. Any bombastic utterance could have confirmed their prejudize. Yet I shared my testimony with them on how biblical I found catholicism compared to evangelicalism, how I longed for unity and how deeply I respected their work in Christ. Before the day was over I had prayed with them and they had been suprised by the hospitality of Catholics (many of my Catholic friends stopped by and gave good impressions of kindness and openess) and they said what they admired by Catholicism.
Just one unsensitive person could have destroyed the fragile trust I was trying to build up. First comes trust. Then comes the point where people look into Catholicism with an open mind.
I like your soul!
