Baby baptism question

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My son is 2 and a half weeks old. My youngest brother is the only man in my immediate family that is dedicated to the Traditional Mass. I asked him to be my son’s godfather/baptismal sponsor not long after finding out I was having a son for this reason. He agreed and promised me he would be here for his baptism within the first week of his life. Both of our parents have passed away but were very devout and my mom was insistent on babies being baptized at 8 days as is traditional b ut as soon as possible mo matter. I know if she was still here that she would be on my behind about this. My brother has a new job working 6 days a week and has since my baby’s being born informed me that he cannot take off work, and will be available only in August when this job is over. I live in rural KY and drive an hour to Lexington to go to Trad Mass when I can afford the gas. My entire family lives in TX and my inlaws family is all Baptist, so they are out of the question to be godparents. I do not really know anyone from the parish we attend to ask to be sponsor/godfather but the priest himself. I have not been able to get to Mass since his birth (c-section ugh) to talk to Fr. about this situation and need some advice from other Trad Catholics. I believe I know what my mom would say-that this boy needs to be baptized now for we don’t know what the future holds really. I just cannot see waiting until Aug and shirking my responsibility to my son should something happen between now and then. I mean it to be no insult to my brother, but my son’s salvation is too important to me. Seriously, what would you suggest/do??? Thanks.
 
I just cannot see waiting until Aug and shirking my responsibility to my son should something happen between now and then. I mean it to be no insult to my brother, but my son’s salvation is too important to me. Seriously, what would you suggest/do??? Thanks.
Ask someone to serve as a proxy for your brother? He is not required to be at the Baptism to be the godfather.
 
Ask someone to serve as a proxy for your brother? He is not required to be at the Baptism to be the godfather.
You might want to check into this. I have read that this is no longer permitted, that the practice was abolished in 1983 when John Paul II revised the Code of Canon Law. Perhaps a canonist will see this thread and comment.
 
It had never occurred to me that this acting as proxy was even possible. I will certainly ask Fr. if this will be possible in this case. I had also thought of asking Fr. himself to be godfather so its good to know that he can, should he choose to accept the responsibility. Thanks so much for your replies. It has honestly taken a weight off knowing that this might be possible for us. Thank you and God bless you all. Will let you know how it works out! 👍
 
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