Beards and Gay Marriage

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Pick one - either it is ‘gaga lala nonsense’ to assert that it is possible (which I have not done, but the Catholic Church does) or it is not.😃
To assert what?

That God can incarnate in a virgin?

That’s gaga lala nonsense to propose that God can’t do this.
Please do. Show me where I claimed that “the Bible says that Mary and Joseph never had sex”.:ehh:
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Or where the Bible says this:
1 Peter 2:1
Amen!

Oh, how I love having non-believers searching the Scriptures! 😃

 
The two become so One that they become three.
I’ve heard this turn of phrase before, but biologically speaking, this simply does not occur except perhaps as a sort of romanticized abstraction about lovemaking. An emission of semen in a vagina does not make two people become one. It just can’t - whether fertilization does or does not occur or if it’s even possible for any given pair.
 
To assert what?
That it is possible for a woman to conceive without having sex. :rolleyes:
That’s gaga lala nonsense to propose that God can’t do this.
So you, not I, were asserting “gaga lala nonsense”! 👍
So no, you cannot show where I said what you claim. 🤷
Oh, how I love having non-believers searching the Scriptures! 😃
No need to search. It is an interesting book, and we’ve already seen that I know it better than you. 😉

Now, any chance of you addressing the topic, rather than making personal attacks?
 
I’ve heard this turn of phrase before, but biologically speaking, this simply does not occur except perhaps as a sort of romanticized abstraction about lovemaking. An emission of semen in a vagina does not make two people become one. It just can’t - whether fertilization does or does not occur or if it’s even possible for any given pair.
I wasn’t talking biologically.

I was talking ontologically.
 
That it is possible for a woman to conceive without having sex. :rolleyes:
I have never asserted that it’s impossible for a woman to conceive without having sex.

I am quite familiar with all sorts of artificial methods for achieving pregnancy.

Please re-read my position again, and then we can chat. 🙂
 
So no, you cannot show where I said what you claim. 🤷
I am happy to see you deny that the Bible ever makes any mention of Joseph and Mary never having sex.

You have learned something here, then. 🙂
No need to search. It is an interesting book, and we’ve already seen that I know it better than you. 😉
Fair enough. Perhaps you do. (:nope:)

So if I have misunderstood what you were claiming regarding your comment in response to my comment about marriage and sex being associated, please clarify.

What is it that the Bible says regarding marriage and sex, and how does it contradict what I was proposing?

Let me refresh your memory regarding this discourse:

I said:
And I find it astonishing that there are folks here who actually want to associate marriage without sex.
and this:
Because then it’s not a marriage. If they can’t become ONE FLESH, then they can’t be married.
And you responded:
So Joseph and Mary were not married according to you? 🤷

Gosh, almost as though they’ve read the Bible!
So it appears that you were saying that Joseph and Mary never had sex, and that when one reads the Bible one would see that.

Could you please clarify if that’s not what you meant, what did you mean?

Thanks. 👍
 
I wasn’t talking biologically.

I was talking ontologically.
Yep, which is why it pretty much doesn’t make sense when you use biological terms or biological phrasing to describe something that cannot actually be observed. Rape can certainly be ordered to creating a third life as well, but I wouldn’t phrase that as two becoming one either biologically or ontologically.
 
Yep, which is why it pretty much doesn’t make sense when you use biological terms or biological phrasing to describe something that cannot actually be observed.
Because, mjwise, the physical union reflects the ontological one.
Rape can certainly be ordered to creating a third life as well,
Absolutely incorrect.

It is not merely the physical act of intercourse which makes it “ordered to creating a third life”.

Just as the physical act of swinging a baseball bat (if it’s at someone’s head) doesn’t make it “ordered to” playing baseball.
but I wouldn’t phrase that as two becoming one either biologically or ontologically.
You are absolutely correct.

There is no ontological union in the case of rape.
 
Because, mjwise, the physical union reflects the ontological one.
Except that the appearance of physical union may be misleading or false as it pertains to an ontological union.
Absolutely incorrect.

It is not merely the physical act of intercourse which makes it “ordered to creating a third life”.
Assuming no contraception is used and the act climaxes with coitus, I disagree - rape can be ordered to the creation of life. It’s obviously defective in terms of consent, but it’s still ordered to creation of life.
You are absolutely correct.

There is no ontological union in the case of rape.
Which is precisely why the biological-sounding “two becomes one” phrasing tends to throw people off.
 
Except that the appearance of physical union may be misleading or false as it pertains to an ontological union.
Absolutely correct.

That is why premarital sex is so wrong.
Assuming no contraception is used and the act climaxes with coitus, I disagree - rape can be ordered to the creation of life. It’s obviously defective in terms of consent, but it’s still ordered to creation of life.
Only in the same way that swinging a bat towards someone’s head is ordered towards playing baseball.
Which is precisely why the biological-sounding “two becomes one” phrasing tends to throw people off.
I suppose, then, that you ought to have a talk with good old Jesus and tell him that? 😉
 
I was merely highlighting the fact that the person to whom that question was posed, who has been castigating me for not defining marriage (when I had already done so) was still refusing to answer the same question he was criticising me for allegedly not answering.
Now you know that person had in fact already answered your question.
 
Only in the same way that swinging a bat towards someone’s head is ordered towards playing baseball.
I disagree. It can still be ordered to life, unless being “ordered to life” has been defined in some very unintuitive way. I’m not sure there’s a baseball analogy to explain it.
I suppose, then, that you ought to have a talk with good old Jesus and tell him that? 😉
Christ was obviously using creation imagery (e.g. Genesis 2:24). I will take what you said and what Christ said in the same light I take Genesis 1 and 2.
 
Yep, which is why it pretty much doesn’t make sense when you use biological terms or biological phrasing to describe something that cannot actually be observed. Rape can certainly be ordered to creating a third life as well, but I wouldn’t phrase that as two becoming one either biologically or ontologically.
Logical mistake. Catholics say that sex should be ordered to giving life; they do not say that all things ordered to giving life are permissible.

Sure, rape and incest can be ordered to giving life; that doesn’t make them acceptable, in the least.
 
b) How do you claim to know what reasons a goy (or straight) couple might have for not procreating?
Let’s leave non-Jewish couples out of this, shall we? I see no reason for particularizing the discussion in that direction. 😃
 
Yep, which is why it pretty much doesn’t make sense when you use biological terms or biological phrasing to describe something that cannot actually be observed. Rape can certainly be ordered to creating a third life as well, but I wouldn’t phrase that as two becoming one either biologically or ontologically.
Well, the two do become one genetically, in the newly formed human being, which, I suppose, counts as “biological,” no?
 
I cited a review article, which was both published in a peer-reviewed journal and cites many many original studies.
You cited an article from a web-based bottom-tier journal. (If what I’m saying sounds like a foreign language then I’ll assume you’re not actually a “doctor”).
That you think it was about same-sex parenting only highlights how little you thought you are giving this debate.
I didn’t say your web-based essay was about same-sex parenting. Please pay attention.
The point, of course, is that while (some) Catholics try to assert that homosexuality damages civilisation, there is no evidence for this - and greater evidence that Catholicism does. :cool:
Nor did I say that “homosexuality damages civilization.” What I ***did ***say was that **if you’re serious about redefining norms" – which apparently you are – then please cite a study – since you’re keen on citing studies – from a top-tier journal that utilizes a reputable methodology (i.e, large, random, and representative sample observed longitudinally) demonstrating the equality of same-sex parenting.

If you’re not able to engage in more than one conversation, that’s fine, just be honest about it.
 
Logical mistake. Catholics say that sex should be ordered to giving life; they do not say that all things ordered to giving life are permissible.

Sure, rape and incest can be ordered to giving life; that doesn’t make them acceptable, in the least.
Yep. Which goes back to why I started all this and said the “two becomes one to make three” phrasing isn’t great in the first place. It mixes biology and ontology when they don’t necessarily coincide.
 
I disagree. It can still be ordered to life, unless being “ordered to life” has been defined in some very unintuitive way. I’m not sure there’s a baseball analogy to explain it.
It’s not “unintuitive” to frame “ordered to life” as the coordination of a man and woman toward procreation. When a man rapes a woman, that’s not coordination – that’s abuse. Just like you wouldn’t define waterboarding as practicing good hygiene, even though it does have some hygienic properties.
 
Which is precisely why the biological-sounding “two becomes one” phrasing tends to throw people off.
Well, no. The “two” being referred to are human persons that each have a physical and spiritual dimension (among others,) so the “two” cannot become one without becoming “one” in all the dimensions that make a human being, a human being.

A woman who was raped does not become one with the rapist in all the dimensions we would normally call “human.” For the “two” to become “one,” where human beings are involved, the two human beings must fully engage themselves, freely and unconditionally, as “human” beings on all requisite dimensions. It is not sufficient for human beings to become “one” only on some levels to meet the criteria for “oneness.”

I can, on an intellectual level, agree with another person’s idea, which does “unify” us at that level, but we are not “one” in the same way that Christ intended. His meaning, it seems to me, is proscriptive and prescriptive in the sense that we ought to fully understand what we are getting into BEFORE we set about binding ourselves to another human being on all levels - becoming fully “one” with them. The new “one” takes on “a life of its own” for which we bear full responsibility to each other and to the new “oneness” that has been created.
 
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