Just to play devil’s advocate, there are plenty of people who end up in horrible situations despite having a straight “lifestyle” as well. And plenty of gay people who end up in stable relationships, working steady jobs, and without any legal issues or drug abuse.
I was objecting to
punisherthunder’s posts because they imply that (1) his cousin’s parents actually could have prevented him from becoming gay by “drawing a line in the sand” and
(2) that citing an example of a gay man getting AIDS and a drug habit, is a strong argument against same-sex activity.
I just don’t think this kind of temporal “don’t have sex with guys because you’ll get AIDS” is at all a strong argument. First of all, though the “ick” factor is often much less for lesbian sex (especially from the POV of straight men, many find lesbian sex to be a kinky turn-on, even as they find male homosexual sex to be revolting), as is the risk of them getting AIDS or other STDs, that doesn’t somehow make lesbian sex less of a moral issue than male gay sex.
Listen to Servant of God Father John Hardons series on homosexuality, very good. He talks about how most people practicing same sex acts are living a lifestyle of same sex acts with many others and drugs. It makes sense. Someone that is plagued by sin, especially sexual sin, can never get enough, unless they are on the road to conversion will only get worse as sin increases. ]
Yes, many who are into the “gay lifestyle” are promiscuous hedonists, but so are many who are into the straight “hookup culture”. Sexual sin is real, but I’ve never been convinced by the idea that “gay sexual sin is 1000x worse than straight sexual sin” especially when people argue this is the case because the temporal consequences are worse.
Again, lesbians have a DECREASED risk of getting AIDS compared to straight women, does this make their sins less heavy than the sins of promiscuous straight women?
I think people who focus on the temporal consequences of homosexuality may mean well, but are not approaching this in the best way. Telling someone “gay sex is bad because it leads to AIDS” is not at all getting to the heart of the problem.
BTW I’d say the same for people who focus on the temporal adverse effects of the Pill to try to convince people not to use any method of contraception, telling someone “ABC is bad because the Pill leads to blood clots and cancer” is also not getting to the heart of the issue.