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In charity and respect I would like to put it in another way for you. When you go to worship with this family you will be making a public profession of THEIR faith if you appear to be worshipping with them. Pardon me if I missed it but I didn’t see where you said which faith we are talking about and maybe that is intentional. However, just for arguments sake lets say we are talking about islam and you go to worship “allah” with them. Even if, in your mind, you are worshipping Jesus as you bow down, you are still making a public statement that you are worshipping allah. That is a form denouncing Our Lord–publicly, if not privately.
Simply stated, you must not even appear to be worshipping another god. It is a very grave sin. Many martyrs were killed because they wouldn’t acknowledge the Roman emperor as a god. It would have been easier to just verbally say " oh yeah, he’s a god" and then silently say to themselves “no, there is only one God–Father, Son, and Holy Spirit”. But they didn’t do that, they chose death rather than say publicly that they believed in any other gods than their God.
Though the CCC says that a disparity of cult is not an insurmountable obstacle in a marriage, it is a really big one. If you proceed with the marriage, you will be missing out on a immense joy of worshipping with your spouse and possibly your future children. That is enormously painful, I know whereof I speak (to be fair, both my husband were non-Christians when we married, I later converted; he didn’t). Be that as it may, you may choose out of your love for this person to proceed with the marriage (hopefully following all of the steps to do so). If so, it would probably be best in terms of family harmony to keep worship separate. You may certainly go to a mosque or synagogue or whatever, but there must not be even the appearance of worship as the your in-laws do.
Hope that helps. It is said with love and no judgments. May our Lord help you discern how to proceed.
Simply stated, you must not even appear to be worshipping another god. It is a very grave sin. Many martyrs were killed because they wouldn’t acknowledge the Roman emperor as a god. It would have been easier to just verbally say " oh yeah, he’s a god" and then silently say to themselves “no, there is only one God–Father, Son, and Holy Spirit”. But they didn’t do that, they chose death rather than say publicly that they believed in any other gods than their God.
Though the CCC says that a disparity of cult is not an insurmountable obstacle in a marriage, it is a really big one. If you proceed with the marriage, you will be missing out on a immense joy of worshipping with your spouse and possibly your future children. That is enormously painful, I know whereof I speak (to be fair, both my husband were non-Christians when we married, I later converted; he didn’t). Be that as it may, you may choose out of your love for this person to proceed with the marriage (hopefully following all of the steps to do so). If so, it would probably be best in terms of family harmony to keep worship separate. You may certainly go to a mosque or synagogue or whatever, but there must not be even the appearance of worship as the your in-laws do.
Hope that helps. It is said with love and no judgments. May our Lord help you discern how to proceed.