I’m 9 hours from my Monastery - it is not ideal, but the Monastery (and I) have made it work. Before kids I went once a year, now that I have kids that’s a whole different story.

The nice thing about the distance is that the Oblate Director put me in contact with another local Oblate with the Monastery - so we are slowly forming a local Oblate group … a satellite of the Monastery, if that makes sense. We already have one person interested in becoming an Oblate and entered the Novitiate two months ago, and a few more who have expressed interest. We’ve met a few times and are in the process of discussing the book all the Oblates are reading. So, while we can’t make it for monthly meetings, we can still get together and be connected with the Monastery itself.
We also have an Oblate Facebook group for the Monastery that lets Oblates discuss stuff. The Monastery has a lot of distance Oblates.
BTW, I also have the Commentary for Benedictine Oblates that you linked, Jason. It is incredible but THICK. The language is very 1940’s/1950’s so a little bit different than something more contemporary, but it is a goldmine of knowledge. It has the daily reading, a commentary, and then an application of the day’s reading. It seems to be geared mainly for priest Oblates, but there is mention of lay Oblates, as well.
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