Benedictine Oblate #2

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7 hours:eek:

(I thought I had the record: my monastery is 4 hours away)
Yep, that’s why I contacted St. Gregory’s first. It is only about 2.5 hours away. There is also a Cistercian of the Common Observance Abbey about 2.5 hours away, but they don’t take Oblates.
 
It might come to that, but I am not sure.

4 - 5 hours away would allow me to get up there a few times a year. 6 - 10, probably once a year. Italy, never…

So with that in mind, I am inclined to seek something at least within driving distance if at all possible. I am not discounting the possibility of something else, but ideally, I would like to be able to go on retreats, and participate at some level in the life of the monastery.
The ideal would absolutely be to attend meetings. My oblate group is so far away, that the monks make it out 1-2 times yearly. Our meetings are on an every other month schedule (although I am able to sneak down to the monastery 1-2 times per year, myself).

If you can, drop in for the next Oblate meeting at the monastery nearest you. Again, you will know pretty quickly if they are orthodox or not…
 
Yep, that’s why I contacted St. Gregory’s first. It is only about 2.5 hours away. There is also a Cistercian of the Common Observance Abbey about 2.5 hours away, but they don’t take Oblates.
2.5 hours is a bit more do-able…

A shame about the Cistercians 😦
 
I’m 9 hours from my Monastery - it is not ideal, but the Monastery (and I) have made it work. Before kids I went once a year, now that I have kids that’s a whole different story. 😛 The nice thing about the distance is that the Oblate Director put me in contact with another local Oblate with the Monastery - so we are slowly forming a local Oblate group … a satellite of the Monastery, if that makes sense. We already have one person interested in becoming an Oblate and entered the Novitiate two months ago, and a few more who have expressed interest. We’ve met a few times and are in the process of discussing the book all the Oblates are reading. So, while we can’t make it for monthly meetings, we can still get together and be connected with the Monastery itself.

We also have an Oblate Facebook group for the Monastery that lets Oblates discuss stuff. The Monastery has a lot of distance Oblates.

BTW, I also have the Commentary for Benedictine Oblates that you linked, Jason. It is incredible but THICK. The language is very 1940’s/1950’s so a little bit different than something more contemporary, but it is a goldmine of knowledge. It has the daily reading, a commentary, and then an application of the day’s reading. It seems to be geared mainly for priest Oblates, but there is mention of lay Oblates, as well.

(Also, the maximum length of threads is about 1000 posts, in case anyone’s curious.)
 
I’m 9 hours from my Monastery - it is not ideal, but the Monastery (and I) have made it work. Before kids I went once a year, now that I have kids that’s a whole different story. 😛 The nice thing about the distance is that the Oblate Director put me in contact with another local Oblate with the Monastery - so we are slowly forming a local Oblate group … a satellite of the Monastery, if that makes sense. We already have one person interested in becoming an Oblate and entered the Novitiate two months ago, and a few more who have expressed interest. We’ve met a few times and are in the process of discussing the book all the Oblates are reading. So, while we can’t make it for monthly meetings, we can still get together and be connected with the Monastery itself.

We also have an Oblate Facebook group for the Monastery that lets Oblates discuss stuff. The Monastery has a lot of distance Oblates.

BTW, I also have the Commentary for Benedictine Oblates that you linked, Jason. It is incredible but THICK. The language is very 1940’s/1950’s so a little bit different than something more contemporary, but it is a goldmine of knowledge. It has the daily reading, a commentary, and then an application of the day’s reading. It seems to be geared mainly for priest Oblates, but there is mention of lay Oblates, as well.

(Also, the maximum length of threads is about 1000 posts, in case anyone’s curious.)
Good stuff. Thanks for the information.

Peace,
 
I’m 9 hours from my Monastery - it is not ideal, but the Monastery (and I) have made it work. Before kids I went once a year, now that I have kids that’s a whole different story. 😛 The nice thing about the distance is that the Oblate Director put me in contact with another local Oblate with the Monastery - so we are slowly forming a local Oblate group … a satellite of the Monastery, if that makes sense. We already have one person interested in becoming an Oblate and entered the Novitiate two months ago, and a few more who have expressed interest. We’ve met a few times and are in the process of discussing the book all the Oblates are reading. So, while we can’t make it for monthly meetings, we can still get together and be connected with the Monastery itself.

We also have an Oblate Facebook group for the Monastery that lets Oblates discuss stuff. The Monastery has a lot of distance Oblates.

BTW, I also have the Commentary for Benedictine Oblates that you linked, Jason. It is incredible but THICK. The language is very 1940’s/1950’s so a little bit different than something more contemporary, but it is a goldmine of knowledge. It has the daily reading, a commentary, and then an application of the day’s reading. It seems to be geared mainly for priest Oblates, but there is mention of lay Oblates, as well.

(Also, the maximum length of threads is about 1000 posts, in case anyone’s curious.)
This is exactly my situation (meetings, I mean; although our monk director I guess you’d call him, makes the drive 1-2 times yearly. He’s in his early 80’s, may God bless him)
 
I decided today to e-mail the Pastor of Saint John’s Basilica in Des Moines, IA which is where I was last Christmas when I first started becoming interested in Benedictine Spirituality. I simply explained my situation and how important fidelity to the Church is to me and asked if he had any suggestions. I know that magisterial faithfulness is very important to him as he preaches about it with regularity, typically tied with humility which is a pretty Benedictine approach. Here is a recent homily where he discusses that exact thing: youtube.com/watch?v=LJaDg1gjSxE&feature=g-u-u&context=G221cb52FUAAAAAAARAA

I made sure to tell him that I was not asking him to speak bad about anyone, particularly his brothers. Rather I hoped he might just suggest a place within reasonable distance that he thought might be a good fit for me. I mentioned that I had some contact with St. Gregory’s but left it at that. If he suggests them himself, all the better.

Anyway, I am hopeful that something good might come out of my request. At this point, I have not heard anything back from Clear Creek Abbey in OK so I am assuming they don’t have Oblates or are too busy to deal with it right now.

Peace,

Jason
 
Sounds like a great approach. 👍

I don’t see any oblates listed for Clear Creek.😦
 
Sounds like a great approach. 👍
I hope so. I am sure he is busy trying to run a parish and be a Monk at the same time.
I don’t see any oblates listed for Clear Creek.😦
Me either. I tried contacting them anyway in case it was there but me not seeing it but have not heard back. I sent an e-mail, waited a week, and then left a voicemail but haven’t heard anything.

Oh well…
 
I just finished this book: amazon.com/How-Monastic-Not-Leave-Your/dp/1557254494/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top

I have to say that I was a bit disappointed. Brother’s writing style is nice and he tells some funny stories but that was about it. There was hardly any discussion of practical aspects of living the Oblate life. In addition, there was a very odd feel to it throughout as he repeatedly quotes and discusses non-Catholic Oblates far more than Catholic ones. The only Catholic he seems to quote on a regular basis is the notorious Sister Chittister.

I will more than likely be trying to sell this book. I have Brother’s book on the Rule and I am hopeful that it will be better than this one.

Peace.
 
I just finished this book: amazon.com/How-Monastic-Not-Leave-Your/dp/1557254494/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top

I have to say that I was a bit disappointed. Brother’s writing style is nice and he tells some funny stories but that was about it. There was hardly any discussion of practical aspects of living the Oblate life. In addition, there was a very odd feel to it throughout as he repeatedly quotes and discusses non-Catholic Oblates far more than Catholic ones. The only Catholic he seems to quote on a regular basis is the notorious Sister Chittister.

I will more than likely be trying to sell this book. I have Brother’s book on the Rule and I am hopeful that it will be better than this one.

Peace.
I have been tempted to buy it. Thanks for saving me the money.

I just ordered 2 books on Lectio Divina. I will review them here. 🙂

amazon.com/dp/0809129590/ref=pe_175190_21431760_B1_cs_sce_dp_1 (recommended by “my” monks)

and

amazon.com/dp/0892438916/ref=pe_175190_21431760_B1_cs_sce_3p_dp_1 (ordered before I got the recommendation :o )
 
Jason, I read that book a few years ago and DETESTED it, for the same reasons you cited.

The Monastery I am attached to is reading this book, beginning I believe this fall: Conversation with St. Benedict
Thanks. I wouldn’t say that I detested it, but I was disappointed to be sure. I have the one you listed on my wish list for the future. Please give us a review when you finish it, particularly if you read it prior to when the rest of your group does.

Cheers!

Jason
 
🙂 Maybe detest is a strong word, but I know I was NOT impressed with the book. I think it could have been loads better, but that’s just me.

I do plan on starting the Convos with St. Benedict book soon. I don’t know if our little local Oblate group will read it ahead of the Big Oblate Group, I asked so we’ll see what we all decide on doing. But even if we wait for the Big Oblate Group, I’ll still read it ahead of time and report back here. 😉
 
🙂 Maybe detest is a strong word, but I know I was NOT impressed with the book. I think it could have been loads better, but that’s just me.

I do plan on starting the Convos with St. Benedict book soon. I don’t know if our little local Oblate group will read it ahead of the Big Oblate Group, I asked so we’ll see what we all decide on doing. But even if we wait for the Big Oblate Group, I’ll still read it ahead of time and report back here. 😉
Thank you:thumbsup:
 
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