Someone pointed something out to me: God owes salvation to nobody. To look at the unevangelized and say, “It’s not fair for them to miss out on being saved,” might be applying our will to God.
As an example, suppose a lottery winner was standing on a street corner in my city and handing out some of his winnings in his joy, to anyone who will accept them. I don’t know this is going on. Eventually someone comes running into my house and gasping and panting says, “There’s a guy down the street just giving money away!”
I jump up, run out of the house, and down the street to find the crowd dispersing and the lottery winner walking away. I call out to him, “Wait, I want some money too!” and he turns around and says, “Sorry, but I’ve given away all that I’m willing to give up. You’re too late.”
I might be angry at my bad luck, but would it be fair of me to demand that I deserve a handout because I didn’t know until it was too late? I am owed a piece of the pie because it’s not my fault I didn’t know, and he isn’t allowed to let me walk away disappointed? After all, a lot of other people got money when he was feeling generous, so as a matter of course, so should I.
No, I have no right to demand anything of him. Even if it’s not my fault that I didn’t know, it’s not his fault I didn’t, either, and truth be told, he owes me nothing, since I’ve never done anything for him or expressed any interest in him until I found out about the money.
Now, does that mean definitively he won’t give me something? Not necessarily; maybe he’ll pity me despite my sense of entitlement and hand over some cash, or even some trinket, like a ring he bought with his winnings. It’s his call. But then again, I have no right to expect anything from him, no demand I could reasonably make of him, and if he decides to give me nothing, I don’t have a choice but to accept that. And that goes not only for me, but whatever friends I might have whom I might have wanted to share the money with in turn. Those other people might have had the luck (or grace) to be there at the right time, but I did not.