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Thank you. I hope you keep us informed.The priest said he would address the issue, but offered no further information, except that he agrees there was a distraction.
I’m sorry that some of your fellow parishioners are unhappy. Have you spoken to them personally? How many Spanish masses do you have available? It you have Spanish masses available, why do they think the lack of bilingual ones is discrimination?As far as your previous statements, our church has plenty of opportunities for english masses and spanish masses. The parish is generally happy with this balance. The problem is, there are some outspoken individuals who see it as racial discrimination that there are not more bilingual masses. This is generally because no one wants them, and there aren’t the priests for it.
Yes.I am curious. Are you bilingual?
Yes.Have you been to a bilingual mass?
My parish has a number of bilingual masses each year including the Easter Vigil. Only the Easter Vilgil takes anywhere from 2 to 3 hours and that’s because of the nature of the Vigil. The others take no longer than a regular Sunday mass. The last time we had a bilingual mass (I think for the feast of the Immaculate Conception) I don’t believe it took longer than 40-45 minutes.For us, a bilingual mass is nothing but a headache. They generally run 2-3 hours long, and all the while everyone is lost due to dual-language acitivies, and the cultural differences bother both sides.
Do you mean the sanctuary or the nave? (I’m curious about the floorplan of you church if the toddlers can approach the altar).The biggest of which is english speakers frustrated that toddlers are allowed free-reign on the sanctuary. They run around (even up near the altar), scream, talk loudly, play in the aisles, and even stand in the pews while prayers, or even when transubstatiation is taking place.
Our church has asked parishioners to keep better tabs on their children, and most people are pretty good about. If a toddler is truly, truly disruptive a parent will take them outside. If kids really are being disruptive this is something your pastor needs to address.The parents make no effort to stop, since this is acceptable to them, and many can’t hear what is going on.
Catholics generally bring their kids to mass. Some of us have crying-rooms but most of our parishes don’t have Sunday School or day care to keep the kids occupied. Generally we’re not used to doing things that way. There’ve been threads dealing with kids at mass before so maybe you’d like to do a forum search and read through them.
I will say that at my church one old priest at my church has preached about kids at mass. He says that everytime a baby screams or cries it’s a good thing because parent’s should be bringing to mass right from the start. You gotta get’em interested while they’re young, he says. He says that when he gets complaints he’s old enough to tell them ‘I knew you when you were little and you weren’t so well behaved yourself!”. This old priest serves at one of our English masses.
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